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Tazzlie

@tazziedaze.bsky.social

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I didn't badmouth you. I spoke the truth about what happened. If the truth makes you uncomfortable..that's a you problem, not a me problem. I defend myself and who I am.

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Tazzlie @tazziedaze.bsky.social · Feb 1

Since I see over 20 accounts reposting these accounts for attacking people on their account I am going to also repost to spread awareness for these harassers and I bet more accounts they own

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Tazzlie @tazziedaze.bsky.social · 1h

Katies obsessive online behavior with me is consistent with documented patterns of narcissistic abuse. Being blocked cuts off her supply and injures her fragile ego, causing her to escalate her tactics to regain a sense of power by making new secret accounts showing online she she still watches me.

Tazzlie @tazziedaze.bsky.social · 2h

Deny, Attack, and Reverse Victim and Offender. The person first denies your legitimate claim, then attacks you for making it, and finally reverses the roles by portraying themselves as the victim. Accusing you of "weaponizing" is part of the "attack" and "reverse" stages.

Tazzlie @tazziedaze.bsky.social · 2h

The defense mechanism for narcissists involves unconsciously attributing one's own undesirable traits to someone else. For example, a person who is intentionally manipulative may accuse you of "weaponizing" a genuine emotion to distract from their own harmful behavior.

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Tazzlie @tazziedaze.bsky.social · 2h

Triggered narcissist will accuse you of weaponizing is a true oversimplification of a complex psychological dynamic. People with narcissistic traits use this accusation as a form of manipulation language for various reasons, including learned behavior, fear, or a desire to avoid conflict.

Tazzlie @tazziedaze.bsky.social · 5h

A narcissist may log out of accounts they own and then lie about owning them to manipulate others and control the narrative. If they used an account for abusive or manipulative behavior, they will deny ownership to avoid being held responsible for the harm they caused.

Tazzlie @tazziedaze.bsky.social · 5h

it is a significant red flag for narcissistic to demands access to your personal accounts and passwords. This is a form of abuse used to gain control, isolate you, and strip you of your autonomy. A narcissist's demand for account names is not about trust; it is about power and control.

Tazzlie @tazziedaze.bsky.social · 5h

The assertion that narcissists use insults like "dumb" and "retarded" to elevate their own self-esteem is accurate. Just to making others feel small and insignificant. This behavior is a projection of the narcissist's own deep-seated insecurities and self-loathing.

Tazzlie @tazziedaze.bsky.social · 5h

Presenting Katie with accurate information will not prevent her from calling me misinformed. This is a common and predictable defense mechanism she uses to control a narrative, protect her pretend life's ego, and maintain power over her lies she spreads.

Tazzlie @tazziedaze.bsky.social · 5h

Lying and spreading false information are common and defining characteristics of narcissistic behavior, which is supported by psychological research. Narcissists frequently use manipulation, deceit, and false narratives to protect their fragile self-image, gain control, and serve their own interests

Tazzlie @tazziedaze.bsky.social · 17h

Narcissists demand access to your phone or passwords while hiding their own device, even asking you to show proof of their stuff. If blocked, they might use fake accounts to continue monitoring your social media activity, then assume lies about you get hoping you respond to get what they demand.

Tazzlie @tazziedaze.bsky.social · 17h

Encrypted and private group chats can be used to spread rumors and misinformation about a person to others, a tactic known as a smear campaign. This is often used during the "discard" phase of a manipulation to turn mutual friends or family against the victim.

Tazzlie @tazziedaze.bsky.social · 17h

Manipulative individuals use encrypted apps and secrecy to control the flow of information. This includes planting seeds of doubt with "micro-manipulations," such as sending a cryptic message intended for someone else before quickly deleting it.

Tazzlie @tazziedaze.bsky.social · 17h

Narcissists often need a "narcissistic supply" of attention from multiple people. Encrypted apps, alternative social media accounts, and even second phones or "burner" phones allow them to cultivate side relationships or carry out gossip without their primary target's knowledge.

Tazzlie @tazziedaze.bsky.social · 17h

Encrypted platforms, secret folders within apps, and disappearing messages allow narcissists to conceal conversations with other people. A common example is using calculator apps that reveal a hidden photo vault after a specific PIN is entered.

Tazzlie @tazziedaze.bsky.social · 17h

Narcissists use encrypted apps to hide lies and spread gossip, its a established tactic of digitally manipulative and abusive individuals. Encryption and hidden features offer privacy that can be weaponized to deceive strangers and manipulate others without accountability.