Yanncé
@uhnopenottoday.blacksky.app
30. Gardener. SGRho. 🐩 Lover of candy and crocheting. 🧶 Attorney until I find something better to do. Here for a good time. ✨
What if we're all Sims? ♑️☀️♌️🌕♎️⬆️
Don’t follow me for politics. I’m here for nonsense.
What if we're all Sims? ♑️☀️♌️🌕♎️⬆️
Don’t follow me for politics. I’m here for nonsense.
Mannnnn. When people say that to me, I know it isn’t just because I sound “proper,” it’s because my voice, inflection, and the way I pronounce my words reminds them of white people.
But that gets used to assume I don’t like Black people and that’s what pissed me off. Cause what the fuck?
But that gets used to assume I don’t like Black people and that’s what pissed me off. Cause what the fuck?
November 27, 2025 at 2:43 AM
Mannnnn. When people say that to me, I know it isn’t just because I sound “proper,” it’s because my voice, inflection, and the way I pronounce my words reminds them of white people.
But that gets used to assume I don’t like Black people and that’s what pissed me off. Cause what the fuck?
But that gets used to assume I don’t like Black people and that’s what pissed me off. Cause what the fuck?
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*whispers* Can’t acknowledge what they still contribute to
November 27, 2025 at 2:10 AM
*whispers* Can’t acknowledge what they still contribute to
I really do not understand why we can’t be nuanced and admit that some Black people genuinely were rejected for being weird and that “weird” was often equivalent to “white.” 😵💫
November 27, 2025 at 1:22 AM
I really do not understand why we can’t be nuanced and admit that some Black people genuinely were rejected for being weird and that “weird” was often equivalent to “white.” 😵💫
Since I’ve decided that I’m definitely having a garden next year, I’m also going to make growing the collard greens for Thanksgiving my new goal ☺️
November 27, 2025 at 1:07 AM
Since I’ve decided that I’m definitely having a garden next year, I’m also going to make growing the collard greens for Thanksgiving my new goal ☺️
If we’re cool. If I just recognize you and we don’t interact, no.
If y’all saw a mutual you’ve met before out in public, would you say anything to them?
November 27, 2025 at 12:59 AM
If we’re cool. If I just recognize you and we don’t interact, no.
I often go to concerts by myself. It’s always fun. Sometimes I get adopted into a friend group for the night.
Have yall ever gone to a concert by yourself? How was it?
November 27, 2025 at 12:47 AM
I often go to concerts by myself. It’s always fun. Sometimes I get adopted into a friend group for the night.
BEAUTIFUL!!!
Sooooo, about these collard greens that I GREW...!!!
The literal definition of garden to table. We give thanks!🌱🌹
The literal definition of garden to table. We give thanks!🌱🌹
November 27, 2025 at 12:43 AM
BEAUTIFUL!!!
I used to go there. I do my own waxes now.
The last wax I had made me want to fight everybody in there.
The last wax I had made me want to fight everybody in there.
European Wax Center should be illegal…how many more horror stories do y’all need to hear to finally love y’all’s coochies?!?! 😭
November 27, 2025 at 12:37 AM
I used to go there. I do my own waxes now.
The last wax I had made me want to fight everybody in there.
The last wax I had made me want to fight everybody in there.
Exactly. And once they decide to move like that, they will never find their people.
Which is insane when you could just build an artistic coalition with other weird Black people.
Idk if this is a hot take, but I think one of the ways a coon is born is through rejection by the Black community during their formative years and a lack of healing as they get older.
November 27, 2025 at 12:27 AM
Exactly. And once they decide to move like that, they will never find their people.
For me, it makes more sense to acknowledge that kids were bullied & rejected for a variety of reasons & say that the people who were bullied need to go through a healing process & not use that as an excuse to become a coon than to insist that the bullied individual must have somehow deserved it.
November 27, 2025 at 12:17 AM
For me, it makes more sense to acknowledge that kids were bullied & rejected for a variety of reasons & say that the people who were bullied need to go through a healing process & not use that as an excuse to become a coon than to insist that the bullied individual must have somehow deserved it.
That’s interesting! I feel like as a child, you spend most of your time with your peers at school and after school. To be rejected by your peers is to be rejected by the people in the community who you’re with the most.
Well, while we're pushing back (😂), I disagree with the idea that kids being mean is being "rejected by the community."
Sure, your classmates and the kids on the playground are important to your socialization, but my community was my elders, parents, cousins, etc. etc. etc.
Also, anecdotally+
Sure, your classmates and the kids on the playground are important to your socialization, but my community was my elders, parents, cousins, etc. etc. etc.
Also, anecdotally+
Eh… I have to push back on the idea that we don’t reject our own for no good reason as kids.
We can’t pretend that we don’t like to connect certain things to whiteness. I just think when a person gets older, they need to understand why that happens and heal from it.
We can’t pretend that we don’t like to connect certain things to whiteness. I just think when a person gets older, they need to understand why that happens and heal from it.
November 26, 2025 at 11:57 PM
That’s interesting! I feel like as a child, you spend most of your time with your peers at school and after school. To be rejected by your peers is to be rejected by the people in the community who you’re with the most.
Eh… I have to push back on the idea that we don’t reject our own for no good reason as kids.
We can’t pretend that we don’t like to connect certain things to whiteness. I just think when a person gets older, they need to understand why that happens and heal from it.
We can’t pretend that we don’t like to connect certain things to whiteness. I just think when a person gets older, they need to understand why that happens and heal from it.
