SophicSiren
@sophicsiren.bsky.social
Nail polish princess in a grease stained jersey. Rural Chicagoish. Steak rare, bourbon neat. Pan demi poly sub, often NSFW. Elder kinkster. Real writer. Mediocre triathlete. Adorkable geek. Anxious mess. Beautiful disaster. She/her. Namaste, bitches.
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SophicSiren
@sophicsiren.bsky.social
· Nov 15
I'm the kind of submissive that vanilla people always assume is a Dominatrix
My date with Madison guy was amazing
He got the keys to his new place today, we stopped by there on the way to get a drink so I could see it
If there had been furniture... we would not have made it out for that drink
We would not have made it out of the bedroom
Cannot wait to see him again
He got the keys to his new place today, we stopped by there on the way to get a drink so I could see it
If there had been furniture... we would not have made it out for that drink
We would not have made it out of the bedroom
Cannot wait to see him again
December 6, 2025 at 6:47 AM
My date with Madison guy was amazing
He got the keys to his new place today, we stopped by there on the way to get a drink so I could see it
If there had been furniture... we would not have made it out for that drink
We would not have made it out of the bedroom
Cannot wait to see him again
He got the keys to his new place today, we stopped by there on the way to get a drink so I could see it
If there had been furniture... we would not have made it out for that drink
We would not have made it out of the bedroom
Cannot wait to see him again
By this time tomorrow night my first date with Madison guy should be finishing up
I haven't been this excited for a first date since the one that ended up in a four year partnership with the ex I'm still in love with
I am going to be devastated if this doesn't go the way we expect it to
I haven't been this excited for a first date since the one that ended up in a four year partnership with the ex I'm still in love with
I am going to be devastated if this doesn't go the way we expect it to
December 5, 2025 at 4:16 AM
By this time tomorrow night my first date with Madison guy should be finishing up
I haven't been this excited for a first date since the one that ended up in a four year partnership with the ex I'm still in love with
I am going to be devastated if this doesn't go the way we expect it to
I haven't been this excited for a first date since the one that ended up in a four year partnership with the ex I'm still in love with
I am going to be devastated if this doesn't go the way we expect it to
Madison guy just said he's proud of me for starting training again today you guys I am doomed am soooooo gonna fall for this man
December 4, 2025 at 12:13 AM
Madison guy just said he's proud of me for starting training again today you guys I am doomed am soooooo gonna fall for this man
Absolutely loving that Madison guy tells me first thing in the morning that he's got a busy work day and won't be able to chat
We usually message many times all day
We haven't even had our first date yet and he's being more thoughtful about my anxiety than maybe any other partner has been
We usually message many times all day
We haven't even had our first date yet and he's being more thoughtful about my anxiety than maybe any other partner has been
December 2, 2025 at 4:13 PM
Absolutely loving that Madison guy tells me first thing in the morning that he's got a busy work day and won't be able to chat
We usually message many times all day
We haven't even had our first date yet and he's being more thoughtful about my anxiety than maybe any other partner has been
We usually message many times all day
We haven't even had our first date yet and he's being more thoughtful about my anxiety than maybe any other partner has been
Husband and boychild are both sick and I'm going to be devastated if I get sick again and have to miss my rescheduled date with Madison guy
December 2, 2025 at 4:10 PM
Husband and boychild are both sick and I'm going to be devastated if I get sick again and have to miss my rescheduled date with Madison guy
Neurosurgeon update for those playing along at home...
He agrees new chronic shoulder pain and arm numbness is concerning, shouldn't be fusion related
Sending me for MRI, EMG, sports medicine consult in case it's from prior injury
If all that fails, next step is peripheral nerve specialist
He agrees new chronic shoulder pain and arm numbness is concerning, shouldn't be fusion related
Sending me for MRI, EMG, sports medicine consult in case it's from prior injury
If all that fails, next step is peripheral nerve specialist
December 2, 2025 at 4:49 AM
Neurosurgeon update for those playing along at home...
He agrees new chronic shoulder pain and arm numbness is concerning, shouldn't be fusion related
Sending me for MRI, EMG, sports medicine consult in case it's from prior injury
If all that fails, next step is peripheral nerve specialist
He agrees new chronic shoulder pain and arm numbness is concerning, shouldn't be fusion related
Sending me for MRI, EMG, sports medicine consult in case it's from prior injury
If all that fails, next step is peripheral nerve specialist
English Teacher Dom guy is a bit of an exhibitionist and now I get random messages saying he wants me to watch him get off
If I'm available, he does a video call
Definitely not mad about it
If I'm available, he does a video call
Definitely not mad about it
December 2, 2025 at 4:45 AM
English Teacher Dom guy is a bit of an exhibitionist and now I get random messages saying he wants me to watch him get off
If I'm available, he does a video call
Definitely not mad about it
If I'm available, he does a video call
Definitely not mad about it
Just lost the fourth family member this year, this time on my husband's side. The favorite uncle who made the 800 mile round trip drive to visit worth it. And I don't think I can go to his funeral because my AuDHD kiddos can't really travel.
