ChiTheMonkey 🏳️‍🌈 watches the crossroads at midnight.
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Books and games and stories and gender and parenthood Still Haerzhal Irynbergasyn (Aether-Faerie) Likely older than you. Wife of @gosmrwngz.bsky.social Cocktails at #chidrinks Elder Library Person. Yes, that one *Very* pretty woman. Ook (she/her)
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Just a warning for anyone who wanders in here because I said something cool somewhere about comic books, RPGs, or libraries... my feed here is mostly me babbling about videogames (or my transition) 🤣
chithemonkey.bsky.social
Yeah. My mum's far from perfect, but she's not *that*

And she's given me some family jewelry since she learned she's got a daughter, which has been it's own source of tears 🥲
chithemonkey.bsky.social
With me in the Clay position, to clarify.

Sadly, I didn't do a good enough job 😔
chithemonkey.bsky.social
I don't imagine I'll have much of that, my family's been supportive, and I was never a fragile twig.

For me the family bits that have hit have been about how Clay feels towards Maxine, and the stuff that happened before the book starts
chithemonkey.bsky.social
I wish I had access to that kind of public transportation, to be honest. 🤣
chithemonkey.bsky.social
Yeah, I definitely already had a bit of that. My wife regretted she was driving and couldn't wrap me up in a hug 😅💜
chithemonkey.bsky.social
Book two of WYFFH, or Dorley?

WYFFH 2 is where I started getting the sucker punches (in no small part because of entirely non-gender, sibling feelings)
chithemonkey.bsky.social
See, I'm current with Dorley, just started book 2 of WYFFH.

We'll see how things shake out when I'm caught up with both 😅
chithemonkey.bsky.social
That sounds very hard 🫂

I have advice, but I don't know how welcome it'd be (much less how applicable)
chithemonkey.bsky.social
So don't fight her.

Just deprioritize her opinions. They obviously aren't worth much.

Put on the makeup, Shinji.

I mean Cesena.
chithemonkey.bsky.social
Fuck her Ces.

You have other, better, family.

Hope you get back on it, you looked good.
chithemonkey.bsky.social
For those of you familiar, I have begun reading 'The Cheerleader Story' and it is hitting far, far harder than Dorley did.

I think because we're getting to see a young woman realize and accept (however improbably) that she's trans, with all the turmoil that often accompanies that revelation.
chithemonkey.bsky.social
I do gel, so it's usually pretty durable, but this color has just been absolute trash.

Gorgeous, but it does not want to stay on my dang nails
chithemonkey.bsky.social
I love this color of polish, but it's not durable at *all*

I'm going to just have my 'working nails' (pointer and middle) trimmed down on the 24th, see if that helps any.

(Sure my wife won't object)
chithemonkey.bsky.social
It was actually a tiny bit fraught, as the woman at the door was an older pinched-face dame who I had to argue with a bit like 'No, really, that is me, just rather an old photo 😅'
chithemonkey.bsky.social
Yeah, before I updated my card at CostCo they stopped me at the door because I had 'My husband's card'
chithemonkey.bsky.social
Oh, I was cackling my way back to the car with an armful of bitters.

I was tickled, quite over the moon.

But then I'd already gotten my ID updated with the important details, so. 🤷‍♀️
chithemonkey.bsky.social
Cheerleaders can do anything, including make me cry apparently.
chithemonkey.bsky.social
Bit of fiction catching me unawares, where an older sibling stopped a younger sibling from doing something rather final to themselves. 🥲😭

Tomorrow sure is shot day, huh.😅