But, let's take this a step further.
Because we don't just be out here rejecting our own.
We DO reject people who are very clearly seeking white acceptance, though.
So, who rejected who first?
Because we don't just be out here rejecting our own.
We DO reject people who are very clearly seeking white acceptance, though.
So, who rejected who first?
Idk if this is a hot take, but I think one of the ways a coon is born is through rejection by the Black community during their formative years and a lack of healing as they get older.
November 26, 2025 at 11:52 PM
Eh… I have to push back on the idea that we don’t reject our own for no good reason as kids.
We can’t pretend that we don’t like to connect certain things to whiteness. I just think when a person gets older, they need to understand why that happens and heal from it.
We can’t pretend that we don’t like to connect certain things to whiteness. I just think when a person gets older, they need to understand why that happens and heal from it.
Idk if this is a hot take, but I think one of the ways a coon is born is through rejection by the Black community during their formative years and a lack of healing as they get older.
November 26, 2025 at 10:58 PM
Idk if this is a hot take, but I think one of the ways a coon is born is through rejection by the Black community during their formative years and a lack of healing as they get older.
why
November 26, 2025 at 10:45 PM
why
So I had to get two teeth removed before braces. They removed my side teeth. 🙃
I went on vacation with my line sisters & some guys were flirting with them, but one of the guy’s fathers was the one flirting with me. 🙃 He wanted to take a selfie with me because we had matching missing side teeth. 🙃
I went on vacation with my line sisters & some guys were flirting with them, but one of the guy’s fathers was the one flirting with me. 🙃 He wanted to take a selfie with me because we had matching missing side teeth. 🙃
November 26, 2025 at 10:32 PM
So I had to get two teeth removed before braces. They removed my side teeth. 🙃
I went on vacation with my line sisters & some guys were flirting with them, but one of the guy’s fathers was the one flirting with me. 🙃 He wanted to take a selfie with me because we had matching missing side teeth. 🙃
I went on vacation with my line sisters & some guys were flirting with them, but one of the guy’s fathers was the one flirting with me. 🙃 He wanted to take a selfie with me because we had matching missing side teeth. 🙃
I think the reason people supported Reesa Teesa in a way that they don’t support other women who tell their stories is that in almost every part of the story, she lays out exactly what red flags she overlooked & why she overlooked them. People want you to say, “this happened because I was desperate”
November 26, 2025 at 10:06 PM
I think the reason people supported Reesa Teesa in a way that they don’t support other women who tell their stories is that in almost every part of the story, she lays out exactly what red flags she overlooked & why she overlooked them. People want you to say, “this happened because I was desperate”
I’m starting to understand why people like to move to different cities. It’s like a way to force yourself into a new season of your life.
November 26, 2025 at 9:53 PM
I’m starting to understand why people like to move to different cities. It’s like a way to force yourself into a new season of your life.
As a neurodivergent person, dating a neurotypical person was extremely stressful. He truly couldn’t understand why I am the way I am & he felt like I was doing things on purpose or to bother him. I really was trying my best, & he helped me in the ways that he could, but he took everything personally
Dating someone that is neurodivergent can be a journey. I’ve learn that I must have patience and understand that their brain is going to operate differently than mine.
That should be a nuanced approach in life anyways. Listen to understand.
That should be a nuanced approach in life anyways. Listen to understand.
November 26, 2025 at 9:40 PM
As a neurodivergent person, dating a neurotypical person was extremely stressful. He truly couldn’t understand why I am the way I am & he felt like I was doing things on purpose or to bother him. I really was trying my best, & he helped me in the ways that he could, but he took everything personally
She’s really not making bean pie. I am distraught.
November 26, 2025 at 9:28 PM
She’s really not making bean pie. I am distraught.
Going to a Muslim school in the 7th grade was weird. We weren’t allowed to wear makeup or nail polish and the other girls kept accusing me of wearing makeup and nail polish so the sisters would always examine me. It was ridiculous.
November 26, 2025 at 9:19 PM
Going to a Muslim school in the 7th grade was weird. We weren’t allowed to wear makeup or nail polish and the other girls kept accusing me of wearing makeup and nail polish so the sisters would always examine me. It was ridiculous.
Growing up Muslim and having Christian kids tell me I was going to hell because I wasn’t Christian made me think about how they were SO sure that they were right, while the Muslims were SO sure that they were right. It didn’t make sense to me that you could go to hell for picking the wrong one.
14. People who grew up religious, what took you away from religion?
November 26, 2025 at 8:43 PM
Growing up Muslim and having Christian kids tell me I was going to hell because I wasn’t Christian made me think about how they were SO sure that they were right, while the Muslims were SO sure that they were right. It didn’t make sense to me that you could go to hell for picking the wrong one.
The color combination. 😩🥰
Lilys, Peonies, Chrysanthemum, Hydrangea and the flowers my man got me the first time we met some of the prettiest, I’ve gotten plenty after too
November 26, 2025 at 8:33 PM
The color combination. 😩🥰
Omg look at those pointy petals! 😍
Red Naomi tea rose
November 26, 2025 at 8:17 PM
Omg look at those pointy petals! 😍
I’m making the mac and cheese and I’m lowkey nervous. This will be my 5th year, but I’m scared I forgot how to cook.
November 26, 2025 at 8:13 PM
I’m making the mac and cheese and I’m lowkey nervous. This will be my 5th year, but I’m scared I forgot how to cook.