I normally don't make interpersonal issues public. If anything, I tend to disapprove of it in general. But what you did, and the way you have treated me, is unacceptable. You need some real, serious fucking help.

And instead of taking accountability when called out on this, you had the nerve to repeat shit along the lines of "I don't deserve to live", "I'd be better off dead", etc., multiple times. You attempted to guilt trip me because being called out on your dishonesty made you feel bad.

And if my ex is reading this– What you have done, associating with someone like that, knowing I *MYSELF*, someone you claimed to love, am a victim of SA and incest.....is so, so fucked up. You blatantly lied to my face.
You do not do this kind of shit to your friend, let alone your partner.

And now...I have to live with the trauma from this. I've been doing nothing but question my worth, wondering if we had was ever real, if they ever valued me as a friend at all, and I'm also sitting here wondering why I wasn't a partner deserving of honesty. What did I do to deserve being lied to?

Instead of giving me the closure that I deserve.
I've had it pointed out to me that the pattern of blatantly lying, and reassuring me that they were indeed, not lying, is a form of emotional manipulation– which is abuse. I wouldn't label my ex as an abuser, but what they did was abusive.

And after making it clear to them that I was deeply hurt, angry, and frustrated because they also kinda ruined my birthday vacation, they chose to block me on everything without even a parting message. Instead of trying to make up for what they did wrong. Instead of giving me a legitimate apology.