Midwestern writer, movie watcher, perv about town. He/him. Here as mental health allows, but don't count on it. Trans himbo. Writing lives on my site: harmcox.ghost.io. I don't DM but I do reply to Venmo @harmcoxrules.
I have resorted to being mean right back; it doesn't feel good but I am so tired of being "Miss [DEADNAME]" on the phone that they can go ahead and call me crabby on my chart if it makes that bullshit stop!
December 4, 2025 at 9:59 PM
I have resorted to being mean right back; it doesn't feel good but I am so tired of being "Miss [DEADNAME]" on the phone that they can go ahead and call me crabby on my chart if it makes that bullshit stop!
I already had to fire my docs at Northwestern this week because as a trans person I am not going to be comfortable seeking services there anymore, so if everyone else could work with me on the whole "keeping me alive" plan I'd really appreciate it
December 4, 2025 at 9:58 PM
I already had to fire my docs at Northwestern this week because as a trans person I am not going to be comfortable seeking services there anymore, so if everyone else could work with me on the whole "keeping me alive" plan I'd really appreciate it
"Thanks for calling about your trans health care! Sorry we forgot to call in your testosterone refill, anything else we can do for you Miss [REDACTED]?"
Yeah, say that sentence back to yourself real slowly and then apologize for making me do this little song-and-dance every time i call you?
December 2, 2025 at 8:55 PM
"Thanks for calling about your trans health care! Sorry we forgot to call in your testosterone refill, anything else we can do for you Miss [REDACTED]?"
Yeah, say that sentence back to yourself real slowly and then apologize for making me do this little song-and-dance every time i call you?
This is the dialectic every writer must hold in their heart: the need to validate one's own work vs the fact that outside validation is still very nice sometimes
December 2, 2025 at 12:21 AM
This is the dialectic every writer must hold in their heart: the need to validate one's own work vs the fact that outside validation is still very nice sometimes