InquisitiveElle
@inquisitiveelle.bsky.social
Negotiation, Consent, ENM, Service, Education, and Personal Growth Enthusiast. Staff member of @serviceorientedcon.bsky.social and facilitator for the Service Chats. 18+ he/him
I got significantly overwhelmed by a service task for the first time in a while. I started crying looking at the multi-tiered list and the visual input of clutter. I even asked Sir for a hug to help calm me down.
How unservantly.
How unservantly.
December 9, 2025 at 3:55 PM
I got significantly overwhelmed by a service task for the first time in a while. I started crying looking at the multi-tiered list and the visual input of clutter. I even asked Sir for a hug to help calm me down.
How unservantly.
How unservantly.
Happy onesie season to all who celebrate!
December 8, 2025 at 6:27 PM
Happy onesie season to all who celebrate!
I never regret an outdoor run once I’ve done it, but good grief getting out there in the cold is tough!
December 7, 2025 at 8:22 PM
I never regret an outdoor run once I’ve done it, but good grief getting out there in the cold is tough!
Coming up this weekend! I’ll also put the lineup of classes below.
I look forward to helping out with a weekend of virtual consent education hosted by the Orlando Pocketwatch Society in December! Come join us for part or all of the cool classes and panels lined up.
Event Tickets: www.eventbrite.com/e/consent-we...
Event Tickets: www.eventbrite.com/e/consent-we...
Consent Weekend
Multimple classes on consent, from a diverse group of presenters, coming from different kink and mental health perspectives. All levels.
www.eventbrite.com
December 5, 2025 at 6:48 PM
Coming up this weekend! I’ll also put the lineup of classes below.
Oddly enough, I spend half the time marveling at the tactics used and how they affect me when I bottom for interrogation play. I get scared and confused sure, but then I’ll start laughing or say, “Wow, that’s so cool!” This may dull the vibes for the top if they’re not down to go with it.
December 4, 2025 at 1:42 PM
Oddly enough, I spend half the time marveling at the tactics used and how they affect me when I bottom for interrogation play. I get scared and confused sure, but then I’ll start laughing or say, “Wow, that’s so cool!” This may dull the vibes for the top if they’re not down to go with it.
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What could be better than kicking your feet back and playing some games with the bros? How about if the bro being used like a coffee table was getting off to it! @hiencomics.com.au cleans house with this sexy story about being human furniture.
www.ohjoysextoy.com/pleasure-fur...
www.ohjoysextoy.com/pleasure-fur...
December 2, 2025 at 6:00 PM
What could be better than kicking your feet back and playing some games with the bros? How about if the bro being used like a coffee table was getting off to it! @hiencomics.com.au cleans house with this sexy story about being human furniture.
www.ohjoysextoy.com/pleasure-fur...
www.ohjoysextoy.com/pleasure-fur...
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DO SOMETHING ABOUT THIS
Congress is attempting to fast track KOSA and more than a dozen bills that would restrict internet access, censor speech and increase surveillance under the guise of protecting children.
Committee hearings begin tomorrow.
Committee hearings begin tomorrow.
Lawmakers to consider 19 bills for childproofing the internet
KOSA is back, along with more than a dozen other bills that will erode free speech and privacy in the name of protecting kids.
reason.com
December 2, 2025 at 2:42 AM
DO SOMETHING ABOUT THIS
Things that make me groan:
An intro to submission class, explicitly stating all genders and orientations are welcome, where one of the learning objectives is, “Embracing your feminine energy.”
(Please may we stop with the submission is inherently feminine notion? Please? Maybe?)
An intro to submission class, explicitly stating all genders and orientations are welcome, where one of the learning objectives is, “Embracing your feminine energy.”
(Please may we stop with the submission is inherently feminine notion? Please? Maybe?)
November 30, 2025 at 7:15 PM
Things that make me groan:
An intro to submission class, explicitly stating all genders and orientations are welcome, where one of the learning objectives is, “Embracing your feminine energy.”
