Charmaine Ng
@charmaineng.bsky.social
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Do no harm. Love all things #psychology, #rstats, #openscience and: why? vsco.co/wildestreasure
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You have to believe that the sun will still shine no matter how dark the previous day, hour, minute, second, has been.

Hold on to the truth - this universal truth.

The day everything makes sense is the day you die; the days before that are the days wherein you live, cry, scream, fear, love - now.
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I do not believe in the existence of a failed experiment [1]. I do believe that everyone is gifted [2]. So, experiment hard with what interests you most [3], & you will be rewarded, for the process is its own reward [4].

[1] Buckminster Fuller
[2] Marie Curie
[3] Richard Feynman
[4] Amelia Earhart
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Most recent puzzle I worked on came with a missing piece. Or an additional piece. Either perspective works.

Felt rather irked. Put it aside for a couple days.

A few days later, I took matters into my own hands and filled the (once) empty hole with some decor leaves.

I like it better my way.
Puzzle with a missing piece  Blooming puzzle
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Sweet! Likewise, I'm especially pumped for Sarah's 1-230 talk later today😉
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Me too! Still can't fathom the sheer happiness and relief found in unprecedented resonance with you guys. Will you be joining us today (and/or tomorrow)?
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Hands down my favourite slide and biggest takeaway from @steamtraen.eu's talk, made possible by @samwestwood.bsky.social and Nick's 2-hour sacrifice albeit on holiday.

#grim #sprite on #rstats
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Whatever the mind can conceive and believe, the mind can achieve.
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since change is the only constant in life, wouldn't embracing change = embracing life?
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Temper fear with hope.
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Trust your body and honour your flow.

If there's objectively nothing much/else within your control, remind yourself that you are safe and whole, come what may.

Your truth will prevail; it's solely a matter of time :)
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- Kafka on the Shore (Haruki Murakami) --> fiction, lots of music refs (from Radiohead to Led Zeppelin to The Beatles to Beethoven...)

- Breaking Through: My Life in Science (Katalin Karikó) --> science, non-fiction

- The Secret History (Donna Tartt) --> fiction, conundrums re ethics/morality
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Good morning! Saw your reply yesterday shortly before bed, was rooting for you in my heart. Hope all went well. In any case, it's a new day!
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Yes! I can't help but see their inherent existence through schema lens (Young's schema theory).

Extending from what you said:
- Helena = punitive parent + detached protector
- Helly = impulsive, angry, and vulnerable child

∴ Severance = schema-rupture; severed self = cognitive dissonance in self
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And family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten!
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Thank you for your honest and informative insight. And for reminding me that hope does still exist.

Re discord suggestion, are there any particular groups/servers to recommend? Or were you solely referring to private chats on discord?
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Me too. What do you usually do or say around them?
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My dear friends, could you please tell me why you do research, despite everything?
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Perhaps you could start creating and posting hehehe
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I do that too, with z.
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Yeah, understand. Anger towards yourself or others, if I may ask?
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How's this arrangement working out for you so far? Any tips?
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Hahaha well by that logic, wouldn't they have already borrowed each other's things and mush them together before you did?😉