conqueringsquid
@csquidlette.bsky.social
please don't put me in any starter packs. i'm not that interesting.
Just a little squid who likes dinosaurs, books, and RPGs. Learning Welsh. Never leaves the house. 🏳️🌈
Just a little squid who likes dinosaurs, books, and RPGs. Learning Welsh. Never leaves the house. 🏳️🌈
The version of marriage that the manosphere is pushing as ideal is probably a big part of this disconnect. Just a hunch.
The sharp decline in US teenagers’ aspiration to get married and have kids…
…is happening almost entirely among girls, not boys.
At some point maybe men will start trying harder to understand that.
www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/... | HT @conradhackett.bsky.social @pewresearch.org
…is happening almost entirely among girls, not boys.
At some point maybe men will start trying harder to understand that.
www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/... | HT @conradhackett.bsky.social @pewresearch.org
November 24, 2025 at 2:32 AM
The version of marriage that the manosphere is pushing as ideal is probably a big part of this disconnect. Just a hunch.
The flag has been raised.
November 22, 2025 at 10:40 PM
The flag has been raised.
I love it when I remember artists I loved decades ago out of the blue and go on a nostalgia binge.
I’ve been listening to Portishead and Tricky all day.
I’ve been listening to Portishead and Tricky all day.
November 18, 2025 at 1:27 AM
I love it when I remember artists I loved decades ago out of the blue and go on a nostalgia binge.
I’ve been listening to Portishead and Tricky all day.
I’ve been listening to Portishead and Tricky all day.
Unlocked level 42 today. I think that means I’m supposed to know the meaning of life now.
Is that a fair trade for nobody else remembering?
Is that a fair trade for nobody else remembering?
November 17, 2025 at 2:44 AM
Unlocked level 42 today. I think that means I’m supposed to know the meaning of life now.
Is that a fair trade for nobody else remembering?
Is that a fair trade for nobody else remembering?
Can someone please tell Nordstrom Rack that it’s not even Halloween yet and they can kindly shove their Christmas ad.
October 27, 2025 at 4:37 AM
Can someone please tell Nordstrom Rack that it’s not even Halloween yet and they can kindly shove their Christmas ad.
Have you ever seen a more comfortable looking dog in your life?
October 18, 2025 at 8:21 PM
Have you ever seen a more comfortable looking dog in your life?
Who went and gave my characters *agency* on me and at what point does arguing with your own fictional characters cross into grippy sock territory?
October 1, 2025 at 7:08 AM
Who went and gave my characters *agency* on me and at what point does arguing with your own fictional characters cross into grippy sock territory?
I just finished my 20th book of the month and I might have to get myself a pizza tomorrow just on principle.
If Pizza Hut ever let millennials have Book It back, even if it was just for a month, they’d be able to ride that loyalty wave until we’re all dead.
If Pizza Hut ever let millennials have Book It back, even if it was just for a month, they’d be able to ride that loyalty wave until we’re all dead.
September 30, 2025 at 5:46 AM
I just finished my 20th book of the month and I might have to get myself a pizza tomorrow just on principle.
If Pizza Hut ever let millennials have Book It back, even if it was just for a month, they’d be able to ride that loyalty wave until we’re all dead.
If Pizza Hut ever let millennials have Book It back, even if it was just for a month, they’d be able to ride that loyalty wave until we’re all dead.
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Y’all they’re bringing back Reading Rainbow with Mychal the librarian!!!!
September 29, 2025 at 5:19 PM
Y’all they’re bringing back Reading Rainbow with Mychal the librarian!!!!
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With her fourth bucket today, A'ja moves into 4th for most playoff field goals made in league history! 🪣✨
September 28, 2025 at 7:19 PM
With her fourth bucket today, A'ja moves into 4th for most playoff field goals made in league history! 🪣✨
Took a break from reading fantasy to give Ian McEwan’s Sweet Tooth a go and it’s a little unsettling how much of the Cold War setting feels awfully applicable to right now.
September 26, 2025 at 1:08 AM
Took a break from reading fantasy to give Ian McEwan’s Sweet Tooth a go and it’s a little unsettling how much of the Cold War setting feels awfully applicable to right now.
I had to say no to an interview for a job I’m exceptionally well qualified for and very interested in because it would have involved coming up with enough money to move to the other side of the country into an impossibly expensive housing market.
I have a kid. I can’t do roommates.
I have a kid. I can’t do roommates.
September 24, 2025 at 3:23 PM
I had to say no to an interview for a job I’m exceptionally well qualified for and very interested in because it would have involved coming up with enough money to move to the other side of the country into an impossibly expensive housing market.
I have a kid. I can’t do roommates.
