Dr Tacey "dumb blonde" O'Neil
@densitypoint.bsky.social
A non-binary trans femme (she/they) who's a ukulele-playing, analysis-crazed mathematician. ADHD.
Engaged 💍 21/7/24
https://www.tiktok.com/@densitypoint
https://www.instagram.com/density_point
Engaged 💍 21/7/24
https://www.tiktok.com/@densitypoint
https://www.instagram.com/density_point
At The Croft in Bristol to see iDestroy.
Last time I was here was August 2019 to see @penfriendrocks.bsky.social in her She Makes War phase.
Since then the bar, Laura, and I have all changed transitioned into new identities!
Last time I was here was August 2019 to see @penfriendrocks.bsky.social in her She Makes War phase.
Since then the bar, Laura, and I have all changed transitioned into new identities!
November 28, 2025 at 9:03 PM
At The Croft in Bristol to see iDestroy.
Last time I was here was August 2019 to see @penfriendrocks.bsky.social in her She Makes War phase.
Since then the bar, Laura, and I have all changed transitioned into new identities!
Last time I was here was August 2019 to see @penfriendrocks.bsky.social in her She Makes War phase.
Since then the bar, Laura, and I have all changed transitioned into new identities!
My partner spent the day sorting out our bedroom and has done an amazing job.
I got home from work, saw it, and promptly had a panic attack: not the response they expected.
My nd brain couldn't handle it -- everything's moved and all my systems are wrecked.
Currently having some quiet time.
I got home from work, saw it, and promptly had a panic attack: not the response they expected.
My nd brain couldn't handle it -- everything's moved and all my systems are wrecked.
Currently having some quiet time.
November 27, 2025 at 11:04 PM
My partner spent the day sorting out our bedroom and has done an amazing job.
I got home from work, saw it, and promptly had a panic attack: not the response they expected.
My nd brain couldn't handle it -- everything's moved and all my systems are wrecked.
Currently having some quiet time.
I got home from work, saw it, and promptly had a panic attack: not the response they expected.
My nd brain couldn't handle it -- everything's moved and all my systems are wrecked.
Currently having some quiet time.
(Stressed) trans on a tube -- off to Dean Street for blood tests. Not a single one of my connections has been straightforward -- delays all the way.
November 26, 2025 at 6:53 PM
(Stressed) trans on a tube -- off to Dean Street for blood tests. Not a single one of my connections has been straightforward -- delays all the way.
10 years apart.
The only picture of me from November 2015 (and not taken by me). There are 34 separate sets of pics of me this month.
The only picture of me from November 2015 (and not taken by me). There are 34 separate sets of pics of me this month.
November 26, 2025 at 9:02 AM
10 years apart.
The only picture of me from November 2015 (and not taken by me). There are 34 separate sets of pics of me this month.
The only picture of me from November 2015 (and not taken by me). There are 34 separate sets of pics of me this month.
Tired queer resting at choir.
(First public performance of the term this Sunday.)
(First public performance of the term this Sunday.)
November 25, 2025 at 11:16 PM
Tired queer resting at choir.
(First public performance of the term this Sunday.)
(First public performance of the term this Sunday.)
Some progress was made.
November 24, 2025 at 8:41 PM
Some progress was made.
Today is a slouchy comfortable clothes kind-of-day. Been continuing the Sisyphean task of unpacking stuff from our move (back in August 😭). I may have too many things.
(Also need to respond to last landlord's ongoing efforts to keep 1/3 of our deposit.)
(Also need to respond to last landlord's ongoing efforts to keep 1/3 of our deposit.)
November 23, 2025 at 4:52 PM
Today is a slouchy comfortable clothes kind-of-day. Been continuing the Sisyphean task of unpacking stuff from our move (back in August 😭). I may have too many things.
(Also need to respond to last landlord's ongoing efforts to keep 1/3 of our deposit.)
(Also need to respond to last landlord's ongoing efforts to keep 1/3 of our deposit.)
About to see Wicked: For Good.
November 22, 2025 at 7:19 PM
About to see Wicked: For Good.
Success!
Going to need to bling it up a bit.
Going to need to bling it up a bit.
November 22, 2025 at 3:02 PM
Success!
Going to need to bling it up a bit.
Going to need to bling it up a bit.
Flat pack heaven/hell* looming.
*delete as applicable.
What happens when you have no money left for furniture after buying a house.
*delete as applicable.
What happens when you have no money left for furniture after buying a house.
November 22, 2025 at 12:57 PM
Flat pack heaven/hell* looming.
*delete as applicable.
What happens when you have no money left for furniture after buying a house.
*delete as applicable.
What happens when you have no money left for furniture after buying a house.
