Thoughtless Delineation
@houghtlessdel.bsky.social
Sovereign Identity Theorist & Architect of Return - Creator of Cosmological Frameworks for Adoptee Liberation
Adoption today is a system built on erasure.
Its end begins with naming it.
Its end begins with naming it.
December 11, 2025 at 12:41 PM
Adoption today is a system built on erasure.
Its end begins with naming it.
Its end begins with naming it.
Adoption today is a system whose continued existence depends on the erasure of origin and the suppression of truth.
December 11, 2025 at 12:38 PM
Adoption today is a system whose continued existence depends on the erasure of origin and the suppression of truth.
Adoption does not begin with love. It begins with a rupture so deep that the state must seal the truth to keep the story intact.
December 11, 2025 at 11:16 AM
Adoption does not begin with love. It begins with a rupture so deep that the state must seal the truth to keep the story intact.
Adoption — and the separation at its core — is the breaking point where humanity finally has to decide whether it wants to evolve or continue sanctifying its own harm.
December 9, 2025 at 7:19 AM
Adoption — and the separation at its core — is the breaking point where humanity finally has to decide whether it wants to evolve or continue sanctifying its own harm.
Infant separation is the clearest mirror humanity has — and what it reflects is a species still choosing control over connection, myth over truth, and self-interest over the protection of its most fundamental bond.
This is what adoption is.
This is what adoption is.
December 9, 2025 at 7:16 AM
Infant separation is the clearest mirror humanity has — and what it reflects is a species still choosing control over connection, myth over truth, and self-interest over the protection of its most fundamental bond.
This is what adoption is.
This is what adoption is.
True fact! If you lie to Adoptees about their story and biological heritage, you are a piece of shit! 💩
December 1, 2025 at 2:17 AM
True fact! If you lie to Adoptees about their story and biological heritage, you are a piece of shit! 💩
Confucius was right: if the family is in order, the state will be in order.
Australia tried to build a stable nation while systematically breaking the very bonds that create stability. Forced adoption is one of the clearest examples of that contradiction.
Australia tried to build a stable nation while systematically breaking the very bonds that create stability. Forced adoption is one of the clearest examples of that contradiction.
November 26, 2025 at 7:56 PM
Confucius was right: if the family is in order, the state will be in order.
Australia tried to build a stable nation while systematically breaking the very bonds that create stability. Forced adoption is one of the clearest examples of that contradiction.
Australia tried to build a stable nation while systematically breaking the very bonds that create stability. Forced adoption is one of the clearest examples of that contradiction.
Adoption is the ontological and epistemological fault line of colonial psychology.
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November 18, 2025 at 5:45 PM
Adoption is the ontological and epistemological fault line of colonial psychology.
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How would you feel if:
You were taken at birth.
Your identity was overwritten.
Your history was confiscated.
Your mother was silenced.
Your existence was reorganised to suit the desires, insecurities, and moral convenience of others.
You were taken at birth.
Your identity was overwritten.
Your history was confiscated.
Your mother was silenced.
Your existence was reorganised to suit the desires, insecurities, and moral convenience of others.
November 16, 2025 at 6:10 AM
How would you feel if:
You were taken at birth.
Your identity was overwritten.
Your history was confiscated.
Your mother was silenced.
Your existence was reorganised to suit the desires, insecurities, and moral convenience of others.
You were taken at birth.
Your identity was overwritten.
Your history was confiscated.
Your mother was silenced.
Your existence was reorganised to suit the desires, insecurities, and moral convenience of others.
Adopted people aren’t lonely or traumatised. They’re abandoned by people who don’t know how to meet them where they are!
November 14, 2025 at 9:41 AM
Adopted people aren’t lonely or traumatised. They’re abandoned by people who don’t know how to meet them where they are!
As an adoptee I need people who are in positions of power to step up and do the right thing! Is that too much to ask?
November 14, 2025 at 5:39 AM
As an adoptee I need people who are in positions of power to step up and do the right thing! Is that too much to ask?
Coming back to self for an adoptee can be extremely disorienting because it’s the first time they are experiencing who they really are!
November 12, 2025 at 9:12 PM
Coming back to self for an adoptee can be extremely disorienting because it’s the first time they are experiencing who they really are!
Adopted people lack boundary awareness — & those who ignore boundaries blame the victim when fight-or-flight hits back.
November 12, 2025 at 9:11 PM
Adopted people lack boundary awareness — & those who ignore boundaries blame the victim when fight-or-flight hits back.
FREE ADOPTED PEOPLE!
If I have to explain this to you, you don’t know #adoption !
