Epilepsy? Is that a new thing? (I’ve been out of touch for a while now.) I have no advice for you, only genuine concern.

I think so too. Although I suppose that’s obvious. 😂

Don’t worry. That’s only with my finch. I do not have any rooms that look like that in real life. 😂

Hormones can be the worst.

What’s going on with your cat?

Isn’t it weird how that happens? I have similar reactions to others. Can’t remember who off the top of my head - I’m exhausted this morning.

Have a nice time back in California!

I knew what you were talking about the moment I saw the notification. Occasionally I’ll choose other colors, but not very often. Purple makes me happy. 😊

What makes you say that? 🤨 😂

That’s mine, too.

That is handy!

Same. I grew up in the suburbs, and I’ve been there more times than I can count. I’ve never seen the bean though.

I’ve never heard of that one.

That’s exactly it. He needs to be ready, and nothing I say or do will get him there. It will happen in its own time - if ever. I truly hope he gets out before something tragic happens. She’s unhinged.

He might let her control him, but I will not allow her to control me. Ever. He says he understands my position and the why behind it. I just wish he’d get free. Even if we never get back to what we were.

You are right. About all of it. I hope he wakes up soon. She’s already threatened him with a gun. She controls everything - reads through EVERYTHING on his phone. She didn’t like an emoji I sent him in a neutral conversation. I told him I wouldn’t change my communication style because of her.