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Not motivation. Not advice. These are fragments of thought. Just awareness written in words. If it speaks to you, the rest waits on BuyMeACoffee 📖 buymeacoffee.com/grow4yo
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The goal was never more followers.

It was more freedom.

To speak without fear.
To build without begging.
To grow without noise.

That’s the real algorithm. 🕊️

Grow 📖
2026 won’t change you.
It’ll reveal the change you’ve been avoiding.

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Writing a book for the ones growing through the quiet years.
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Here’s what 2026 will quietly teach you 👇🏽

1. The race was never real • only peace lasts.
2. Real friends won’t compete with your calm.
3. Success won’t excite you as much as stillness will.
4. Healing won’t look like progress • it’ll look like disappearing
5. You’ll stop chasing, and start choosing
In 2026:

Most of us born in the late 90s will finally realise,
growth was never about becoming someone new,
it was about returning to who we’ve always been.

• Born in 1994 → 32 in 2026
• Born in 1995 → 31
• Born in 1996 → 30
• Born in 1997 → 29
• Born in 1998 → 28
• Born in 2000 → 26
The goal was never more followers.

It was more freedom.

To speak without fear.
To build without begging.
To grow without noise.

That’s the real algorithm. 🕊️

Grow 📖
The illusion says, “you should be further.”

But growth doesn’t follow a calendar.

It follows surrender.

1️⃣ Time is a mirror, not a race.
2️⃣ Pressure is just presence without peace.
The World Series isn’t the game.
It’s the illusion that the world needs a winner.
Everyone wants to celebrate victory,
but few understand
peace begins when you stop keeping score. ⚾️
Thank you, Mark
Appreciate you sharing it that means a lot.
We’re all just learning to grow at the pace truth allows 🌱
7️⃣ “You have time.” You are time. Don’t waste yourself.

Your 20s aren’t about becoming.
They’re about unbecoming everything false.

You don’t grow by adding. You grow by seeing. 🌿
3️⃣ “You need to prove your worth.” You were already born with it.
4️⃣ “Love should complete you.” It should free you.
5️⃣ “Healing means being positive.” It means being honest.
6️⃣ “Clarity comes from answers.” It comes from silence.
7 illusions your 20s will destroy

In your 20s, everything looks like a race
but life isn’t counting.

Here’s what you’ll unlearn: ↓

1️⃣ “Success is speed.” No. It’s stability.
2️⃣ “Everyone’s ahead.” Nobody really knows where they’re going.
4️⃣ What looks like “stuck” is often “seeded.”
5️⃣ Becoming is forgetting who they told you to be.

You’re not behind.
You’re blooming in silence.
The world will see it when it’s ready, not when you rush. 🌿
The illusion says, “you should be further.”
But growth doesn’t follow a calendar.
It follows surrender.

1️⃣ Time is a mirror ~ not a race.
2️⃣ Pressure is just fear wearing a deadline.
3️⃣ Rest is progress you can’t see yet.
IN 2026:

• Born in 1998 → 28
• Born in 1999 → 27
• Born in 2000 → 26
• Born in 2001 → 25
• Born in 2002 → 24
• Born in 2003 → 23
• Born in 2004 → 22
• Born in 2005 → 21

You think you’re late.
But you’re actually right on time for your becoming.
Halo on PlayStation feels like the McDonald’s-in-Moscow moment of gaming history.
4. 33, 34, 35
the age where *the mirror cracks,*
and what’s left isn’t reflection
but *reality.*
You don’t grow higher,
you fall deeper.
And in that fall,
you finally stop falling.

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3. You stop trying to fix the self
you simply *see* the self.
And in that seeing,
the fixer, the problem, the healer
all dissolve.
This is not peace.
This is *absence.
2. Ambition loses its perfume.
Success looks small.
Failure looks unreal.
You begin to sense
that both were born from comparison.
And comparison was the disease.
The Most Transparent Age Is 33, 34, 35

1. At 33, 34, 35
you stop seeking light
because you see *you were the lamp.*
You stop chasing truth
because you see *truth never moved.*
You stop asking why
because silence became the only honest answer.
Plan A:

• Chase success
• Accumulate things
• Die never having lived

Plan B:

• Seek truth
• Burn illusions
• Die before you die, and live free

Freedom isn’t a reward.
It’s the moment you stop running.
The corpse stops pretending to be alive.

Follow for those who are done chasing shadows:
Me in my early 20s:

• Chasing people
• Escaping silence
• Seeking validation

Me in my late 20s:

• Guarding energy
• Loving solitude
• Seeking truth

Peace looks boring to the loud.
But that’s where real power hides.

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5. You don’t find freedom.
You build it one honest choice at a time.

The path to truth is narrow.
But it’s the only road that leads to peace.
3. Truth is expensive.
It costs relationships, jobs, sometimes peace of mind.
But the alternative living in a cage of illusion costs your soul.

4. Freedom doesn’t start in the world.
It starts in the mind.
The moment you stop lying to yourself, you walk out of the prison door.