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Benny Anders
@bennactive.bsky.social
NGO employee. RPCV 🇺🇦. U of WA grad alum. HOBY '03. Considering becoming a luddite. CW: spiders
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gratitude for initial design @elliotbklange.bsky.social
I wore this at a work conference last week. Clearly I'm not worried what people think about my outfits and their relationship to gender or identity 😋
November 25, 2025 at 2:46 PM
I know I'm bringing my personal experiences into the conversation, so I could imagine this strike specific nerves for you.
For me, I get very wary when people say things that sound like there's specific ways to be gay. But I do see your point if the intention is to actively appear _not_ gay instead
November 25, 2025 at 2:45 PM
That's what I thought you meant. So not about fashion but masking.
Still, I guess I'm more Benefit of the Doubt. Maybe they do enjoy that style, maybe they have a reason to mask. But certainly costume/internalized homophobia could be a factor.
Not something I've seen but I'll keep an eye out
November 25, 2025 at 2:40 PM
I was approaching with curiosity. 😐 I genuinely don't know what he's talking about so I wanted an example.
November 25, 2025 at 2:27 PM
I'd need an example to understand what you mean. Otherwise it just sounds like you're restricting people's fashion choices.
November 25, 2025 at 2:09 PM
Also @waitingforthetrade.bsky.social if you haven't seen the Beastmaster TV show, I recommend checking it out. It feels like the kind of show you'd thread comments about
November 25, 2025 at 1:58 PM
HahagahahahahahagagahGHahahaha
November 25, 2025 at 1:51 PM
Okay the dialogue is weak frequently. I ended up taping out on Amazons and went to the next episode which is DEEPLY WEIRD and full of disturbing imagery.
November 12, 2025 at 11:05 PM
Also, plenty of side boob and carefully aligned topless women!
November 12, 2025 at 7:02 PM
I can wax poetically about the story, animals, and setting (which are all fun) but let's be real. A big part of this show's appeal are the guys running around in fur speedos. A recent guest character was clearly not hired for his line delivery
November 12, 2025 at 7:01 PM
I also love the less severe but equally enjoyable muting option for people who say dumb stuff I don't want to see
November 12, 2025 at 6:44 PM
There's a lot of variations in how you could approach it.
November 12, 2025 at 12:48 PM
2-3 people playing humans and deciding what their mundane experiences are and then some number of people playing the ghosts where their backstories come in to cause chaos
November 12, 2025 at 11:21 AM
I'm doubtful but willing to consider.
November 12, 2025 at 11:18 AM
The bad guys gave their horses little horns with their headgear and it's extremely cute
November 12, 2025 at 2:39 AM
It's certainly not the best example of homoerotic undertones but it's not off the list.
November 12, 2025 at 2:16 AM
Good for you, you man-eater
November 12, 2025 at 1:13 AM
The tiger has this insane side plot in the second episode that I kept expecting to interact with the other characters but .. no... He's leading a rich, fulfilling life on his own
November 12, 2025 at 1:12 AM
I'm so glad the sidekick isn't 100% useless. He's humorous but at least in these first two episodes is helpful with his own set of skills
November 12, 2025 at 1:10 AM
It looks like a convenience store had grocery store ambitions
November 7, 2025 at 2:40 AM