Ben Canham
@bencanham.bsky.social
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I lost both my parents at 19. I’ve been
bullied and attacked for simply being
myself. After 13 years on social media,
I’ve found my voice. I’m not less than
anyone I just see the world differently.
Thank you for letting me be me here.
bencanham.bsky.social
I don’t share my story for sympathy.
I share it to show how far I’ve come. If
my journey helps even one person get
through their own hard times then it’s
worth it. That’s all I’ve ever wanted.
bencanham.bsky.social
I hope no one else has to go
through what I did let down by
social services and ignored when
I needed help most. The system
isn’t made for people like me. We
need better support for autistic,
grieving, and struggling people.
Everyone deserves better.
bencanham.bsky.social
Looking back, I’m amazed
at how far I’ve come. It hasn’t
been easy, but I’m proud of the
person I’m becoming. I hope
my parents are proud too.
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Six years ago, I was at my lowest
hospitalized, scared, and convinced
I’d never feel whole again. Every day
since has been a quiet battle to rebuild
the confidence I thought was lost forever.
Some days are still hard, but I’m still
standing. And that means everything.
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I’ve faced so much, but I’m choosing to turn
those struggles into growth. Every small step
forward is a victory rebuilding my confidence,
finding new strength. Healing isn’t easy, but it’s
worth it. And I’m proud of how far I’ve come.
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By 19, I’d lost both parents. Bullied in
school. Ignored by family. Left out of
my mom’s funeral. Abandoned for
being autistic. Let down by the system.
I nearly gave up. But I didn’t. I’m still
here. Still healing. And that means
something. #WorldMentalHealthDay
bencanham.bsky.social
Two years ago I met
@mrjamesob.bsky.social
in Edinburgh at his book
event. He was every bit as
thoughtful, kind and engaging
in person as he is on the radio.
A real gentleman it was a
pleasure to meet him.
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Healing is hard, but this little corner
of the internet reminds me we don’t have
to go through it alone. Whether you’ve just
found your way here or you’ve been here
from the start thank you for being part of
this space. I’m grateful for you. ❤️
bencanham.bsky.social
Every morning I wake up
and read your comments.
It’s become a grounding part
of my day. I’ve been on here 13
years now, and some of you
have been with me through it
all the highs and lows, the
laughter and the heartache.
Thank you for staying.
bencanham.bsky.social
I’m not sharing my story for sympathy.
I’m sharing it because I know how hard it is
to feel alone in the dark. If my words help
just one person keep going, that’s everything.
This is my way of turning pain into power.
bencanham.bsky.social
I am not defined by what happened
to me. I am the author of my story and
I’m choosing how it goes from here.
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Looking back, it’s hard to believe how far I’ve come. 😊
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Every day this place feels more
like home. I'm sleeping better,
breathing easier, and slowly
starting to feel like me again. 😊
bencanham.bsky.social
Some days are still hard but
now, there’s a softness to life again.
I’m not just surviving anymore. I’m
beginning to live again. And this
new place is a big part of that.
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I’m settling into my new place
really well. It finally feels like mine
calm, safe, and full of small signs
that I’m moving forward. There’s
still a way to go, but for the first time
in a long time, I feel like I’m home.
And that means everything.
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It’s taken me a long time to leave the
house again after being attacked in the
street. But today, I walked to the shops
by myself. Just me. No panic, no turning
back. After everything, I felt calm. I felt
proud. I’m getting my confidence back.
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I hope you all enjoyed the tour of
my new place and thank you all once
again for the amazing love and support
it means more than you know. ❤️
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After a few days of hard work,
I’m finally able to share a tour of
my new home. I was nervous about
filming this felt pretty self-conscious
about how I might come across on
camera. But this is a big step for me,
and I wanted to share it anyway.
Hope you enjoy the videos. 😊
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I will do a video tour of my new place tomorrow! 😊
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I have officially moved into my new home. 😀
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Arrived at my hotel for the night
after a total of 372 mile drive
down from Kinross, Scotland all
the way down to Northampton in
England I’m exhausted so time
for bed good night everyone. 😊
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Apologies for not responding to
any messages it's been non-stop today.
I’ll catch up on messages once I’m
settled. Just wanted to share a quick
update and say thank you to everyone
for the amazing support. ❤️