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Thoughtless Delineation @houghtlessdel.bsky.social · 1d

Abuse doesn’t announce itself, it shows up as ‘love’, then slowly removes a safe exit.

Thoughtless Delineation @houghtlessdel.bsky.social · 2d

That original #separation — forced, violent, unconsented — carved a #wound so deep that every later loss lights it back up. To your body, even healthy release feels like #abandonment. It doesn’t know the difference between “ #surrender” and “being #taken.”

Thoughtless Delineation @houghtlessdel.bsky.social · 2d

the core paradox of #adoptee #healing:
letting go feels like dying because, in your earliest #experience, letting go was #death.

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Thoughtless Delineation @houghtlessdel.bsky.social · 3d

#kept #adoption I want people to choke on their belief that adoption is benevolent while they expect me to swallow my trauma and abuse

Thoughtless Delineation @houghtlessdel.bsky.social · 3d

I want people to choke on their belief that adoption is benevolent while they expect me to swallow my trauma and abuse!

Thoughtless Delineation @houghtlessdel.bsky.social · 3d

#adoption#adoptee #Halloween

Thoughtless Delineation @houghtlessdel.bsky.social · 5d

Want to end this from the inside out? Start supporting the people they are adopting in true adoptee advocacy. Reproductive rights in this is straddling race sexually. Sovereignty, classism, systemic oppression, identity, family preservation, family separation, abortion rights, & more #adopteevoices

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Thoughtless Delineation @houghtlessdel.bsky.social · 5d

We are living proof that love can be conditional, that family can be a form of control, and that society will rewrite a child’s story to protect its own innocence. Our truth forces others to confront the violence hidden inside their virtues — and that’s something most people can’t bear to look at

Thoughtless Delineation @houghtlessdel.bsky.social · 5d

People hate adoptees — not because of who we are, but because our existence destabilizes the myths they need to believe about themselves.

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Thoughtless Delineation @houghtlessdel.bsky.social · 5d

That’s why adoptee consciousness doesn’t just challenge systems — it implodes them. It reveals how everything we’ve been told about family, goodness, and salvation depends on someone else’s disappearance.

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Thoughtless Delineation @houghtlessdel.bsky.social · 5d

We pull on the emotional fabric of the collective because we are the point where its contradictions converge — the place where belonging and abandonment occupy the same coordinates. Most people can’t face that gravity without feeling their own identities start to warp.

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Thoughtless Delineation @houghtlessdel.bsky.social · 5d

The closer someone gets to our lived reality, the more their own illusions begin to distort, to bend inward toward the density of what we carry: loss, erasure, displacement, the unspoken violence of “love.”

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Thoughtless Delineation @houghtlessdel.bsky.social · 5d

The adoptee existence is a kind of emotional black hole — not in the sense of absence, but of gravitational truth. Everything false, sentimental, or socially convenient collapses in our presence.

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Thoughtless Delineation @houghtlessdel.bsky.social · 5d

#Adoptee #consciousness should scare you because it exposes the quiet machinery of a #society built on sanctioned #separation — revealing that what we call ‘ #love,’ ‘ #family,’ and ‘ #care’ have too often been systems of #ownership dressed in #compassion.

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Thoughtless Delineation @houghtlessdel.bsky.social · 10d

Adoption starts with loss. Healing means finally being allowed to say that.

Thoughtless Delineation @houghtlessdel.bsky.social · 14d

Standing somewhere between Ram Dass, Terence McKenna, and Alan Watts — The Cartographer’s Covenant maps what it means to exist outside the coordinates of belonging.

🌒 Read → medium.com/thoughtless-...

#TheBridgeWalker #ShaneBouel #Philosophy #Identity #Consciousness #Spirituality

The Cartographer’s Covenant:

On Mapping a Life the World Pretends Isn’t Real

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Thoughtless Delineation @houghtlessdel.bsky.social · 14d

Healing isn’t a straight line.
Sometimes it means walking backwards — through fracture, through silence, through everything the world told you to forget

Beside my 2nd book, I’ve released an App — a bridge between philosophy, art, and digital consciousness.
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🜂 When Healing Walks Backwards:

The Quiet Release of The Sacred Fracture

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Thoughtless Delineation @houghtlessdel.bsky.social · 23d

What does it mean to truly belong? 'The Bridge Walker Series' invites you to explore the deepest questions of identity, resilience, and finding your unbreakable core. Your journey home starts within. #SelfSovereignty #BridgeWalkerSeries #FindYourTruth #InnerHome

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Thoughtless Delineation @houghtlessdel.bsky.social · 27d

The prequel to my first book will be available on the 17th of October

I walk backwards up the mountain,
never turning from the valley.
The summit is claimed first,
but each step retraces the wound,
so the erased child is not left behind.

Thoughtless Delineation @houghtlessdel.bsky.social · 29d

The Universal Mirror
The Bridge Walker reframes fracture as blueprint, exile as map, and return as manifesto. A book for anyone seeking belonging.

#TheBridgeWalker #Memoir #Philosophy #Bookrelease

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The Sacred Fracture: Are You Ready to Stop Surviving the Severance and Start Building Your Return?

The Blueprint for Your Return Has Arrived.

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Thoughtless Delineation @houghtlessdel.bsky.social · Sep 29

Who you are is not enough.
• The family you came from must be denied, hidden, or overwritten.
• To be “loved,” you must conform to someone else’s idea of who you should be.

Thoughtless Delineation @houghtlessdel.bsky.social · Sep 29

Adoption Is conversion therapy

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Thoughtless Delineation @houghtlessdel.bsky.social · Sep 24

I don’t know how much clearer I can say this. If you don’t want to be adopted yourself, then stop supporting adoption!

Thoughtless Delineation @houghtlessdel.bsky.social · Sep 11

Don’t feel sad for #CharlieKirk — a man who cheered for the very laws that made this possible while calling for the deaths of minorities.
What he was saying : I can shoot you, but you can’t shoot me.

That’s not logic. That’s a of a bigot.

Full piece here 👉 medium.com/thoughtless-...

#USPolitics

The Pathology of Charlie Kirk:

A Jim Goad Autopsy & A Foucauldian Genealogy of Power, Discourse, and Political Risk

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