(Please may we stop with the submission is inherently feminine notion? Please? Maybe?)
An intro to submission class, explicitly stating all genders and orientations are welcome, where one of the learning objectives is, “Embracing your feminine energy.”
(Please may we stop with the submission is inherently feminine notion? Please? Maybe?)
Coming up in just one week!
I look forward to helping out with a weekend of virtual consent education hosted by the Orlando Pocketwatch Society in December! Come join us for part or all of the cool classes and panels lined up.
Event Tickets: www.eventbrite.com/e/consent-we...
Event Tickets: www.eventbrite.com/e/consent-we...
Consent Weekend
Multimple classes on consent, from a diverse group of presenters, coming from different kink and mental health perspectives. All levels.
www.eventbrite.com
November 30, 2025 at 2:27 PM
Coming up in just one week!
I never imagined a power imbalanced relationship would inspire deep thought about so many things. Like running, fuzzy pants, and gorgonzola cheese..
November 28, 2025 at 6:13 PM
I never imagined a power imbalanced relationship would inspire deep thought about so many things. Like running, fuzzy pants, and gorgonzola cheese..
Has Fall Out Boy covered “Your Idol,” from K-Pop Demon Hunters yet? I’d even take a mashup of “Your Idol” and “Centuries.” Their vibes are so similar!
November 25, 2025 at 7:42 PM
Has Fall Out Boy covered “Your Idol,” from K-Pop Demon Hunters yet? I’d even take a mashup of “Your Idol” and “Centuries.” Their vibes are so similar!
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I do not drink because I have almost no tolerance for it anymore (one margarita is too much).
If you are hosting a party, I recommend also stocking:
-fancy ginger beer
-coconut water
-premium juices like lychee and guava
-apple cider with cinnamon
-Italian sodas
-sparkling water
Lots of options!
If you are hosting a party, I recommend also stocking:
-fancy ginger beer
-coconut water
-premium juices like lychee and guava
-apple cider with cinnamon
-Italian sodas
-sparkling water
Lots of options!
November 24, 2025 at 4:01 AM
I do not drink because I have almost no tolerance for it anymore (one margarita is too much).
If you are hosting a party, I recommend also stocking:
-fancy ginger beer
-coconut water
-premium juices like lychee and guava
-apple cider with cinnamon
-Italian sodas
-sparkling water
Lots of options!
If you are hosting a party, I recommend also stocking:
-fancy ginger beer
-coconut water
-premium juices like lychee and guava
-apple cider with cinnamon
-Italian sodas
-sparkling water
Lots of options!
I look forward to helping out with a weekend of virtual consent education hosted by the Orlando Pocketwatch Society in December! Come join us for part or all of the cool classes and panels lined up.
Event Tickets: www.eventbrite.com/e/consent-we...
Event Tickets: www.eventbrite.com/e/consent-we...
Consent Weekend
Multimple classes on consent, from a diverse group of presenters, coming from different kink and mental health perspectives. All levels.
www.eventbrite.com
November 23, 2025 at 6:11 PM
I look forward to helping out with a weekend of virtual consent education hosted by the Orlando Pocketwatch Society in December! Come join us for part or all of the cool classes and panels lined up.
Event Tickets: www.eventbrite.com/e/consent-we...
Event Tickets: www.eventbrite.com/e/consent-we...
“Oh sorry, I was tied up with something!”
*grins*
*grins*
Coworker asked me why I was taking so long to reply to her on Snapchat. What's a casual way to tell someone I was chained up in a giant dog kennel licking someone's feet?
November 22, 2025 at 9:38 PM
“Oh sorry, I was tied up with something!”
*grins*
*grins*
Though this week could have been worse, it has certainly not been my week.
November 21, 2025 at 4:57 PM
Though this week could have been worse, it has certainly not been my week.
