"These characters' conflicted feelings about having dicks and getting bottom surgery may seem nuanced on the surface, but secretly, this story thinks you're not valid unless you get surgery. That's what Laura's whole thing is about, I think."

yeah, i first saw how healthy polyam relationships looked in the lives of a number of queer friends & that's what interested me as well.

polyamory def requires a lot of self work since the bulk of society is very mononormative & patriarchal, but i'm growing a lot as a person & am much happier.