do u want cuddles and cute moments with some sexy time or do u not im not here to argue

which is totally cool but then the other half is like ‘ ur a man u would be gay for having a boyfriend ‘ and i’m like damnit stop ur bitching!

i want to be spoiled n do cute shit n stream spooky lil fun things with friends and be on point like 24/7 so i’m new to the ‘ systemic ‘ kind of thing where some people think we’re gay for having girlfriends.

like there’s the group that goes “ i’m beautiful no matter what “ and i’m part of the “ need surgery and hormones and a weave “ group, could be echoes of patriarchy but still concerning nonetheless

we can deal with this political shit later but self care is most important 🩷🩷🩷

binders off, drinks at the ready, favorite music or shows or silence if you prefer, no mirrors, no drama, we are unbothered tonight / today ladies 🩷

honestly need help myself so i’ll be following

don’t forget millionaires

me

gotta love the rare feminine moments before i see myself in the mirror without makeup or anything and get sick

just like the statistics of averaging the height of the population, somewhere there is a person who might be 20 feet tall