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stef rose
@stefinitely.cool
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she/her | loves 90s alternative, black hair dye, tattoos, live music, & @matty.wtf | bi 🩷💜💙| hates raw tomatoes & patriarchy | keeper of a tuxie cat, chickens, & Aussies | raising teenagers | googly-eyed goth | stefinitely.cool
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Coffee table upgrade! Retired the broken pine chest I’ve had since I was a kid and replaced it with the kind of “fancy” furniture you assemble yourself. Still an improvement! And only 2.5 more years until high school districts no longer mean Matty and I have to live apart half the time.
A cozy living room with a beige loveseat decorated with black and gray pillows, including one with a white skull design and a black throw blanket patterned with white snakes. In front of the couch sits a dark wood coffee table with mid-century legs and a wooden tray holding a candle, coasters, and a wooden box. A lamp glows softly to the left, the Stone Temple Pilots No. 4 album and a pink-and-blue The Cure Chicago concert print hangs on the gray wall above. The space feels warm, eclectic, and comfortably lived-in. A cozy living room featuring a beige loveseat with black and gray pillows, including one with a white skull design and a black throw blanket patterned with white snakes. In front of the couch sits a white wooden chest used as a coffee table, topped with a wooden tray holding a candle, coasters, and a carved wooden box. A lamp with a navy shade glows softly on a side table to the left, surrounded by small decor pieces like a photo frame and a pumpkin. The gray wall behind the couch is decorated with string lights and framed art, including a Stone Temple Pilots album and a pink-and-blue The Cure Chicago concert print. The space feels warm, eclectic, and comfortably lived-in.
November 11, 2025 at 12:55 PM
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And here’s my insult. What’s yours?
A dark red and black gradient background with white text that reads: “🔥 Rare Insults — Fresh burns delivered daily. You’re the human equivalent of a migraine.” Below the text is a red rounded button labeled “Get Roasted 🔥
November 9, 2025 at 12:27 AM
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Here’s my random compliment :) What’s yours?
A pink and orange gradient background with white text that reads: “💖 Compliments — You deserve to hear this. You give people space without making them feel abandoned.” Below the text is a rounded pink button that says “✨ Get Your Compliment ✨.”
November 9, 2025 at 12:25 AM
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This Diet Cherry Coke will fix me. Hopefully 🤦🏻‍♀️
A person holds a large Wendy’s cup filled with soda and ice inside a car. The red Wendy’s logo is visible on the clear cup, and a red straw sticks out from the lid. The person is wearing several beaded bracelets on their wrist, and sunlight highlights their hand and the drink. Bird tattoos are visible. A GPS map is faintly visible on the car’s dashboard screen in the background
November 4, 2025 at 6:48 PM
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This is amazing!
A black and purple Dunkin’ Halloween bucket sits on a wooden table. The bucket features a spiderweb design with the Dunkin’ logo and festive Halloween graphics, including a character wearing a green witch hat. The purple lid is topped with a black plastic spider decoration, making the bucket look playful and seasonal. In the background, an office chair and other furniture are visible
October 31, 2025 at 4:43 PM
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My favorite mug. It only comes out for spooky season, but maybe this is the year it gets a permanent spot.
A black coffee mug with a white spiderweb design sits on a wooden surface. The mug is filled with tea, with soft froth rising above the rim. In the softly blurred background, dark and warm tones hint at fall decor and green leaves, adding to the cozy, seasonal atmosphere.
October 25, 2025 at 1:23 PM
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Going to listen to a friend’s boyfriend’s band because I am apparently seventeen hahaha
A woman with chin-length black hair and glasses looks directly at the camera with a calm, confident expression. She’s wearing red lipstick, a nose ring, and a black-and-white skeleton sweater over a black The Cure shirt. The lighting is warm, with soft reflections from nearby lights creating a cozy evening atmosphere.
October 25, 2025 at 1:47 AM
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TV time with Cody
A brown and white Australian Shepherd rests its head on Stef’s lap, gazing upward with relaxed eyes. Stef is wearing cut up leggings with fishnets underneath, and gray socks with Bob from Bob’s Burgers. She has a small tattoo of a gravestone, birds and black watch on her wrist and rests her hand on the dog’s head. The cozy indoor scene shows part of a coffee table, carpet, and another person’s legs in the background.