2025 can go straight to hell
2025 can go straight to hell
November 29, 2025 at 4:45 PM
Just lost the fourth family member this year, this time on my husband's side. The favorite uncle who made the 800 mile round trip drive to visit worth it. And I don't think I can go to his funeral because my AuDHD kiddos can't really travel.
2025 can go straight to hell
2025 can go straight to hell
Madison guy just referred to us as a situationship, apparently we're past pretending we're going to stay in the friendzone until his divorce is farther along
He just promised to have their shared custody dog there when I come up after he moves to his new place 😍
Rescheduled first date next week
He just promised to have their shared custody dog there when I come up after he moves to his new place 😍
Rescheduled first date next week
November 27, 2025 at 4:53 AM
Madison guy just referred to us as a situationship, apparently we're past pretending we're going to stay in the friendzone until his divorce is farther along
He just promised to have their shared custody dog there when I come up after he moves to his new place 😍
Rescheduled first date next week
He just promised to have their shared custody dog there when I come up after he moves to his new place 😍
Rescheduled first date next week
New automatic swipe left just dropped...
Been getting an influx of men in martial arts
I have no problem with martial arts, I've studied four. My dad has been a judo coach for 50 years. I have mad respect for martial arts.
But dating profile pics in your gi is a red fucking flag
Been getting an influx of men in martial arts
I have no problem with martial arts, I've studied four. My dad has been a judo coach for 50 years. I have mad respect for martial arts.
But dating profile pics in your gi is a red fucking flag
November 26, 2025 at 6:55 AM
New automatic swipe left just dropped...
Been getting an influx of men in martial arts
I have no problem with martial arts, I've studied four. My dad has been a judo coach for 50 years. I have mad respect for martial arts.
But dating profile pics in your gi is a red fucking flag
Been getting an influx of men in martial arts
I have no problem with martial arts, I've studied four. My dad has been a judo coach for 50 years. I have mad respect for martial arts.
But dating profile pics in your gi is a red fucking flag
Madison guy just keeps making himself more attractive, said he feels a close connection and thinks we're going to have chemistry and he's really afraid of hurting me because he's such a wreck with his divorce right now
Taking things glacially slow for both our sakes
The sexual tension may kill us
Taking things glacially slow for both our sakes
The sexual tension may kill us
November 26, 2025 at 6:13 AM
Madison guy just keeps making himself more attractive, said he feels a close connection and thinks we're going to have chemistry and he's really afraid of hurting me because he's such a wreck with his divorce right now
Taking things glacially slow for both our sakes
The sexual tension may kill us
Taking things glacially slow for both our sakes
The sexual tension may kill us
There's a delightful moment in Bridgerton when Colin describes his hangover as "my head is bottle weary" and if I'm ever dumb enough to end up hung over again, I really want to use that line
November 25, 2025 at 5:24 AM
There's a delightful moment in Bridgerton when Colin describes his hangover as "my head is bottle weary" and if I'm ever dumb enough to end up hung over again, I really want to use that line
Y'all do you have any idea how hot it is that I can text Madison guy to ask his thoughts on whether I should go with shallots or leeks in a brussel sprouts gruyere gratin and he has an informed opinion?!?!
November 24, 2025 at 5:43 PM
Y'all do you have any idea how hot it is that I can text Madison guy to ask his thoughts on whether I should go with shallots or leeks in a brussel sprouts gruyere gratin and he has an informed opinion?!?!
