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SJ
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Your worth isn’t defined by how ‘productive’ you look lalo na kung araw-araw, naka-survival mode ka na!
Hindi selfish to prioritize yourself lalo na kung sanay ka na laging ikaw ang nagbibigay.
Relationships don't always last forever, pero kahit short-term, they can still teach you long-term lessons.
A little reminder I keep coming back to:

"The world is a funny place... as long as we're laughing, I guess we're alive." ~ The Hero, Guild Wars 2 (Core) 😄✨

What made you laugh today?

#GuildWars2 #KeepLaughing #Life #Quote
Some days, the most radical thing you can do is eat well, sleep early, and not engage with your toxic tita’s comments. 😘
Hindi ka mahina for needing a break. You're just tired kasi minsan hindi madali maging ikaw araw-araw. Pero tuloy lang ang laban... forda stronger person tayo! Always! 🤎
Friendships that survive different shifts, different time zones, and different crushes? That’s the real endgame. 😏
Boundaries aren’t walls. Dapat lang consistent for everyone.
Love life update? Wala pa rin. Pero at least alam ko na ang difference between affection and attention.
Being LGBTQIA+ doesn’t mean you have to fight all the time. Minsan, the real win is choosing peace and logging out.
Ang pinaka-underrated flex ngayon is learning how to rest without guilt, especially when the world expects you to be ‘strong’ 24/7.
Work-life balance? Minsan it’s just taking a mental health day para lang maka-recover from small talk with homophobes, tbh.
Pagod ka hindi dahil mahina ka. Pagod ka kasi you’re carrying your truth in a world na hindi laging safe to be you.
Dating while healing feels like job hunting: may qualifications ka, pero hindi ka pa ready sa next interview.
Real friendships are underrated. You know... yung mga una mong tatawagan kahit 2AM, kahit may pasok bukas.
Sometimes, ‘wala na'kong energy’ is your soul telling you, ‘This isn’t for you anymore.’ It's best to pay attention.
Being queer and tired is real, but at least now we know when to nap and when to walk away.
You know you’re healing when you stop chasing people and start chasing 8 hours of sleep.
Family can be chosen, but boundaries? Non-negotiable yan, lalo na if you're protecting your peace.
Rest is productive. Hindi mo kailangan mag-burnout para mapansin.
The hardest part about dating? Yung explaining to straight friends why ‘it’s complicated’ isn’t just a status — it’s a lifestyle. 😅
Self-love is budgeting for therapy and milk tea. Nakaka-heal din ang sugar minsan. 🧋
’Walang forever’ hits different when your last situationship had more red flags than the last rally you marched in.

Feeling #blessed ahahaha
You don’t need to be out to be valid. Your truth is still yours, kahit hindi mo pa siya fully nasasabi.
Sometimes, being queer at work means smiling while dying inside... but at least we slay professionally. 💅