October 20, 2025 at 2:51 AM
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We decided to blast Killing In The Name Of with the windows down when we drove past the No Kings protest we attended. Ended up behind an FOP plate ironically.
View from inside a car stopped at a red light. On the dashboard screen, the song “Killing in the Name” by Rage Against the Machine is playing. Ahead, a silver Lincoln SUV with Fraternal Order of Police license plates is visible on the road. Reflections of two faces can be seen faintly in the dashboard screen. Trees and other cars line the street under an overcast sky.
October 18, 2025 at 11:24 PM
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@matty.wtf and I at the local Pride fest today.
A smiling couple stands outside at a local pride fest. The woman has black hair with purple highlights, wears glasses, colorful rainbow heart dangling earrings, and a sleeveless black shirt that reads “Science is real, Black Lives Matter, No human is illegal.” She has a floral tattoo on her upper arm. The man beside her has short teal-tinted hair, a trimmed beard, and a black hoodie over a T-shirt that says “You can’t be punk and also be racist.” Behind them are trees, an Airstream trailer, and a corrugated-metal building gleaming in the sunlight.
October 12, 2025 at 7:01 PM
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Touched up the black and purple yesterday. Plus a haircut.
A woman with chin-length black hair that has purple highlights, wearing maroon glasses and a black button-up shirt, sits in a car and looks toward the camera with a neutral expression. The background is softly blurred, showing muted outdoor colors through the car window.
October 10, 2025 at 11:39 PM
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Sooo seeing as that’s my pillow, where am I supposed to sleep?
A brown and white Australian Shepherd is lying on a bed, partially under a gray blanket. He is propped against pillows with one front paw resting casually on a black pillow, looking directly at the camera with a relaxed but serious expression.
October 9, 2025 at 4:17 AM
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Tonight’s spin - Harvey Danger “King James Version. Ain’t she pretty!! #vinyl #nowplaying #recordcollector
A close-up of a record spinning on a turntable. The vinyl is a translucent deep blue, with an orange label at the center that reads “Harvey Danger.” The tonearm is lowered near the edge of the record, and the clear dust cover is open A vinyl record sleeve of Harvey Danger – King James Version displayed on a wall-mounted “Now Playing” shelf. The cover art features a collage of images including a modern glass building, drums, a guitar, a coffin, and a strip of black-and-white band photos accented with bold colors. A string of fairy lights is visible beneath the shelf.
September 30, 2025 at 11:01 PM
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Didn’t have time to wash my hair, running on next to no sleep. Totally worth it for Garbage last night at Salt Shed. My hair is up for maybe the 3rd time this year.
Black and white selfie of Stef sitting in her car. She has short dark hair brushed back, rectangular black glasses, a nose ring, and earrings. They are dressed in a dark t-shirt with a necklace, looking directly at the camera with a neutral expression.
September 30, 2025 at 12:46 PM
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A “Have You Ever: Concert Edition” bingo-style checklist on a background of a concert crowd with spotlights and confetti. The list has two columns of concert experiences with checkboxes next to each. Some items are: Got a band-related tattoo, Went backstage, Been in the front row, Spent over $100 on a ticket, Been in a mosh pit, Skipped work for a concert, Traveled out of state for a concert, Went to a music festival, Sat in the nosebleed section, Went VIP at a concert, Lost your voice the next day. Other items include Crowd surfed, Caught a guitar pick, Caught a drumstick, Got invited on stage, Won tickets to the show, and more. The title at the top reads “Have You Ever – Concert Edition
September 26, 2025 at 1:53 AM
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I still have some work to do.
A “Have You Ever: Concert Edition” bingo-style checklist on a background of a concert crowd with spotlights and confetti. The list has two columns of concert experiences with checkboxes next to each. Some items are highlighted in yellow, showing they’ve been done. Highlighted items include: Got a band-related tattoo, Went backstage, Been in the front row, Spent over $100 on a ticket, Been in a mosh pit, Skipped work for a concert, Traveled out of state for a concert, Went to a music festival, Sat in the nosebleed section, Went VIP at a concert, Lost your voice the next day. Other unhighlighted items include Crowd surfed, Caught a guitar pick, Caught a drumstick, Got invited on stage, Won tickets to the show, and more. The title at the top reads “Have You Ever – Concert Edition
September 26, 2025 at 1:51 AM
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Welcome to Riot Fest, when you go to take a photo of the band and end up with a photo of a guy dressed up as the pope.