Turns out the best answer to the gut wrenching is he busy or bored with me game is waking up to a sexy video he made for me as soon as he had a moment to spare
November 24, 2025 at 5:33 PM
Turns out the best answer to the gut wrenching is he busy or bored with me game is waking up to a sexy video he made for me as soon as he had a moment to spare
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i saw a post on here recently that was a dude saying that “women shouldn’t ignore people commenting on their posts because it’s rude and they’ll lose a follower” and its the most online version of “women should smile more” i have ever seen
December 30, 2023 at 7:46 PM
i saw a post on here recently that was a dude saying that “women shouldn’t ignore people commenting on their posts because it’s rude and they’ll lose a follower” and its the most online version of “women should smile more” i have ever seen
I'll never give up hoping that Charlie Brown gets to kick the football
Because it's becoming clear that I'm Charlie Brown, Lucy is the universe and the football is my love life
Because it's becoming clear that I'm Charlie Brown, Lucy is the universe and the football is my love life
November 24, 2025 at 4:21 AM
I'll never give up hoping that Charlie Brown gets to kick the football
Because it's becoming clear that I'm Charlie Brown, Lucy is the universe and the football is my love life
Because it's becoming clear that I'm Charlie Brown, Lucy is the universe and the football is my love life
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I don’t need an HDTV I need an ADHDTV that knows when I break eye contact to play on my phone and has a button that skips my show right back to that point
November 22, 2025 at 8:51 PM
I don’t need an HDTV I need an ADHDTV that knows when I break eye contact to play on my phone and has a button that skips my show right back to that point
I still don't know if I'll ever find love but I'm currently petsitting the 5 week old feral kitten my neighbor just adopted so for today I'm about as content as it's possible to be
November 22, 2025 at 9:38 PM
I still don't know if I'll ever find love but I'm currently petsitting the 5 week old feral kitten my neighbor just adopted so for today I'm about as content as it's possible to be
In this week's epsiode of
Fuck. My. Life.
Fuck. My. Life.
Finally met someone that feels like I meant the other half of me, and has primary potential even though we live 90 miles apart... so of course the question has now become did he agree to ENM hoping to prevent a now certain divorce, or can he accept being with someone like me who can't do monogamy
November 22, 2025 at 1:06 AM
In this week's epsiode of
Fuck. My. Life.
Fuck. My. Life.
Finally met someone that feels like I meant the other half of me, and has primary potential even though we live 90 miles apart... so of course the question has now become did he agree to ENM hoping to prevent a now certain divorce, or can he accept being with someone like me who can't do monogamy
November 22, 2025 at 1:05 AM
Finally met someone that feels like I meant the other half of me, and has primary potential even though we live 90 miles apart... so of course the question has now become did he agree to ENM hoping to prevent a now certain divorce, or can he accept being with someone like me who can't do monogamy
My meta (i.e. husband on paper's gf/sub) who lived here for last several years is mostly moved in with their triad gf
Feel some semblance of peace after living with OCD triggering chaos gremlin
But the OCD that's been triggered daily for years to the point of breakdown is now in the driver's seat
Feel some semblance of peace after living with OCD triggering chaos gremlin
But the OCD that's been triggered daily for years to the point of breakdown is now in the driver's seat
November 22, 2025 at 12:50 AM
My meta (i.e. husband on paper's gf/sub) who lived here for last several years is mostly moved in with their triad gf
Feel some semblance of peace after living with OCD triggering chaos gremlin
But the OCD that's been triggered daily for years to the point of breakdown is now in the driver's seat
Feel some semblance of peace after living with OCD triggering chaos gremlin
But the OCD that's been triggered daily for years to the point of breakdown is now in the driver's seat
Started Quicksilver... may have to add Kingfisher and Osha to my ship stan collection with Rhys and Feyra, and Xaden and Violet
November 21, 2025 at 4:42 PM
Started Quicksilver... may have to add Kingfisher and Osha to my ship stan collection with Rhys and Feyra, and Xaden and Violet
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If you see me being choked by a bicep, don't save me I'm exactly where I wanted to be
November 9, 2025 at 6:44 PM
If you see me being choked by a bicep, don't save me I'm exactly where I wanted to be
Spent over 20 years being mad that I lent a friend my copy of the original version of Salem's Lot and not only did he lose it, he doesn't even remember borrowing it
A few days ago I finally decided to replace it
Now I'm mad something I consider a normal possession is selling as "vintage"
A few days ago I finally decided to replace it
Now I'm mad something I consider a normal possession is selling as "vintage"
November 20, 2025 at 8:59 PM
Spent over 20 years being mad that I lent a friend my copy of the original version of Salem's Lot and not only did he lose it, he doesn't even remember borrowing it
A few days ago I finally decided to replace it
Now I'm mad something I consider a normal possession is selling as "vintage"
A few days ago I finally decided to replace it
Now I'm mad something I consider a normal possession is selling as "vintage"
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You know what, since no one else is gonna tell you, I guess I'm gonna have to be the one to do it. Alright, here it goes...
Damn, you are looking good and doing your best today! Chin up you stunning thing you, cause you got this!
Damn, you are looking good and doing your best today! Chin up you stunning thing you, cause you got this!
November 20, 2025 at 8:41 PM
You know what, since no one else is gonna tell you, I guess I'm gonna have to be the one to do it. Alright, here it goes...
Damn, you are looking good and doing your best today! Chin up you stunning thing you, cause you got this!
Damn, you are looking good and doing your best today! Chin up you stunning thing you, cause you got this!