Lady Victoria NYC ✨🕯️✨
@ladyvictorianyc.ch
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NYC Dominatrix for the Discerning Deviant👌😈 In-person since 2015, now playing online only👩🏼‍💻 For playtime 😈🪄: SextPanther.com/LadyVictoriaNYC LoyalFans.com/LadyVictoriaNYC How I train mine IRL 🧘‍♀️: Patreon.com/TheLVAcademy Links 🔗: campsite.bio/LadyVictoria
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Does anyone know of a way to see posts from *all* of our friends?

I keep up with the ‘Mutuals’ feed most days, yet I’m missing posts by friends who are following me back 🤔

Please tell me there’s a trick to it 🍀

For now, I appreciate how the notifications for posts feature is neatly organized 👌
ladyvictorianyc.ch
Hey @bsky.app

Is there a way to stop the ‘Mutuals’ list from randomly skipping posts by our friends from our feeds?

I scroll to the end of my feed most days and yet am missing all kinds of posts from friends 💔
ladyvictorianyc.ch
My concern is that a new list would behave the same way as the ‘Mutuals’ list 🤔

I appreciate you offering the idea! 🙏
ladyvictorianyc.ch
Yes, as a professional Domina on the internet, I say a whole bunch of things that make absolutely no sense outside the context of a paid experience.

It’s also part of the business to know that 99% of subs think wanking or doing things to their own body is ‘service’ and we advertise accordingly 🪧
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IMO, ‘service’ means making someone’s life easier or taking tasks off of their to-do list.

I’ve yet to hear one example for how a person could make my life easier or tackle my to-do list long distance that doesn’t involve money 🤔

Real service is about meeting needs as they really are in real life.
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I disagree with the idea that ‘Money is not service’ 🤔

Money happens to be the only way to serve my real life needs right now as a hermit who doesn’t see people in-person 🤷🏼‍♀️

Those who take care of me financially are doing the most valuable service they could possibly do for me at this time ✨🙏✨
ladyvictorianyc.ch
Does anyone know of a way to see posts from *all* of our friends?

I keep up with the ‘Mutuals’ feed most days, yet I’m missing posts by friends who are following me back 🤔

Please tell me there’s a trick to it 🍀

For now, I appreciate how the notifications for posts feature is neatly organized 👌
ladyvictorianyc.ch
October could be the perfect month to take a weed and booze break 🤔

For those who love Halloween, this can be a busy and fun month 👻

And taking a drive to see the leaves change can be a calming option 🍂

I wish you good luck and Satan-spede (sp?), and I’m here for you if you need a distraction ✨🖤✨
ladyvictorianyc.ch
I hope you feel better soon ✨🍀✨
ladyvictorianyc.ch
The Siren House will also be offering Service School 🎓🏫📝

For those precious few who wish to be more desirable to Dominas and are willing to put some work into learning and growing ✨🧎✨

While I sadly cannot attend the soirée this year, I hope everyone has an amazing time! ✨🖤✨
Service School
At the Siren House, Winter 2025
Learn to be a SUPER servant.
Become a favorite, a highly sought-after sub.
Learn new skills, upgrade your abilities, leave better than when you arrived.
In-depth physical service skills taught, as well as deep psychology of the Mistress mindset and M/s relationships.
Hosted by Mistress Michelle Lacy and Indomitus Mistresses
ladyvictorianyc.ch
On October 19th, the Siren House Society and Mistress Michelle Lacy present:

✨The Queens Soirée ✨

This is a FemDom themed costume party that you can attend with a favorite patron & know you’ll both have a great time 👌😈

Renowned photographer @tommyophotos.bsky.social will be on hand for photos 📸
THE SIREN HOUSE SOCIETY
PRESENTS
THE QUEENS SOIRÉE
WWW.SIRENHOUSESOCIETY.COM
• Royal Costumes
• Slave Auction
• Hors d'oeuvres & Drinks
• Indoors/Outdoors
• Optional Overnight
• Mansion Stay
• Play Area
• Pony Carts
OCTOBER 19, 2025
CELEBRATION & FUNDRAISER
Inquire: IndomitusEvents@gmail.com
ladyvictorianyc.ch
So many subs on fan sites have asked if I have a Domina friend I can recommend for in-person adventures 👌😈

