Julie S. Lalonde
@julieslalonde.bsky.social
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6x award-winning feminist buzzkill. Franco-ontarienne du nord de l'Ontario. 🏳️‍🌈 Femme. I teach community care for a living and wrote a book about why resilience is futile, babyyyy ✌🏻 Actually fun™️ 📍Ottawa, Canada YellowManteau.com
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Lots of new folks here! 👋

I've spent 20+ years working as a violence prevention educator.

- Find my free bystander intervention webinars here : linktr.ee/JulieSLalonde

- Hire me for trainings : yellowmanteau.com

- My memoir "Resilience is Futile" is available globally wherever books are sold✌️
Julie S. Lalonde holding a copy of her memoir "Resilience is Futile : The Life and Death and Life of Julie S. Lalonde"
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+ The way "hostages" is applied to Israelis hostages but not to Palestinians when the same articles admit "vast majority of Palestinian prisoners were held without charge" which reads to me like they were hostages, too.
jonathancohn.bsky.social
Very jarring how the media treats some lives as inherently and others not.

I am happy for hostages and their families to be reunited, but it’s shocking how little media attention is given to “how do Gazans grapple with the utter destruction of their homes, vast loss of lives, and ongoing famine.”
julieslalonde.bsky.social
Shameless plug for some free bystander intervention training, if you want to learn community care with me! It's only 1 hour on Zoom, it's fast paced and interactive but cameras/mics muted, so you're never on the spot.

Most of us WANT to do the right thing. We just need training to get it right!
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Come learn bystander intervention with me - It's free!
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"Human beings have a long and storied history of having each other’s backs, despite disaster movies – and the alarmist rhetoric of certain politicians – suggesting that, in a crisis, regular people become marauding mobs of violent looters."
Mutual aid makes a difference when disaster strikes. What about after?
Neighbours who help each other in a crisis will often return to individualism when it’s over. Changing that habit could yield lasting benefits
www.theglobeandmail.com
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We are not powerless in the face of rising hate, harassment and violence. If we take the time to learn effective de-escalation and intervention skills, we CAN keep each other safe.

Give me 1 hour of your time and I'll teach you how. It's free and open to anyone aged 12+ ✊

zoom.us/webinar/regi...
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julieslalonde.bsky.social
Yeah. Pete's dad died on 9/11 so his rationalizing is even more rat shit than everyone else's.
julieslalonde.bsky.social
Ask them how they feel about her private plane. 😂

As for Kobe, he raped a woman, and then dragged her through the courts so badly that the state of Colorado had to change their laws to ensure it wouldn't happen to someone else. At the height of #MeToo, to ignore that part of his legacy is wild.
julieslalonde.bsky.social
Hmm. Maybe but I think it's that pop music has its own toxic "stan" culture. I mean, look at how Swifties behave to criticism of Taylor. Ya know?
julieslalonde.bsky.social
I know sports fan/"stan" culture is toxic because Diane died and people are saying "She was iconic AND defended a child molester" and people are nodding along like, yes!Both are true!

Meanwhile, I tweeted "Don't forget Kobe was a rapist" and got so many death threats, cops told me to go into hiding
julieslalonde.bsky.social
Oh and this isn't because I'm some diehard Thanksgiving lover. I didn't grow up doing anything for Thanksgiving because it was usually the start of hunting season, so all the men were on the land. And now I'm vegan, so I truly DGAF about Thanksgiving 😂 I just hate people being smug AND wrong.
julieslalonde.bsky.social
This post brought to you by seeing suuuper snarky performative outrage comments under people's photos on Instagram. Just people enjoying a meal or apple picking or whatever and people being like "Hum. Pretty gross of you to celebrate colonialism."

Just ludicrous behaviour, year after year.
julieslalonde.bsky.social
Thanksgiving in Canada has nothing to do with Columbus!

We are a colonial country with a million things to atone for but Thanksgiving is not one of them.

Our Thanksgiving is timed with the harvest and it's literally just "Be grateful for harvest"

US Imperialism has brain rotted too many of you.
julieslalonde.bsky.social
I've always had such conflicting feelings about Diane Keaton.

A style icon who truly did things her own way AND a lifelong diehard Woody Allen defender.

"First Wives Club" is one of my favourite movies and this calls for a re-watch:
a woman in a trench coat is dancing in front of a man in a black suit .
ALT: a woman in a trench coat is dancing in front of a man in a black suit .
media.tenor.com
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antistalkingcanada.bsky.social
Today is the International Day of the Girl!

Did you know that in Canada, girls and young women under 25 have the highest rates of sexual assault AND criminal harassment?

All girls deserve a life free from violence ❤️‍🩹
Cartoon image of three young women with the words "October 11: International Day of the Girl"
julieslalonde.bsky.social
People love to come on here and accuse me of carceral feminism but all I'm seeing are 50+ men that are literally on camera sexually assaulting an unconscious woman and yet literally telling the courts that they are the actual victims.

They are clearly not safe to be out in the world right now.
julieslalonde.bsky.social
Uncomfortable conversation my sector has not yet faced is how this horrific case demonstrates the difficulty of restorative justice practices for sexual assault.

These men are literally on camera, committing these acts and still refuse to take accountability.
julieslalonde.bsky.social
This has the same energy as men who email me to say "Men's violence against women is not real and I'm gonna prove it by raping and killing you."
newsguy.bsky.social
The Guardian- The US president may impose tariffs, demand higher NATO contributions or even declare Norway an enemy, analyst says, if on Friday he is not awarded the Nobel Peace Prize. www.theguardian.com/world/202...
Norway braces for Trump’s reaction if he does not win Nobel peace prize
US president may impose tariffs, demand higher Nato contributions or even declare Norway an enemy, analyst says
www.theguardian.com
julieslalonde.bsky.social
Appreciative of @runchinguyenrun.bsky.social using her time in Parliament today to recognize the importance of C-11 but specifically, the contributions of us civil society experts who've been demanding better yet consistently shut out.

Being name dropped in a positive way re: CAF is refreshing 😂
Statement on C-11
YouTube video by MP Chi Nguyen
www.youtube.com
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If you live in & around beautiful Muskoka, join me for this amazing conference on building equity in the Muskoka region!

I'll be teaching bystander intervention & the practical skills of community care.

Hosted at the Canada Summit Centre in Huntsville, it's a free event but you gotta register!
Hate Free Muskoka Two Day Symposium (Nov 7th & 8th)
Two days dedicated to deepening inclusion, diversity, equity, anti-racism, and belonging in the District of Muskoka.
www.eventbrite.ca
julieslalonde.bsky.social
We are not powerless in the face of rising hate, harassment and violence. If we take the time to learn effective de-escalation and intervention skills, we CAN keep each other safe.

Give me 1 hour of your time and I'll teach you how. It's free and open to anyone aged 12+ ✊

zoom.us/webinar/regi...
Image of multicoloured hands pointing at the words "Together we're strong"
julieslalonde.bsky.social
The man is currently *in prison* serving a sentence for sexual assault but the legal system stays the charges on this other assault. Bananas.