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L.L.
@ladylibido.bsky.social
Call me L.L. or Lady | She/Her | 30's | Art & Writing | 18+ only. Women-focused smutt writer and artist. Aliens and NonHumans. DMs open.

All links, socials, and art/fic archive can be found on my website:
https://ladylibido.net/
I will not end it, no, but we cannot have financial freedom as long as it is illegal. The second aspect is social. Changing the social perception of sex also starts with decriminalizing sex work. (most charge backs occur due to social shame associated with sex) So much stems from it.
November 29, 2025 at 5:20 PM
The 'final boss', is decriminalization of sex work. As long as it is illegal to sell sexual acts between consenting adults, banks will be terrified of touching anything that looks like it might facilitate that. This is a deeply entrenched legal matter in addition to social one.
November 29, 2025 at 5:10 PM
They're both adorable but honestly I'm really taken by just how nice that second picture is. It is likely just a quick snap but I really enjoy the composition of it. The lighting helps, too, lol.
November 27, 2025 at 4:40 AM
What's your definition of queer porn in this context? I'm Grey Ace/Grey Aro and my smut is almost exclusively M/F.

(though, the dynamics of what I write is difficult to find in M/F pairings. Goodness knows I've looked.)
November 21, 2025 at 12:56 PM
Yes, this has always been the problem with KoFi. KoFi has always had a rule that indicated that any links were subject to their policies and that they would ban accounts that even so much as linked to anything that was prohibited. This iteration is just the clearest.
November 12, 2025 at 2:33 AM
they only care about the bottom line. People that maliciously report like this are at an advantage because they don't have to do more than point to a few out-of-context words. But the person being reported has to fight to even heard in the first place, to have the chance to disprove any of it.
November 11, 2025 at 10:13 PM
That aside, I def think someone (or a group) is going through your services and reporting anything they can twist regardless of the actual content. (such as going after specific titles that have a hint of being in violation of a service's restrictions) And none of those services care about the truth
November 11, 2025 at 10:13 PM
Yeah if anyone makes anything even remotely suggestive at all, don't bother with Ko-Fi.

Their 'nsfw' tag is for swearing, drug mentions, violence, and 'artistic nudity':
help.ko-fi.com/hc/en-us/art...

They admit they check external activity:
help.ko-fi.com/hc/en-us/art...
November 11, 2025 at 9:57 PM
their 'nsfw' tag is the classic 'not safe for work', in that it includes all things that are not safe to look at at work, such as gore, drug mention and even swearing.

help.ko-fi.com/hc/en-us/art...

They also track external activity.
help.ko-fi.com/hc/en-us/art...
November 11, 2025 at 9:52 PM
All it takes is one hater to report you with a convincing enough claim. It doesn't even have to be true, it just has to look true enough to get attention.
November 10, 2025 at 8:09 PM