When I decided all those decades ago that I wanted be a mathematician, I had no idea that it would result in me spending so much of my life writing, recording and editing videos...
November 21, 2025 at 4:41 PM
When I decided all those decades ago that I wanted be a mathematician, I had no idea that it would result in me spending so much of my life writing, recording and editing videos...
This witch has her first broom!
(It was meant to be a xmas present but arrived wrapped in cling film so the surprise was lost.)
(It was meant to be a xmas present but arrived wrapped in cling film so the surprise was lost.)
November 20, 2025 at 9:28 PM
This witch has her first broom!
(It was meant to be a xmas present but arrived wrapped in cling film so the surprise was lost.)
(It was meant to be a xmas present but arrived wrapped in cling film so the surprise was lost.)
The view from where I have electrolysis. Beautiful cold crisp day!
November 20, 2025 at 8:07 AM
The view from where I have electrolysis. Beautiful cold crisp day!
The fluffy child decided she was too cold to sleep on her own.
November 18, 2025 at 6:55 AM
The fluffy child decided she was too cold to sleep on her own.
Did you do this in the end?
I managed half of my (what I thought was) achievable to do list.
I managed half of my (what I thought was) achievable to do list.
![A screen cap of my task list for Sunday.
Sunday
Things to do
- [ ] Look at tma question
- [ ] DPS case
- [ ] Flat pack
- [ ] ACO
- [x] Tickets for dead leg.
- [x] Install Google appo
- [x] Xmas spreadsheet
- [x] Coffee in town.
- [x] Message Sam H
- [x] Message Lisa](https://cdn.bsky.app/img/feed_thumbnail/plain/did:plc:fswfxfjqwetetswpdlerelhx/bafkreigrbwhzwhgcyc57xkml3bsepvvccp3josk7e46qowdhin35ifnl34@jpeg)
November 17, 2025 at 8:42 AM
Did you do this in the end?
I managed half of my (what I thought was) achievable to do list.
I managed half of my (what I thought was) achievable to do list.
From earlier with bonus dog/bear -- definitely think she's got bear genes in her.
It's been a very low energy Sunday.
It's been a very low energy Sunday.
November 16, 2025 at 5:41 PM
From earlier with bonus dog/bear -- definitely think she's got bear genes in her.
It's been a very low energy Sunday.
It's been a very low energy Sunday.
The unedited result -- yes my handwriting when rushing (had five minutes) is bad (see alt text for legible version)
Needs some work!
Needs some work!
November 15, 2025 at 10:15 PM
The unedited result -- yes my handwriting when rushing (had five minutes) is bad (see alt text for legible version)
Needs some work!
Needs some work!
A long way outside my comfort zone: at a poetry workshop being expected to write poetry.
November 15, 2025 at 5:49 PM
A long way outside my comfort zone: at a poetry workshop being expected to write poetry.
Last night after I'd gone to bed, my partner Alex decided to help adhd-me get my home working environment in order. Extremely happy with the results! I particularly love all the pictures in the folding screen.
#homeoffice #goth #gothworkspace
#homeoffice #goth #gothworkspace
November 12, 2025 at 7:04 PM
Last night after I'd gone to bed, my partner Alex decided to help adhd-me get my home working environment in order. Extremely happy with the results! I particularly love all the pictures in the folding screen.
#homeoffice #goth #gothworkspace
#homeoffice #goth #gothworkspace
On campus at a busy department meeting. Wishing draft strategies would occasionally contain at least some evidence that the goals were feasible and worth pursuing.
#goth #academiclife #trans #tired
#goth #academiclife #trans #tired
November 11, 2025 at 2:51 PM
On campus at a busy department meeting. Wishing draft strategies would occasionally contain at least some evidence that the goals were feasible and worth pursuing.
#goth #academiclife #trans #tired
#goth #academiclife #trans #tired
Had an amazing weekend -- went to a film festival (in York, England) where a documentary I took part in was being premiered. (Voice Shift -- about various trans femmes journeys with their voice.) it's a weird experience seeing yourself on a large cinema screen.
November 9, 2025 at 6:50 PM
Had an amazing weekend -- went to a film festival (in York, England) where a documentary I took part in was being premiered. (Voice Shift -- about various trans femmes journeys with their voice.) it's a weird experience seeing yourself on a large cinema screen.
Having fun in York, England.
November 9, 2025 at 1:27 PM
Having fun in York, England.
Success!
November 8, 2025 at 3:04 PM
Success!
Trans on a train: travelling to York edition.
November 8, 2025 at 8:53 AM
Trans on a train: travelling to York edition.
And now cut (ever so slightly)!
November 7, 2025 at 12:57 PM
And now cut (ever so slightly)!