A crowd at Riot Fest watches a band perform on the Riot Stage, with the screen behind the stage displaying the word “IDLES” in large white letters over a speckled background. In the foreground, a man dressed in a playful pope-style costume—white robes with gold accents, a tall mitre hat, and sunglasses—smiles and gestures while standing near the barricade.
September 21, 2025 at 11:51 PM
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Ok, well this little shop at Riot is rad - look at this fucking cat toy 😍😍
A neon pink shopping bag screams attitude with a snarling black cat illustration and the word “FELINIOUS” stamped above it. The tagline underneath—“CATS. APPAREL. DEBAUCHERY.”—leans hard into chaos. A hand with black nails and stacked bracelets clutches the bag, bird tattoo flashing at the wrist. Fishnets and a black skirt frame the shot, with a patch of grass in the background. A hand with black nail polish holds up a packaged catnip toy shaped like a slice of cake, stitched in pastel purple, brown, and green felt. Bold lettering across the toy reads “FUCK the GOP.” The label at the top says “Felinious Kush – Catnip for Cats,” with a cartoon cat smoking. Fishnet tights and a grassy background frame the shot, giving the whole scene a mix of DIY rebellion and playful absurdity.
September 20, 2025 at 8:25 PM
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“So be it. Fuck the FCC”
A social media post by user “themissybaker.” The profile photo shows a smiling woman with long blonde hair and red earrings. The post reads: “If I learned anything from the 1990 cinematic masterpiece Pump Up the Volume, starring Christian Slater, it’s fck the FCC.”* Below the text are reaction icons showing 1.3K likes, 83 comments, 114 reposts, and 67 shares.
September 19, 2025 at 2:23 PM
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Will do! I’m wearing hiking boots since we’ve got rain forecasted so I’m feeling a little less than punk about my shoe choices but I will live 😂
A person with black hair streaked purple wears a black tie-dye tattoo shop tee paired with a black leather mini skirt with a side slit. Fishnet tights and chunky gray hiking boots bring a punk edge, while layered rings, bracelets, statement earrings, and dark lipstick complete the alternative vibe. They snap a mirror selfie in a bedroom before heading out.
September 19, 2025 at 1:56 PM
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Drumstick says hey
Close-up of Drumstick, a gray chicken with fluffy cheek feathers, bright orange eyes, and a small red comb, looking directly at the camera while being held. A woman with black hair and glasses holds Drumstick, a gray chicken with patterned feathers and a red comb, close against her chest. Both are looking toward the camera
September 18, 2025 at 11:54 PM
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I am still stupidly proud of my response to this meme from 3 years ago, and I love that my photo memories thing reminds me of it annually.
A text conversation between Matty and Stef. At the top, Matty sends a meme with several black-and-white and color photos of the band Tears for Fears. The caption on the meme reads: “Every photo of Tears For Fears looks like a couple who just had a fight and aren’t talking to each other.” Below, Stef replies: “Not wrong. They didn’t let it all out.” Matty responds with “Stef.” Stef replies again: “Yes . . .” The final message in the thread is a large laughing face emoji with tears
September 17, 2025 at 1:24 AM
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Just me and this praying mantis hanging out while I wash dishes.
A praying mantis clings upside down to the outside of a windowpane. Its slender body and bent forelegs are silhouetted against the bright light outside, where blurred green tree leaves and blue sky are visible in the background. The window frame and soffit are in view at the top of the image.
September 14, 2025 at 1:52 PM
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Happy Birthday to you!!! Here’s a wedding photo of me with our rooster Bob’s Burgers style.
Animation style picture of a woman in a black dress holding a chicken.
September 11, 2025 at 5:26 PM
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Had a Bloody Mary for the first time in years today out at lunch with @matty.wtf
A tall glass mug filled with a Bloody Mary on a wooden table. The drink is garnished with a celery stick, pepperoni, a green olive, a pepperoncini, and a pickle spear, with ice cubes floating at the top. A plastic straw is placed in the drink. In the background are two dark water glasses and a blurred menu on the table.
September 7, 2025 at 6:36 PM