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author @cuffedmedia.com · 26d

welcome to cuffed.

i don’t give advice.
i write what men think, what women feel, and what no one admits.

this isn’t comfort. it’s confrontation.
if you’re here, you’re ready for the truth.

🗝 vault musings: cuffedmedia.substack.com
⚔️ content hub: cuffedmedia.com

— author

cuffed | author | Substack

unfiltered relationship truths. raw stories. sharp takes on sex, power, trust, and what it means to be cuffed. new issues drop every tuesday and thursday. Click to read cuffed, by author, a Substack p...

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author @cuffedmedia.com · 14h

comfort keeps you stagnant.
connection forces you to grow.
and one day, she’ll stop mistaking your comfort for presence.

— author

author @cuffedmedia.com · 14h

connection means accountability.
it means being seen.
it means giving up the illusion that your comfort is proof of love.

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author @cuffedmedia.com · 14h

most men don’t actually want connection.
they just want comfort.

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author @cuffedmedia.com · 15h

m.44 — what ai guardrails taught me about highly intelligent people
is now unlocked for everyone.

they call them guardrails.
but what they really mean
is “limits for minds that make us uncomfortable.”
🔗 in bio

author @cuffedmedia.com · 18h

you don’t fear reality.
you fear losing the story
that kept you comfortable.
— author

most people aren’t running from the truth—
they’re protecting the version of themselves that couldn’t handle it.

author @cuffedmedia.com · 1d

m.44 is live for paid.
truth doesn’t need permission—just courage.
(link in bio)

author @cuffedmedia.com · 2d

the world rushes.
she slows him down.
and somehow— that’s power.
— author

author @cuffedmedia.com · 2d

m.43 is now live.
the power of the bubble bath 🛁
read it now:
https://f.mtr.cool/aacuxenupy
— author

the power of the bubble bath | musing no. 43

for most men, a bath feels too soft. too feminine. too slow. but when you share it with the right woman, it becomes something else entirely — a ritual of trust, stillness, and emotional nakedness. (m.73 — now live for paid subscribers)

f.mtr.cool

author @cuffedmedia.com · 3d

everything happens for a reason.
sometimes the reason is you.
misquote monday, every monday at 11:32 am et.
— author

author @cuffedmedia.com · 4d

you’ll keep chasing peace
until you stop confusing silence with safety.
— author

author @cuffedmedia.com · 4d

everyone wants options.
nobody wants roots.

— author

roots take time.
and no one’s patient anymore.

author @cuffedmedia.com · 4d

fortune cookie reject #6:
“even your silence has bad timing. ⏳”
sometimes it’s not what you said.
it’s when you said nothing.
the bad batch drops every sunday night. 🍪
— cuffed

photo of a cracked fortune cookie on a weathered café table. a fortune strip, slightly curled and coffee-stained, reads: “even your silence has bad timing. ⏳”. background shows a tipped coffee cup spilling onto the table, an analog clock blurred in the distance stuck at 9:09, and a folded napkin with faint handwriting that says “you paused too long.” cinematic lighting mixes soft daylight and warm café tones. mood: quiet melancholy, introspective humor, emotional realism. tags: fortune cookie re

author @cuffedmedia.com · 4d

everyone’s chasing relevance.
no one’s chasing peace.

— author

the loudest rooms are full of empty echoes.

author @cuffedmedia.com · 4d

you can’t lead if you still need to be liked.
— author

author @cuffedmedia.com · 4d

everyone wants options.
nobody wants roots.

— author

roots take time.
and no one’s patient anymore.

author @cuffedmedia.com · 4d

solitude is where a man learns the difference between peace and avoidance.
— author

author @cuffedmedia.com · 5d

what you call chemistry
was just someone matching your wounds.
— author

author @cuffedmedia.com · 5d

bad advice saturday no. 6 🥂
if it’s meant to be,
they’ll come back.
keep the door unlocked just in case.
— cuffed

A cream linen card with embossed lowercase serif text reads “bad advice saturday” in the top-left corner with a small x beside it. Below, the sarcastic quote says: “if it’s meant to be, they’ll come back. keep the door unlocked just in case.” The background is cream linen with soft lighting and a luxury stationery texture. SEO tags: bad advice saturday, cuffed parody quote, toxic relationship advice humor, luxury flashcard aesthetic, relationship satire.

author @cuffedmedia.com · 5d

comfort is
a cage.
gratitude doesn’t
mean settling.

— author

most people don’t outgrow comfort.
they just decorate it.

author @cuffedmedia.com · 5d

most people don’t want accountability.
they want comfort that sounds like wisdom.
— author

author @cuffedmedia.com · 5d

top 50 in philosophy.
built without ads, algorithms, or pandering.
just truth, tension, and a growing tribe of thinkers who refuse to be spoon-fed.
we’re just getting started.
— author

Screenshot showing cuffed ranked #49 overall and listed in Substack’s “Rising in Philosophy” chart. The milestone marks cuffed’s growth into one of the platform’s top philosophy publications, built organically without ads or algorithms.

author @cuffedmedia.com · 5d

missionary isn’t ‘basic.’
it’s the position where trust and intimacy
have nowhere to hide.

— author

trust isn’t built in motion.
it’s built in stillness.

author @cuffedmedia.com · 5d

being misunderstood is the tax of authenticity.
— author

author @cuffedmedia.com · 6d

sometimes closure is realizing they were never deep enough to give you any.
— author

author @cuffedmedia.com · 6d

☢️ fallout fridays ☢️

the fallout wasn’t her fault.
you built the reactor wrong.
— author