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Mirae Shula
@misslitjones.bsky.social
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Fiction writer in progress | Educator with a love for learning | Sharing about BPD & mental health | Sitcoms & comfort movies keep me grounded
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Have you tried asking this before? 💬

Quote from @sustainteaching.bsky.social

#EdChat #EduSky #teachers
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“Teachers, your students don't love you because of your class decorations, clothes, bitmojis, lessons, etc. It's you. They love you for who you are and how you treat them. Just be you.” —Samuel Vo, Teacher

#teachers #education
But I agree that depending too much on AI can kill your creativity. The originality and flow should come from you, and honestly, nothing beats good old pen and paper! 📝
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“While all teachers recognize the importance of study skills, they are rarely, if ever, explicitly taught,” writes #HighSchoolTeacher Mike Delmont.

Here are five ways he helps students develop effective study strategies—leading to better retention and understanding of the material.

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The story should be entirely your own. Getting help with brainstorming, research, grammar, or tone is totally fair in my opinion.
A.I. can be a useful tool for various things. But if you use it to write your stories — I‘m sorry, you’re not a writer.
Same goes for any kind of art. But that’s just my opinion…

#writingcommunity #booksky #skywriters #authors #AI
Super excited to share the title of my first #shortnovel! 😊 If you’re into the subconscious mind, psychology, and nostalgia, this one’s definitely going to be your new fave read!
#writer #WriterCommunity #writerscommunity
To all silent warriors out there! You Are Enough! ❤️

#POEMS #MentalHealth #HEALING #bpdtwt #bpd
If this thread spoke to you, you’re not alone. Be gentle with yourself. Log off when you need to. Protect your heart. ❤️

#BPDAwarenessMonth #BPD #MentalHealthAwarenessMonth #OnlineIdentity #Dissociation #BPDRecovery #Neurodivergent #CPTSD #SafeSpaces #EndTheStigma #DBTskills
You’re not your fav character. You’re not your mutuals’ expectations. You’re a whole, evolving person. And that is enough.🩷
This May is BPD Awareness Month, and it matters that we talk about how mental health plays out in online spaces too. Fandom isn’t therapy. But healing is possible, even here!
Helpful tools if this resonates:

DBT skills (especially interpersonal effectiveness + identity work)

The Body Keeps the Score – Bessel van der Kolk

Journaling: “What parts of me feel real today?”
You can love a fandom without losing yourself in it. You can admire someone without erasing your own identity. And you can say “no” to anything that doesn’t serve your healing.
It was not my friend's fault. It’s not your fault as well. Your desire for connection makes sense. But it’s okay to pause and ask: Does this space support who I am, or just who I’m pretending to be to feel safe?
The danger? Not everyone in fandom spaces has good intentions. When you're trauma-bonding or idealizing strangers, it’s easier to miss red flags. Some ppl manipulate, ghost, or exploit. N for someone already hurting, that can be crushing. They become victims of cyber harassment
People with BPD crave connection, and fear abandonment. So in fandoms, you might trust too quickly, overshare, or emotionally depend on people you’ve never met offline. That vulnerability is real. My friend suffered for legit 8 years because of this.
If you grew up in an invalidating home, fandom can feel like the family you never had. A world where you’re finally “seen.” But when ur sense of self is already fragile, it’s easy to lose yourself. You might start dissociating from ur own emotions. Fandom self becomes ur default
It’s easy to shape your whole online identity around a fictional world or admired figure. You start speaking like them, dressing like them, even molding your values to match. Sometimes, it feels more real than your actual life. Exactly this happened to my friend, who was in a fandom on X.
Borderline Personality Disorder often comes with an unstable sense of self. You might feel like you don’t really know who you are, so you cling to what feels safe—characters, communities, mutuals. Fandom can become a lifeline.
Let’s talk about something real: how being in a fandom on social media can deeply impact someone with BPD. Dissociation, shaky identity, misplaced trust... it all ties together. A gentle thread for anyone who’s been there.
#BPD #BPDAwarenessMonth