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How to Keep Your D/S Relationship Strong When Life Gets Chaotic - Chatting With The Lightkeeper

Chatting With The Lightkeeper @chattingwiththelightkeeper.com · 3d

Has life ever moved at warp speed for you? Have you ever struggled to manage D/S while at light speed?

This week’s Monday Minute is here to help providing practical ideas on how to manage life and lifestyle. #D/S #BDSM #kinkeducation #BDSMeducation
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Finding ways to maintain your D/S relationship when life feels overwhelming, can feel impossible but this piece is here to help see you through.

Fetish Wear-ween: The Night You Do Not Have to Wear a Mask - Chatting With The Lightkeeper

Chatting With The Lightkeeper @chattingwiththelightkeeper.com · 6d

Do you know what is fabulous about #BDSM and Halloween?

Halloween offers a unique opportunity, discover how All Hallows Eve grants permission to step into the daylight. As long as you are not a vampire!

Find out how in this week’s Fet Friday.
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Happy Fetish Friday, and happy Halloween! Tonight offers something rare: the chance to explore why one night a year grants permission denied every other day, and how people who wear leather, latex, an...

Chatting With The Lightkeeper @chattingwiththelightkeeper.com · 6d

There is nothing wrong with being #kinky or involved in #BDSM.

Never apologize for being yourself.

Luxury - Chatting With The Lightkeeper

Chatting With The Lightkeeper @chattingwiththelightkeeper.com · 8d

What is luxury? Coffee in a Styrofoam cup? Rain pouring in through an open car window? A haunting, relentless ghost brought on by song? #poem #poetry

This Wordsmith Wednesday’s verse strips the shine off luxury
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This Wordsmith Wednesday poem is in search of that thing that is always just out of reach, the luxury. Have you searched for it too?

In BDSM and Kink You've Gotta Tell’m What You Really Want S.4 Episode 22 #alternativelifestyle

Chatting With The Lightkeeper @chattingwiththelightkeeper.com · 9d

What do the Spice Girls and #BDSM have in common? Find out in the new episode of the Chatting With The Lightkeeper podcast and discover just how common what we call uncommon actually is.

Available wherever you get your #podcasts or tap the link to watch it on YouTube.
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The Quiet Dominant: Why D/S Does Not Require Extroversion - Chatting With The Lightkeeper

Chatting With The Lightkeeper @chattingwiththelightkeeper.com · 10d

Ever wonder why dominance is assumed to be loud and impossible to ignore?

This Monday Minute explains how it can be the opposite. Learn how these myths can distort authentic dominance. #bdsm #d/s #kinkeducation
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People assume dominance must be loud, impossible to ignore, and full of spectacle. Movies, porn, and corporate culture have hammered that image into the collective imagination. Dominance, in D/S, is o...

Foot Fetishes A Soleful Adventure - Chatting With The Lightkeeper

Chatting With The Lightkeeper @chattingwiththelightkeeper.com · 13d

Ready for a soleful adventure?

Almost half of people have a foot fetish, so why is something this common treated like a secret?

The week’s Fetish Friday will not step on your toes, so walk on over & see what all the fuss is about. #bdsm #fetish
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47% of people have a foot fetish, so why does it feel taboo? From ancient China to your bedroom discover why feet, for some, are so damn hot.

Chatting With The Lightkeeper @chattingwiththelightkeeper.com · 13d

You can be an amazing submissive & still:

- Say no
- Prioritize your needs
- Express your wants
- Disagree
- Address harmful behavior
- Walk away from bad behavior
- Trust your instincts
- Take breaks when needed
- Set/keep boundaries
- Maintain your independence

What would you add? #BDSM

The Escape - Chatting With The Lightkeeper

Chatting With The Lightkeeper @chattingwiththelightkeeper.com · 15d

Every try to leave a place or person that never let you go?

Some refuse to say goodbye and this Wordsmith Wednesday returns with The Escape. A #poem about leaving and what still follows. #poetry #wordsmithwednesday
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This poem for Wordsmith Wednesday examines life in a small town and what it takes to escape from that same place.

Trust Your Gut in BDSM - Chatting With The Lightkeeper

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🐴Chip🐴 @ Furpoc @chipthepony.bsky.social · 17d

What better way to end the day than working out all the energy you have left in carting before turning in for the stables?
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Photo by @raymond.fee.sh

#Latex #Ponyplay #Petplay #Kink

Chip carting with Jessy at pony camp Denmark. Taken at sunset.

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Chatting With The Lightkeeper @chattingwiththelightkeeper.com · 17d

When you meet someone new, what do you trust more, Google or your gut?

This week’s Monday Minute explores why we need to trust our instincts in #BDSM as well as #vetting. Find out what your intuition knows before your search bar does.
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A sense of unease is impossible to ignore once it arrives. You meet someone in the community, ask questions, check references, and everything looks fine. Still, something twists in your stomach, subtl...

Why Threesomes, Foursomes, and Group Sex Is So Compelling - Chatting With The Lightkeeper

Chatting With The Lightkeeper @chattingwiththelightkeeper.com · 20d

Are you one of the 89% with this fantasy?