Well, @michellelacy.bsky.social and I have more patrons in common than I do with any other Mistress ✨👸🏼🧎👸🏻✨

I’d also recommend fellow pros check out her events; there’s a Spring SW Retreat 🌹
ladyvictorianyc.ch
Happy October, y’all! ✨🖤✨

Tomorrow I’m back 8am-1pm EST for cam sessions & naughty connections👌😈

This is such a lovely season to see what happens when you give yourself over to a witchy woman with a wicked sense of humor 👸🏼🧎🕯️🕳️

✨🍂✨🎃✨👻✨🎃✨🍂✨
a black and white cartoon of betty boop standing next to a fireplace
Alt: A black and white cartoon from 1933 of Betty Boop bouncing in front of a fireplace lighting Halloween jack-o’-lanterns where the candles first look like cigarettes held in the mouths of three pumpkins but then they open their mouths wide to take the candles inside.
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Who’s your favourite Jedi? (wrong answers only)

@lyndacarter.bsky.social for life! ✊
Reposted by Lady Victoria NYC ✨🕯️✨
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PAY ATTENTION DEVIANTS 🙌🏻

GO FOLLOW @ladyvictorianyc.ch

She is Magnificent 👌🏻

Don't take my word for it... CHECK HER OUT ✨️🔥🖤👑
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Happy Birthday! 🥳

May this next year be one of your best years ✨🖤✨
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Oh, that is so good to hear! ✨🖤✨
ladyvictorianyc.ch
Happy Birthday ✨🖤✨

May this next year be one of your best years!
ladyvictorianyc.ch
Hey #BookSky 📚💙

Are there any newer books you would recommend to people who want to be more seductive, alluring, or desirable to other people?

Comments are open ✨🙏✨

YouTube channel or podcast recommendations are also welcome as I know not everyone learns by reading.
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Yes, referring to targets as ‘victims’ 265x feels uncomfortable for me every time 🤨

But imo, the study of power or rhetoric equips us with both a sword & shield, we get to choose how we use them & they’re worth pursuing in the world we live in🛡️🗡️

My next read may start with the political chapters 🤔
A screenshot of the book’s Wikipedia page showing one of the character types covered: 

The Charismatic

Charismatic seducers are inherently exciting because they come across as self sufficient and self driven. They represent the kind of personality that most people want to see themselves as. They might be great orators, public figures, visionaries or leaders. People might look towards them to alleviate their sufferings or to save them. They use their powerful personalities and their way with words to sway emotions and to stir up change. Some charismatic figures are able to seduce by creating contradictions within their personalities e.g. cruelty and kindness, power and vulnerability, etc. Greene uses Eva Perón, Elvis Presley, Joan of Arc, Grigori Rasputin, Malcolm X, Charles de Gaulle, and Jiddu Krishnamurti as examples.
ladyvictorianyc.ch
‘The Art of Seduction’ by Robert Greene is my favorite book on the topic 👌😈

Getting people to like you is a skill that can be learned 👍

The first time I read it ~20 years ago, I delighted in the tales of entrepreneurial women, including actresses & courtesans like Marilyn Monroe & Cora Pearl ✨💃
aphroditevoid.bsky.social
Men need to learn how to be seductive and alluring. The tables are obviously turning.
ladyvictorianyc.ch
This week I will not be online for calls.

I’ll be back October 2nd 💋💋💋
ladyvictorianyc.ch
NYC, here comes your chance to serve a living legend ✨👸🏼✨

I had the pleasure of meeting Goddess Severa in May of 2023 at DomCon LA as she was being inducted into The Dominatrix Hall of Fame 🏆

The subs who have seen her speak in reverent terms ✨🧎✨ She has an unmistakable Presence of Authority ✨🙏
goddesssevera.bsky.social
My legendary blend of punishment and play will be on tour this November in NYC, Philly, and DC.

New York City November 11th-14th
Philadelphia November 15th-17th
Washington, DC November 17th-19th
ladyvictorianyc.ch
Hearing slutty confessions is one of my favorite ways to start the day 🥰

I'm on until 1 PM today to hear your secrets 🤫 or task you with something naughty if you haven't been having enough fun lately 👌😈

I'll be back Saturday 8a-1p EST 💋💋💋
SextPanther.com/LadyVictoriaNYC