Ry // Handle[d] with Care (they/he)
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handledandhandling.bsky.social
Ry // Handle[d] with Care (they/he)
@handledandhandling.bsky.social
fka @/basicmomdad

shy artist exploring disability, grief, and end of life justice 🖇️ and very much so anti-imperial core! 🖕🏽

held by the great lakes and the land of the council of three fires 🍃
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i stopped posting pics on twitter years ago but i think i’m comfy sharing on here 🥲

until i do a proper intro, I’m Ry! I care a lot about the politics of care, death, art, + disability! #StillCoviding

i’d love if you could share + support my recovery crowdfund 🫶🏽 #BIPOCMA

FundRazr.com/RysRoad2Rec
okay not to come on here and dump all at once but it’s also wild how overwhelmed i feel because i feel like im doing absolutely nothing……i had such an amazing day on sunday and felt like nothing could stop me…..just for a bad Monday to send me spiraling again
February 11, 2025 at 4:55 PM
lol it is so painful to have had 3 parents and the only surviving parent clearly hates you and then you remember the dead ones hated you too 🤪 (crooked face with tongue out and googly eyes)

i am very fucked up 🙂👍🏽 (smile and light brown thumbs up)
February 11, 2025 at 4:53 PM
i wish i was as mean as all the mean ass mfs in my life swear i am
February 10, 2025 at 11:08 PM
feeling most out of place and isolated when around family yay 👍🏽
February 6, 2025 at 8:02 PM
goddddddd i love “we are lady parts” sooooo so much
January 30, 2025 at 6:53 AM
and plants too! 🫶🏽🫶🏽
Have friendships with animals
January 28, 2025 at 11:26 PM
sorry i haven’t been active i’ve been being gay
January 25, 2025 at 1:26 AM
i just have to say….wicks are so sexy yes but also just so fuckin magical. niggas in stem type shit fr!
December 18, 2024 at 9:30 PM
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California Governor Gavin Newsom has declared a State of Emergency due to concerns over bird flu infections across the US.
December 18, 2024 at 8:38 PM
so thank you (/sar) to everyone who has contributed to this pandemic being as severe and drawn out as it is because now i am avoiding treatment because the risk is too high right now 🫠👍🏽
December 12, 2024 at 6:22 PM
why does my body always make it clear that i need another course of immunosuppressants at the worst time possible?
December 12, 2024 at 6:20 PM
a quick #nsfw ask

i know this is quite the reach but where are Black maskers/covid realists making kinky connections? please don’t say feeld lol
December 10, 2024 at 5:22 PM
i feel like every time i tell someone how well my recovery is going, something new starts hurting
December 10, 2024 at 5:10 PM
feeling a lot of grief and frustration today but i just found out one of my childhood friends from church is gay so that’s a positive 👍🏽
December 9, 2024 at 6:14 PM
loverboi to a fault 😞
December 8, 2024 at 8:35 PM
not to be corny or a jinx, but I’m genuinely so excited for the new year. after suuuuuch a shitty and traumatic year or 2….or 5, I’m heading into the year where my Saturn’s return will begin feeling grounded, equipped, and hopeful.

i got nerves too, but when don’t I?
December 8, 2024 at 7:28 PM
been going through the rollercoasters of recovery alongside an evil, negligent landlord who had us in a cold ass Chicago basement with no heat last weekend

this led to me having a really shitty flare up with my healing muscles and tissue at the site of my surgery 😵‍💫 so I been reeeeeal off game
December 8, 2024 at 7:26 PM
wait i know i be late but why i’m getting read receipts from the android girlies now in iMessage?????? chile i don’t know what RCS means
December 8, 2024 at 7:24 PM
okay so it’s looking like i may not be able to submit my ssdi app by the end of the year like i hoped :/ but im also feeling really calm about it in a way that’s……out of character a bit 💀
November 22, 2024 at 7:27 PM
maxwell, amirite?
November 22, 2024 at 8:10 AM
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ok maybe this will get my algorithm to find who i want

🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️
LESBIANS
BLACK LESBIANS
BLACK NONBINARY LESBIANS
LEABIANS ON T
LESBIANS!!!!
🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️
November 14, 2024 at 11:52 PM
I know me and @kweenkenedee.bsky.social watchin 😌
Wait is there a real housewives community built yet. Who’s watching #RHOP tonight?
November 18, 2024 at 12:22 AM