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Today is transgender day of remembrance, so remember to love the trans people in your life because you never know when you might lose them 💚
#tdor
#tdor
November 20, 2025 at 6:22 PM
Today is transgender day of remembrance, so remember to love the trans people in your life because you never know when you might lose them 💚
#tdor
#tdor
I look forward to sharing my experiences and learning from yours through, “Imposter Syndrome, The Scene, and Me,” this Saturday! It will be the last time I share this class for the year.
More details here: fetlife.com/events/1862190
More details here: fetlife.com/events/1862190
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Welcome back, we've missed you!
fetlife.com
November 19, 2025 at 6:50 PM
I look forward to sharing my experiences and learning from yours through, “Imposter Syndrome, The Scene, and Me,” this Saturday! It will be the last time I share this class for the year.
More details here: fetlife.com/events/1862190
More details here: fetlife.com/events/1862190
November 17, 2025 at 7:51 PM
The fine print on those lifestyle D/s advertisements didn’t say anything about being ordered to make uncomfortable phone calls to 800 number businesses! XD /j
November 14, 2025 at 7:04 PM
The fine print on those lifestyle D/s advertisements didn’t say anything about being ordered to make uncomfortable phone calls to 800 number businesses! XD /j
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Researching who wrote various BDSM guides, because you never want to announce 'it is quite good' and find out you recommended a noted missing stair.
November 13, 2025 at 8:15 PM
Researching who wrote various BDSM guides, because you never want to announce 'it is quite good' and find out you recommended a noted missing stair.
There’s a complex relief in learning someone I know has unfriended me on social media. I don’t take it as a friendship breakup; by the time this happens, especially without an accompanying conversation, the relationship has mostly faded anyway.
November 13, 2025 at 4:57 PM
There’s a complex relief in learning someone I know has unfriended me on social media. I don’t take it as a friendship breakup; by the time this happens, especially without an accompanying conversation, the relationship has mostly faded anyway.
This month’s Service Chat features a discussion-based class on Service and Self-Care! Join us this Saturday as we learn about self care for and while serving a human, event, or community.
Details here: fetlife.com/events/1908342
Details here: fetlife.com/events/1908342
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Welcome back, we've missed you!
fetlife.com
November 12, 2025 at 9:05 PM
This month’s Service Chat features a discussion-based class on Service and Self-Care! Join us this Saturday as we learn about self care for and while serving a human, event, or community.
Details here: fetlife.com/events/1908342
Details here: fetlife.com/events/1908342
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I know we all have a lot of other things to worry about right now but this is your PSA to get the latest covid booster & flu shot if you haven't already. It takes a couple weeks to build immunity and holidays will be here soon. (Stickers from my shop! shop.breelundberg.com/product/get-...)
November 11, 2025 at 5:46 PM
I know we all have a lot of other things to worry about right now but this is your PSA to get the latest covid booster & flu shot if you haven't already. It takes a couple weeks to build immunity and holidays will be here soon. (Stickers from my shop! shop.breelundberg.com/product/get-...)
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The full report on this alleged food crime, now posted at ye olde blogge:
In Which I Eat The Food Crime Known As Kraft Apple Pie Mac & Cheese
You may have heard the news — and if not, you may have felt it in your bones, a paroxysm of worry squirming in your marrow like worms — that Kraft put out an apple pie mac and cheese. A…
terribleminds.com
November 9, 2025 at 5:56 PM
The full report on this alleged food crime, now posted at ye olde blogge:
I’m noticing a trend among people who meet/know me and (unintentionally or intentionally) misgender me. They tend to be (usually cisgender) men who find me attractive or women who relate to the experiences I share.
It’s tiring some days.
It’s tiring some days.
November 10, 2025 at 1:11 PM
I’m noticing a trend among people who meet/know me and (unintentionally or intentionally) misgender me. They tend to be (usually cisgender) men who find me attractive or women who relate to the experiences I share.
It’s tiring some days.
It’s tiring some days.