Rachel Kramer Bussel
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Writer on books, culture, my life. Editor, @opensecretsmag.bsky.social https://opensecretsmagazine.com Author, How to Write Erotica. Editing anthology about our attachments to our belongings. https://linktr.ee/rkbwriter and rachelkramerbussel.com
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Yesterday was a day of several firsts: first essay in The Wall Street Journal @wsj.com, first time getting gas by myself, first time my daughter pet a bunny or goat or horse at a farm tour. Read the essay at
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For Breast Cancer Awareness Month, Sonali Kolhatkar @ruwithsonali.bsky.social wrote about getting a preventive double mastectomy because she carries the BRCA1 gene mutation and has a family history of breast and other cancers, including the complex aftermath:
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Confessions of a Breast Cancer Previvor
The complications of my preventative mastectomy were far deeper than I expected
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I was so happy my copy of Less Is Liberation by Christine Platt arrived a day early, another bonus of pre-ordering from @bookshop.org. As someone who constantly feels overwhelmed, I’m so looking forward to reading this and learning how to manage my tendency to overcommit.
Book Less Is Liberation by Christine Platt
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Yesterday was a day of several firsts: first essay in The Wall Street Journal @wsj.com, first time getting gas by myself, first time my daughter pet a bunny or goat or horse at a farm tour. Read the essay at
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Rachel Kramer Bussel holding copy of The Wall Street Journal
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A hoarder doing a decluttering project? Yes! I put all my feelings of overwhelm lately into this post that I hope signals the start of something new and positive. rachelkramerbussel.substack.com/p/my-year-of...
Messy desk and text My year of decluttering by Rachel Kramer Bussel
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What’s the difference between being alone and loneliness? Discuss it in Open Secrets Book Club on memoir in essays The Loneliness Files by @athenadixon.bsky.social published by @tinhouse.bsky.social. You can ask Athena questions on September 30 at 8:30 pm ET: opensecretsmagazine.com/p/open-secre...
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“I think alone is sexy. Mysterious in its heaviness. Alone seems like a choice. Loneliness doesn’t. This seems like I’ve been forgotten, passed over, discarded.”
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Judith Lam Tang writes in her essay “I Was a Bigoted Speech Therapist” about how she went from thinking “How can we make them refer to a single person? It’s too confusing!” to teaching her students about gender respectfully without relying on stereotypes.
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I Was a Bigoted Speech Therapist
As my views on gender evolved, so did how I taught kids about pronouns
opensecretsmagazine.com "I taught children to look at a person and make assumptions about their gender based on their physical appearance: the length and style of their hair, the clothing they wore, whether they were wearing makeup, and what they were doing."
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I Was a Bigoted Speech Therapist
opensecretsmagazine.com "I understood racism very well, but hadn’t considered other marginalized identities, especially queer and trans identities. I realized that I couldn’t actually be antiracist without being anti-oppression for everyone."
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I Was a Bigoted Speech Therapist
opensecretsmagazine.com "Ultimately, I want to demonstrate—to my students and myself—that I’m a human who is capable of change, who is capable of learning. I grew up thinking in a certain way because that’s what I was taught. I didn’t know any different, and I didn’t know any better."
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Anyone else feel guilty for not working when you’re on vacation, or just me? My latest The ADHD Diaries column @opensecretsmag.bsky.social is all about that: opensecretsmagazine.com/p/is-adhd-wh...
Is ADHD Why I Have Trouble Taking Real Vacations?
I loved being away from my laptop, but not the guilt that accompanied it
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“I resent having the kind of brain that insists that any vacation time should be tempered with work in order to “deserve” it. I always think that the next vacation will be the one where I’m somehow magically caught up on every single task so that I can be truly off the clock.”
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Brief life update: I'm not here much because I'm running after my adorable but energetic daughter most of the day. But I'm still writing my newsletter, running @opensecretsmag.bsky.social & plotting projects in between meal planning & swimming lessons & making up songs about filing baby nails.
