Caroline Litman
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Caroline Litman
@alicemydaughter.bsky.social
Ex-psychiatrist, writer, campaigner. Trans ally. She/ her. Author ‘HER NAME IS ALICE’ on the life and death of my transgender child. Mudlark Books Harper Collins. Getting out the door a bit more these days.
One finding in Peggie v Upton is that Forstater’s ‘evidence’ from Sex Matters is merely opinion not fact.

By uniting supportive parents we’ll show that non-affirmative parents are the minority.
Our stronger voice will debunk GC opinions and platform evidence.

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December 9, 2025 at 2:00 PM
If you’re tired of explaining yourself and the misreporting of the Peggie tribunal to your lazy and ignorant friends save your energy and send them this.

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When the Law Said No: How Gender Critical Arguments Failed in Court
A plain English guide to what the Peggie judgment actually decided
open.substack.com
December 9, 2025 at 12:12 PM
“What’s your take on the bbc reporting Caroline - it’s nuanced but says that the nurse ‘is likely to see outcome as a victory.’ “

I gave a short answer. Yes you are, don’t believe the BBC, listen to your kids. Then a long one. Then I thought, why am I doing this and told her, do your own homework.
December 9, 2025 at 12:12 PM
never tire of this
December 8, 2025 at 5:30 PM
I am surprised by the decision too, given the transphobic abuse that was allowed in court. Pleased but surprised.
December 8, 2025 at 4:13 PM
It’s Monday. When does your week start?

Also, fuck quotas for this 😊
December 8, 2025 at 4:11 PM
I am so sorry you and your girls are in this position.
December 3, 2025 at 10:09 PM
I get your point and I don’t have the requisite understanding but it shouldn’t be so hard. It might not be considered grown up and sensible but I want big institutions to stand up to bullies. If they lose and girlguiding implodes as a result let’s see the GCs spin that as a win for women and girls.
December 3, 2025 at 8:50 AM
Reports about our complicated legal system, what trustees can and can’t do, are getting my goat. It might not be grown up and sensible but I want big institutions to stand up to bullying. If they lose and girlguiding implodes as a result let’s see the GCs spin that as a win for women and girls.
December 3, 2025 at 8:46 AM
Our government,
judiciary,medical profession and media have done one over on trans people. And on the whole, the nation is turning a blind eye. It’s a stain on this country and on the cis majority.

I am sorry.
December 3, 2025 at 7:36 AM
It’s an uneven playing field. Trans people are having their very existence debated and denied, whilst GCs beliefs are amplified and validated.

When I first stated learning about the GC movement the biggest issue for me was how Forstater’s protected belief came to trump a protected characteristic.
December 3, 2025 at 7:36 AM
But they are single minded and won’t engage. Of course, again they will flip this around and say that trans people and their allies refuse to engage.

I see how hard trans people have tried, are trying to tell their stories, but being ignored or debated against takes its toll.
December 3, 2025 at 7:36 AM
If they could try to understand the person as a human first, an equal - a child in the case of girl
guiding - just wanting to hang out with her friends.

It’s frankly disturbing that the exclusion of trans girls in girl guiding is framed as safeguarding the other girls in the organisation.
December 3, 2025 at 7:36 AM
The fear of trans women that’s used as a reason for exclusion and discrimination comes from a false correlation of risk and a lack of effort to engage with what it is to be trans. They insist on a biological certainty that doesn’t exist, there’s so much we don’t understand about the human condition.
December 3, 2025 at 7:36 AM
If GCs could move an inch and consider that even if they refuse to recognise trans women are women, at the very least it would benefit both trans women and GC women if they could come to accept that trans women are definitely not men in the sense the GCs choose to perceive them.
December 3, 2025 at 7:36 AM
They have worn me down and my empathy is running low. Of course I have empathy for those who have been sexually abused and are traumatised after that experience. I was a victim of CSA myself but as we saw yesterday in the vile tweets about Jolyon, again the GCs do not extend us the same courtesy.
December 3, 2025 at 7:36 AM