This is not some number concocted by a sex toy company. Real research backs it up! #sex #bdsm #alternativelifestyle

This week’s Fetish Friday looks at this surprising stat.
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Nearly everyone has fantasized about multiple partners, yet we treat it like a shameful secret. Discover why this desire is so powerful.

Chatting With The Lightkeeper @chattingwiththelightkeeper.com · 20d

It's important in #BDSM to not be shy about one's desires. This is especially true for submissives. It is perfectly okay to ask for the pleasure you want, need, & crave. Dominants are not mind readers.

So no matter your role, do not be timid about asking for those kinktastic things that you want.

Buried in a Drawer - Chatting With The Lightkeeper

Chatting With The Lightkeeper @chattingwiththelightkeeper.com · 22d

Small towns like to believe they do not have city problems, but no place is too small for injustice to take root. #poem #poetry

This week’s Wordsmith Wednesday looks closer at that truth & while the verse may sound modern, its echo is 55 years old.
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He did not do it, but that was never the point, not when the badge needed a body and the town needed quiet. The facts were thin, but the headlines were thick, and they printed guilt before the jury ha...

ADHD in D/S: Challenges and Solutions - Chatting With The Lightkeeper

Chatting With The Lightkeeper @chattingwiththelightkeeper.com · 23d

How did you discover #BDSM?

My story began with an ancient Roman historian, a taco craving, & a healthy dose of naivety. Then came the moment I ran into a professor at what seemed like the wrong place (a porn store) at the wrong time.

Just search ChattingWithTheLightkeeper where you get your pods

Chatting With The Lightkeeper @chattingwiththelightkeeper.com · 24d

DHD in #D/S can bring both challenges & surprises.

Whether you have ADHD, care about someone who does, or just want to learn more.

This Monday Minute can help with insights and strategies.
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Whether you have ADHD, care about someone who does, or just want to understand more about it and D/S, this article will help.

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Chatting With The Lightkeeper @chattingwiththelightkeeper.com · 25d

Dominants, be your submissive's beacon, guiding them through the storms of life and into the sanctuary of the safe harbor that is your loving arms. #BDSM #D/S

ALT: a lighthouse in the middle of a body of water at sunset

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Fun Fetish Facts: What the Statistics Actually Say - Chatting With The Lightkeeper

Chatting With The Lightkeeper @chattingwiththelightkeeper.com · 27d

What #fetish gets searched over 1,300 times an hour?
This week's Fetish Friday breaks down the numbers behind kinks & fetishes. What do the statistics tell us about the desires that society pretends do not exist?
This is not a boring stats lecture!
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Welcome back to another Fetish Friday, where the statistics tell stories that most people never hear whispered in polite conversation, and where the numbers reveal that human sexuality contains far mo...

Chatting With The Lightkeeper @chattingwiththelightkeeper.com · 28d

Dominants, do you want your submissive to open up and be vulnerable with you?

Try opening up and being vulnerable to them and watch what grows out of that.
#D/S #BDSM

Spanking A Love Language - Chatting With The Lightkeeper

Chatting With The Lightkeeper @chattingwiththelightkeeper.com · 29d

Do you know the five love languages? Can #spanking be a love language? #BDSM #D/S #poem

Wordsmith Wednesday takes poetic license and asks that spanktastic question! Discover for yourself in this week’s verse.
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Can a spanking be a love language? The latest poem in the Wordsmith Wednesday series explores how a rhythmic exchange of sensation becomes a profound dialogue of desire, trust, and connection within a...

Chatting With The Lightkeeper @chattingwiththelightkeeper.com · 29d

There is nothing wrong with you, including your attraction to #BDSM. Your interests do not define you; they are a part of your journey.

You are not broken. Accept yourself & engage with your desires confidently. Your path is valid, & there is strength in understanding who you are & what you seek.

BDSM Before the Digital Age - Chatting With The Lightkeeper

Chatting With The Lightkeeper @chattingwiththelightkeeper.com · Oct 6

Did you know #BDSM existed before the internet? Even when societies tried to erase it?

This week’s Monday Minute explores kink before the internet & this is no ordinary history lesson, it is kinktastic!

See how BDSM evolved into what it is today.
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Kink has always existed, even when society tried to erase it. Long before online communities, people found secret ways to explore BDSM, dominance and submission, and erotic curiosity. Hidden clubs, co...

Fetish Friday: Understanding Financial Domination (Findom) - Chatting With The Lightkeeper

Chatting With The Lightkeeper @chattingwiththelightkeeper.com · Oct 3

Some argue this is not part of #BDSM, while others believe if ethically done it belongs. This week’s Fetish Friday explores Financial Domination #Findom. Giving you the unbiased look you need to unpack the fascination and fantasy from the reality.
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Financial domination, more commonly known as Findom, is one of the most fascinating corners of the D/S spectrum because it places money itself at the center of erotic exchange. At its core, Findom inv...

Sacred Studies - Chatting With The Lightkeeper

Chatting With The Lightkeeper @chattingwiththelightkeeper.com · Oct 1

Dominance is deeper than physical acts, it takes reverence and study.

A dominant must treat a submissive like a sacred text and this week’s Wordsmith Wednesday turns this education into verse.

Discover the depth of dominance in Sacred Studies.
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Sacred Studies, a poem that drives home the need for a dominant to learn, to study, their submissive to provide the leadership needed.