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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 12h

I also get off on having control over him. The first time hubby begged me for permission to cum and I said NO! I almost had an orgasm with no physical stimulation at all.

I will post separately on the topic of #cuckolding

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 12h

There are so many parallels with my own relationship with my husband here that I could have written this post myself.

I totally agree with the link between penis size and submissive tendancies. The more #SPH the more submissive he gets.

One thing to add......

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 12h

Ladies you need to be firm here. If your partner has his birthday in #locktober you should not feel any pressure to unlock him.

He gets unlocked when YOU want and what YOU choose to do with the contents of YOUR cage is up to YOU.

#chastity
#malechastity
#keyholder

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 1d

An update.

My mystery man is unwell but staying #chaste.

My hubby is feeling like the wannabe #cuckold he is as I focus on my other boys.

@allythemaid.bsky.social is impressing me with his commitment. But I've just set him the most challenging task I have ever given a sub. Let's see how he copes.

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 1d

Ask him if he wants to stay locked for you.

Tell him you'd like it if he did.

If he wants this, give him your conditions.

This is where your #FLR starts.

#FLRFriday
#chastity
#femdom

Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 1d

Ladies, if you are starting to enjoy the feeling of control and have seen your locked man become more attentive, it will soon be time for you to make a decision.

You may not have agreed what happens when #locktober ends, but you won't get much resistance if you extend his lockup.

#keyholder
#FLR

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 1d

Ladies, if you are starting to enjoy the feeling of control and have seen your locked man become more attentive, it will soon be time for you to make a decision.

You may not have agreed what happens when #locktober ends, but you won't get much resistance if you extend his lockup.

#keyholder
#FLR

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 1d

It's wonderful when real life throws up opportunities to test a submissive. And even more enjoyable when they step up and outperform your expectations.

Maid by name and maid by nature.

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 2d

#Locktober 16th. We're on the homeward stretch now. Have you felt it yet boys? The desire to please your #keyholder should now be stronger than your desire to masturbate.

You have?

Welcome to #chastity.

Time to tell your #keyholder and let her take control.

#FLR
#malechastity
#femdom

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 3d

I wonder if my three locked boys are enjoying #locktober still?

Almost half way.

But still a little over two weeks to go.

#chastity
#makechastity
#keyholder
#femdom

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 4d

#Locktober 14th.

Two weeks in #chastity.

Well done to everyone who hasn't quit.

Enjoying that constant reminder boys?

#femdom
#keyholder

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 5d

Ladies you should take the opportunity #locktober presents to try some new things.

Watching porn serves to keep him aroused and conscious of his cage.

Watching it together provides you with the chance to ask him about things he may not have opened up about previously.

#chastity
#keyholder

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 6d

I wonder what those boys who gave up their orgasms for me this #Locktober thought when they agreed to it?

Maybe not the challenges I would throw at them along the way.

Well, hubby did, but then he didn't have a choice in submitting 😈

@allythemaid.bsky.social has a tough task this weekend as well.

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 7d

Boys, if you've been locked throughout #locktober you're probably starting to go through some mixed emotions at the moment. As the frustration reduces, you will start to have a new focus for your sexual energies.

Your #keyholder can help you with that.

#chastity
#malechastity
#femdom

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 8d

For newbies, the #chastity means your man saves the time he would have spent masturbating. Make sure he uses it wisely, making your life easier.

Over time, he will take pleasure from pleasing you.

When he realises that is his route to future orgasms the penny will drop.

#keyholder
#FLRFriday

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 8d

#locktober day 10. Almost one third of the way already. Doesn't time fly....

Ladies, I hope you are starting to see some of the benefits #malechastity can deliver for the #keyholder

#chastity
#femdom

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 9d

2/2
He currently has no #chastity cage so for him #locktober is mental chastity.

It's an important point #keyholders should bear in mind.

If he really wants you to take control, he shouldn't need a cage. He should be committed enough to give up his own pleasure.

#femdom

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 9d

1/2
A bit about the mystery third man under my control for #locktober.

He has served as my trainee online #sub before and showed some promise before he let the severity of what he had committed to get the better of him.

He may get a second chance if he can stay #chaste for the month.

The catch?

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 9d

Being a #keyholder can be rewarding at the best of times.

#locktober is just the icing on the cake.

I hope all the ladies new to this lifestyle are starting to appreciate some of the benefits

#chastity
#malechastity
#femdom

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 10d

One week of #locktober behind you boys. How do you feel?

Just think, you've got to do that long again and then you'll almost be half way.

Not hoping for a little light relief already are you?

#chastity
#malechastity
#keyholder
#femdom

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 11d

Boys, #locktober is as much a mental challenge as a physical one.

Here's some advice that might help.

Just maybe ignore that word 'never'. Or maybe not. Your #keyholder will decide.

#chastity
#malechastity
#femdom

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 12d

3/3

and finally. Two things to remember:

1. If you choose tongue and toys....

It's your toy box so you get to choose what goes in it.

😂

2. You are within your rights to keep him locked for all of #locktober (and beyond). They are your keys now.

#FLR
#chastity
#femdom

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 12d

2/3
....which means hubby is no longer allowed inside me as he will always finish first.

The solution? A strap on worn over his cage. You choose the size, it lasts as long as you need and he can never say you didn't have sex with him

#chastity
#FLR
#locktober
#femdom

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 12d

1/3

Ladies, this is a difficult one. Always remember, #chastity is about controlling his orgasms not just locking him. So it's fine to let him out on your terms

For me, the cage doesn't improve PIV performance it just means he can no longer last long enough to satisfy me….

#locktober
#femdom

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 13d

A #locktober day 5 suggestion for all #keyholders. You are approaching the hardest part. Days 5-15 the novelty wears off and he will start to resent being caged.

Time to keep him interested.

#chastity
#malechastity
#keyholder
#femdom

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Mistress Kay @mistresskay17.bsky.social · 13d

Another wonderful addition to your catalogue.

Everyone should read an Emily story every week!

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