#naam #nationaladoptionawarnessmonth #adopteevoices
If I have to explain this to you, you don’t know #adoption !
#naam #nationaladoptionawarnessmonth #adopteevoices
November 10, 2025 at 8:01 AM
FREE ADOPTED PEOPLE!
If I have to explain this to you, you don’t know #adoption !
#naam #nationaladoptionawarnessmonth #adopteevoices
If I have to explain this to you, you don’t know #adoption !
#naam #nationaladoptionawarnessmonth #adopteevoices
Grief isn’t a backdrop for heroism. Children need stability, truth, and trauma-informed care — not to be rewritten into someone else’s “miracle” story. Until systems are fixed, these tales obscure the real harm.
#AdopteeVoices #ChildRights
#humantights
#un
#politcs
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#AdopteeVoices #ChildRights
#humantights
#un
#politcs
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Reproductive Power, Adoptee Truth, and the Politics of Belonging.
Inheritance of the Unseen:
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November 10, 2025 at 7:46 AM
Grief isn’t a backdrop for heroism. Children need stability, truth, and trauma-informed care — not to be rewritten into someone else’s “miracle” story. Until systems are fixed, these tales obscure the real harm.
#AdopteeVoices #ChildRights
#humantights
#un
#politcs
medium.com/thoughtless-...
#AdopteeVoices #ChildRights
#humantights
#un
#politcs
medium.com/thoughtless-...
People who aren’t adopted and still tell adoptees how to feel about adoption need serious psychological help.
It’s not normal to be that invested in protecting a system you were never harmed by.
That’s not empathy — that’s denial dressed up as virtue.
It’s not normal to be that invested in protecting a system you were never harmed by.
That’s not empathy — that’s denial dressed up as virtue.
November 8, 2025 at 10:06 PM
People who aren’t adopted and still tell adoptees how to feel about adoption need serious psychological help.
It’s not normal to be that invested in protecting a system you were never harmed by.
That’s not empathy — that’s denial dressed up as virtue.
It’s not normal to be that invested in protecting a system you were never harmed by.
That’s not empathy — that’s denial dressed up as virtue.
How it feels to be adopted
November 8, 2025 at 10:33 AM
How it feels to be adopted
What you’re praying for isn’t my pain — it’s your discomfort with it.
When adoptees speak truth, it unsettles the fantasy people have built around faith.
“Love” is used to cover lies so you get to feel righteous while we live the cost of it
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Facing discomfort is the work.
When adoptees speak truth, it unsettles the fantasy people have built around faith.
“Love” is used to cover lies so you get to feel righteous while we live the cost of it
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Facing discomfort is the work.
Love and Other Lies We Were Told
Spiritual Bypass, Forced Gratitude, and the Reclamation of Adoptee Sovereignty
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November 4, 2025 at 4:20 AM
What you’re praying for isn’t my pain — it’s your discomfort with it.
When adoptees speak truth, it unsettles the fantasy people have built around faith.
“Love” is used to cover lies so you get to feel righteous while we live the cost of it
medium.com/thoughtless-...
Facing discomfort is the work.
When adoptees speak truth, it unsettles the fantasy people have built around faith.
“Love” is used to cover lies so you get to feel righteous while we live the cost of it
medium.com/thoughtless-...
Facing discomfort is the work.
I no longer confuse density with defeat.
The void is not my enemy — it’s my womb of renewal.
I rest inside the pulse of becoming,
and let the light find form through me. #blackmoon
The void is not my enemy — it’s my womb of renewal.
I rest inside the pulse of becoming,
and let the light find form through me. #blackmoon
November 1, 2025 at 12:52 PM
I no longer confuse density with defeat.
The void is not my enemy — it’s my womb of renewal.
I rest inside the pulse of becoming,
and let the light find form through me. #blackmoon
The void is not my enemy — it’s my womb of renewal.
I rest inside the pulse of becoming,
and let the light find form through me. #blackmoon
Abuse doesn’t announce itself, it shows up as ‘love’, then slowly removes a safe exit.
October 30, 2025 at 4:43 PM
Abuse doesn’t announce itself, it shows up as ‘love’, then slowly removes a safe exit.
the core paradox of #adoptee #healing:
letting go feels like dying because, in your earliest #experience, letting go was #death.
letting go feels like dying because, in your earliest #experience, letting go was #death.
October 30, 2025 at 12:35 AM
the core paradox of #adoptee #healing:
letting go feels like dying because, in your earliest #experience, letting go was #death.
letting go feels like dying because, in your earliest #experience, letting go was #death.
