i feel like if you're even putting -that- much effort into just going to take a picture, there's gotta be a chance of even stumbling into the hobby itself... like you might as well if you're already there?

so i, as a trans man, avoid this tag at all costs because it always feels incredibly feminizing and fetishizing to read about how I might be viewed. I already live it, I don't want it in my fiction/fantasy time. Especially when it's a cis woman writing it and missing the whole point of our identity.

definitely feels more like it's a fad now instead of just writing trans characters since most of the things i've read into make it seem more like a "she's the man" or very pointedly stressing that this MAN HAS A PUSSY ISNT THAT WEIRD AND EROTIC AND THESE -FEMININE- TRAITS STILL?!?

yeah :/