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Social Worker Barbie
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Sexy Halloween song?

She looks so mf good!
Honestly it’s more of a hypothetical there’s not really a specific man I’m talking about right now. I’m just thinking about dating again and I’m trying to frame my thoughts differently this time. I’d like to take things slow but I don’t think I know what too slow or too fast is
All very good questions that I think imma have tho consider. Idk dating is so weird and complex that idk if you ever get it 100% right
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I want more people to care that SNAP benefits are being cut off on November 1. 40% of SNAP beneficiaries are children. This is callous and vile.
I have to get this laundry off my bed soon omg
I will say I normally move fast in relationships because I’ve agreed with that sentiment in the past. But I’m trying to frame my thoughts differently moving forward cuz I could’ve avoided a lot of shit had I slowed down lol
Ok I love your examples! I think for me I don’t wanna be the one moving the pace.. like I might wanna start FaceTiming but I’m not gonna bring that up because idk if I’m used to moving faster than normal
Mmmm ok that makes sense. Thank you!
Ok I like this explanation a lot. I think you can be “seeing where things go” and actually make an effort to get there instead of simply going with the flow.. if that makes any sense. I need to see intention even in the baby steps
This is hypothetical because I’m trying to change the way I date moving forward but basically you’re saying if you’re on the same page you feel like moving slow isn’t bad.. so then when is too early to do the “what is this” conversations
Yes I think they’re the same thing so that’s why I said “and”.. but I think you’re saying they look the same as not interested until communication and clarity comes?
That’s a good point, I do my best not to assume others feelings
Oh that’s interesting. So you feel it’s a difference between a slow burn and taking your time to get to know somebody?
So you feel like you have to see the person everyday for it to be a slow burn?
For clarity.. I KNOW when a man is playing in my face but I have anxious attachment(and trying to grow out of it) so I don’t wanna mistake not moving fast as not moving at all
Can I ask a question that somebody actually answers lol

How do you know the difference between a slow burn and simply taking your time and the person just simply not being that interested?
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I LOVE BEING BLACK.
I WOULDN’T TRADE THIS FOR ANYTHING.
Bought my first bag of candy corn 😋