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Gleamy Dreams ~ ✨ 🔜 Midwest FurFest
@gleamyd.bsky.social
🎨 she/her, 27 y/o 💍 Engaged 💙

Artist / Creator / Kirin Fan - Pins, plushies, digital / traditional art, drinkware, panic, etc. 🌈✨
https://gleamydreams.etsy.com
https://ko-fi.com/gleamydreams
I seem to have some nervous issue where I just pivot to something else and won't touch a topic again with a 20ft pole 🥲
November 28, 2025 at 6:53 AM
I once tried to approach a medication giving me issues and all I could say was: "I made new friends!"
Hilarious in hindsight because I wasn't technically lying
November 28, 2025 at 6:46 AM
I know that feeling... By the time you realize you have to run, it's already too late.
November 28, 2025 at 6:44 AM
True.
I should finally do that.
November 28, 2025 at 6:25 AM
Here's hoping! It's honestly weird to think about what the idea would even be for me but I'm excited.

Here's hoping for deer to continue to take over the media. 🤞
November 28, 2025 at 4:03 AM
Honestly, I've really grown to love those songs so much recently ❤️
November 28, 2025 at 2:03 AM
My dad has offered, multiple times, for me to have and host my own MLP radio station online using professional, genuine software and all- but I think that's just too much effort for me.
November 28, 2025 at 1:04 AM
Thank you to all of my friends, the community, the conventions of 2026, the DV shelters and advocates, my therapist, my fiancé, my doctors and ultrasound technicians for helping make 2025 my year of freedom and clarity.

I'm able to bask in the sun of tomorrow's plans safely.
November 28, 2025 at 12:44 AM
I'd like to thank everyone who has been here for me to make all of this possible.
I'm thankful for the people who helped educate me on protecting myself from him back in January, and I'm sorry I didn't take the offer to call the cops back then when he was in our jurisdiction.
November 28, 2025 at 12:44 AM
It's taken a lot of time, money, and therapy to be able to feel comfortable enough to be doing basic things like going to the store but...

Thanks to his admissions of stalking me, I have been able to move and he cannot legally obtain my new house address.
New home, no traumas.
November 28, 2025 at 12:44 AM
I used to be scared of talking to the cops, now I do it often.
I used to be scared of speaking up, then my abuser made me.
I used to cry and hide, but now I'm wearing cameras and going on the air.

I'm thankful for the strength of our love, my family, and myself this year.
November 28, 2025 at 12:44 AM
I no longer have to push myself to make things if I don't want to.
I no longer have to push myself to prove every medical aspect - I can safely call him during my appointments. I can safely show him things because he won't share them because he loves me and respects my privacy.
November 28, 2025 at 12:44 AM
He's stayed on the phone with me and listened to conversations with the detectives and encouraged me, even though this whole situation has been hell on us and even with us dealing with our own positive test this year.

Because he's a good partner. I'm thankful to get to love him.
November 28, 2025 at 12:44 AM
I can tell Moon I feel uncomfortable, and he doesn't push or pressure me into it. We talk about it.
He's attended therapy sessions with me, ultrasound appointments... he's seen everything that my ex wanted to see because I love and trust him full-heartedly. We love each other!
November 28, 2025 at 12:44 AM
I am willing to travel for the investigative process.
I have been able to surrender cons and vending appearances to keep myself safe.

I am protecting my family, my fiancé and myself because coming home to a warm dinner and being able to love my family without manipulation? Love.
November 28, 2025 at 12:44 AM
You can send goons to try to say "Please don't report him", "Please let him come to cons", "Where are you rooming?", etc. all you want, but at the end of the day, I file a police report with every single message they send so I can get a permanent order. The cops listen to me now.
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November 28, 2025 at 12:44 AM
I am going to be at a con this next week, and I've already coordinated with the proper officials to ensure that any necessary enforcement of the order is swift, discreet, and won't ruin my experience of the convention.

I tried to be nice, he lied under oath.
He is dangerous.
November 28, 2025 at 12:44 AM
I'm not a liar, I just don't believe in giving my rapist access to my medical files or ultrasounds when he didn't have a right to use my body like he did back then.

I am thankful that I started developing a spine and standing upright in 2024, and I've remained firm in 2025.
November 28, 2025 at 12:44 AM
And, for the record, I've never found anything that looks like proof of consent or anything like he claims so... yes.

I have filed the reports for sexual assault of an intoxicated and incapacitated individual in every proper jurisdiction.
I won't be gaslit by my abuser anymore.
November 28, 2025 at 12:44 AM