I have a kid. I can’t do roommates.
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Well this is cool as hell. Sounds like an expensive and invasive procedure, but when the alternative is as awful as Huntington’s…
September 24, 2025 at 1:37 PM
Well this is cool as hell. Sounds like an expensive and invasive procedure, but when the alternative is as awful as Huntington’s…
Currently on one of those book-a-day reading binges and it’s pretty great. I know it won’t last, so I’m just tearing through as many as I possibly can while it does.
September 23, 2025 at 5:32 AM
Currently on one of those book-a-day reading binges and it’s pretty great. I know it won’t last, so I’m just tearing through as many as I possibly can while it does.
I need every politician in this country to have worked in retail and been a client of the services they control.
I say this while sitting on a public phone in a job center because my state doesn’t have unemployment offices to visit in person and they aren’t accepting phone calls from the public.
I say this while sitting on a public phone in a job center because my state doesn’t have unemployment offices to visit in person and they aren’t accepting phone calls from the public.
September 22, 2025 at 5:04 PM
I need every politician in this country to have worked in retail and been a client of the services they control.
I say this while sitting on a public phone in a job center because my state doesn’t have unemployment offices to visit in person and they aren’t accepting phone calls from the public.
I say this while sitting on a public phone in a job center because my state doesn’t have unemployment offices to visit in person and they aren’t accepting phone calls from the public.
Writers:
I have a character that I love and who is begging for me to turn him into a mc, but writing from a man’s perspective is turning out to be a bit hard (for me).
What’s the masc equivalent of breasting boobily down the stairs and how do I avoid it?
I have a character that I love and who is begging for me to turn him into a mc, but writing from a man’s perspective is turning out to be a bit hard (for me).
What’s the masc equivalent of breasting boobily down the stairs and how do I avoid it?
September 21, 2025 at 10:35 PM
Writers:
I have a character that I love and who is begging for me to turn him into a mc, but writing from a man’s perspective is turning out to be a bit hard (for me).
What’s the masc equivalent of breasting boobily down the stairs and how do I avoid it?
I have a character that I love and who is begging for me to turn him into a mc, but writing from a man’s perspective is turning out to be a bit hard (for me).
What’s the masc equivalent of breasting boobily down the stairs and how do I avoid it?
Sean Connery playing a guy named Juan Sánchez-Villalobos Ramirez while Christopher Lambert plays Connor MacLeod never gets old to me.
September 18, 2025 at 10:26 PM
Sean Connery playing a guy named Juan Sánchez-Villalobos Ramirez while Christopher Lambert plays Connor MacLeod never gets old to me.
The devil on my shoulder sounds an awful lot like Molly Ivins and the angel sounds like Fred Rogers.
If I can land somewhere in the middle of those two on any given day, it’s a good day.
If I can land somewhere in the middle of those two on any given day, it’s a good day.
September 18, 2025 at 3:40 PM
The devil on my shoulder sounds an awful lot like Molly Ivins and the angel sounds like Fred Rogers.
If I can land somewhere in the middle of those two on any given day, it’s a good day.
If I can land somewhere in the middle of those two on any given day, it’s a good day.
I’m not sure the average StoryGraph user for the books I read understands what a plot-driven story is. Or maybe it’s me.
September 18, 2025 at 5:39 AM
I’m not sure the average StoryGraph user for the books I read understands what a plot-driven story is. Or maybe it’s me.
A’ja Wilson is sooooo good.
September 15, 2025 at 5:34 AM
A’ja Wilson is sooooo good.
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September 15, 2025 at 2:24 AM
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Half Bad was such a good show. Netflix really should have given it a second season.
September 14, 2025 at 11:30 PM
Half Bad was such a good show. Netflix really should have given it a second season.
Sounds great but I also need you to go home after and never ever stay over.
my personal experience in an autistic relationship #autism #autismawareness #neurodivergent #adhd
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September 13, 2025 at 12:33 AM
Sounds great but I also need you to go home after and never ever stay over.
It has been the weirdest week.
September 12, 2025 at 9:09 PM
It has been the weirdest week.
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Hey HB folks, heads up. A local white nationalist with a history of violence, Ryan Sanchez, is holding a vigil for Charlie Kirk on the pier at 7PM. He’s been calling for violence against the left for a long time and has been actively recruiting. Advise you stay away, nothing good will happen.
September 10, 2025 at 10:54 PM
Hey HB folks, heads up. A local white nationalist with a history of violence, Ryan Sanchez, is holding a vigil for Charlie Kirk on the pier at 7PM. He’s been calling for violence against the left for a long time and has been actively recruiting. Advise you stay away, nothing good will happen.