Grunkle Harm
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Grunkle Harm
@harmcox.bsky.social
Midwestern writer, movie watcher, perv about town. He/him. Here as mental health allows, but don't count on it. Trans himbo. Writing lives on my site: harmcox.ghost.io. I don't DM but I do reply to Venmo @harmcoxrules.
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Just been reminded of another of my all-time favourites, Ian Curtis rides a rollercoaster...
October 8, 2024 at 4:36 PM
I have resorted to being mean right back; it doesn't feel good but I am so tired of being "Miss [DEADNAME]" on the phone that they can go ahead and call me crabby on my chart if it makes that bullshit stop!
December 4, 2025 at 9:59 PM
I already had to fire my docs at Northwestern this week because as a trans person I am not going to be comfortable seeking services there anymore, so if everyone else could work with me on the whole "keeping me alive" plan I'd really appreciate it
December 4, 2025 at 9:58 PM
I am begging gay people to get back to hating rich people
December 4, 2025 at 9:12 PM
Lord knows it would be the first time.
December 3, 2025 at 12:09 AM
A song can change your life! The person who sang it might still be an asshole.
December 2, 2025 at 11:53 PM
Without fail! I don't know who told everyone at the office to guess at people's genders based on their voices, but it was a bad call!!!!
December 2, 2025 at 10:56 PM
I never would have tried Ethiopian food if you hadn't told me it was an option!
December 2, 2025 at 10:53 PM
"Thanks for calling about your trans health care! Sorry we forgot to call in your testosterone refill, anything else we can do for you Miss [REDACTED]?"

Yeah, say that sentence back to yourself real slowly and then apologize for making me do this little song-and-dance every time i call you?
December 2, 2025 at 8:55 PM
This is the dialectic every writer must hold in their heart: the need to validate one's own work vs the fact that outside validation is still very nice sometimes
December 2, 2025 at 12:21 AM
you're so fucking cute, god DAMN it
November 30, 2025 at 2:00 AM