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Have a personal essay about your hard truths and deepest secrets, or about a pivotal moment in your life? Or flash nonfiction about one of your possessions? Check out our latest writing guidelines and submit by September 30! Please share widely. opensecretsmagazine.com/p/lit-mag-pe...
Paid Call for Submissions for Personal Essays by Humans About the Human Experience (No AI Writing Allowed)
Send us your essays sharing the story only you can tell (and why generative AI submissions will not be considered)
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Few sights make me happier than a wavy guy. Even made up for going to a “farmers market” where there was only one produce vendor and I’m pretty sure they don’t grow their own produce.
Orange wavy guy
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This @ejdickson.bsky.social article on “SkinnyTok” influencer Liv Schmidt is excellent, sad, & infuriating. As someone whose best friend died of anorexia complications, it’s hard to read about eating disorders, but so important. She didn’t think she’d die, but she did. www.thecut.com/article/infl...
The Influencer Inspiring Girls to Eat As Little As Possible
In Liv Schmidt’s subscriber-only group chat, her followers — some of them in high school — encourage one another to achieve their weight-loss goals.
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What’s it like to be a liberal Tesla owner in Brooklyn who opposes Elon Musk’s political positions and is now despised for her vehicle choice despite making the purchase in 2020 for environmental reasons? Find out in @sammithewriter.bsky.social's bold essay. opensecretsmagazine.com/p/brooklyn-t...
I'm a Tesla-Driving Liberal
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Looking forward to talking to Darcey Gohring at wisdomandwords.substack.com today at 1 pm ET about essay writing and Open Secrets Magazine! Subscribe to Wisdom and Words to watch and check out all of Darcey’s other great interviews!
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Had to snap a quick selfie before one of the biggest days of my life. See you later at Open Secrets Live!
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So excited to interview Jane Pratt on Saturday and host over 40 speakers! Click through or see the thread for details. There’s a few tickets left!
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Jane Pratt of Sassy fame, now editor of Anotehr Jane Pratt Thing, is our Open Secrets Live opening keynote speaker on May 3, in conversation with Open Secrets Magazine editor @rachelkramerbussel.bsky.social, on Why Readers Care About What Happened to You. opensecretsmagazine.com/p/open-secre...
Open Secrets Magazine Live! Opening keynote speaker Jane Pratt, why readers care about what happened to you
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Reading books to my baby that I loved as a kid is soul-affirming in a way I didn’t expect. We only got through 2 page before she wanted to flip back to the cover but I feel much calmer after spending a few minutes with Frances. The Linwood, NJ library has a whole stack of delightful oversized books
Oversized version of the children’s book Bread and Jam for Frances
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Sen. Cory Booker has the floor.
The image is a screenshot of a social media post by Laurie Hardman (@LaurieLyricalG
), posted 14 hours ago. The post features a photo of a sidewalk with a message written in white chalk: "THIS IS NOT A LEFT OR RIGHT MOMENT, IT IS A RIGHT OR WRONG MOMENT," attributed to "- SEN. CORY BOOKER." The photo is credited to @karinschall
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How fun is this book arch at the Linwood, NJ public library? Looking forward to my next visit!
Book arch in library doorway
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Do you have a personal story you want to tell about how your life has been influence by the climate? Here's our personal essay guidelines. Deadline is May 31, 2025, and we pay $50/essay: opensecretsmagazine.com/p/paying-cal...
Paid Call for Personal Essays on Climate Change and Climate Issues
Open Secrets Magazine will publish at least one personal essay per month by in a new Climate category
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What does it feel like to live through multiple smoke seasons in the Pacific Northwest? @ambrown.bsky.social answers this and more in his essay about the personal impact of climate change for our Climate vertical: opensecretsmagazine.com/p/smoke-seas...
Image of a grey sky and tree and house. Text: What It Feels Like to Live in “Satan’s Ashtray” During Smoke Season
A history of my adaptation to the Pacific Northwest’s grim new weather caused by climate change, opensecxretsmagazine.com