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Tez (reading Travis Nelson's SIGRID RIDES)
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Cis. She. MDD, ASD, ADD, AIH. Melbourne/Naarm/Narrm. Fiction reader, BlackMilk Galaxy collector, SW client. TezMillerOz on various platforms: WordPress, X, Facebook, Instagram, Threads, etc. Book notes on Goodreads, and sometimes Amazon UK.
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Tez (reading Travis Nelson's SIGRID RIDES) @tezmilleroz.bsky.social · 37m
When it will be 25 & you forgot to pack your umbrella to use as a parasol. And your bus was late, so you missed your train.

Still plan to experiment today, unless I lose my nerve from being too frazzled.

Will need luck 😉
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Tez (reading Travis Nelson's SIGRID RIDES) @tezmilleroz.bsky.social · 8h
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Tez (reading Travis Nelson's SIGRID RIDES) @tezmilleroz.bsky.social · 8h
At which age do you become a "cougar"? Saw a 34-year-old on Ivy Societe call herself that, and now 39-year-old me feels ancient.

(Most - all except 4 - of my dalliances have been with people younger than me. I am so old.)
At which age do you become a "cougar"? Saw a 34-year-old on Ivy Societe call herself that, and now 39-year-old me feels ancient. (Most - all except 4 - of my dalliances have been with people younger than me. I am so old.)
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Tez (reading Travis Nelson's SIGRID RIDES) @tezmilleroz.bsky.social · 8h
I've only just managed to wrap my head around the concept of "connection" & identify it. So I have more to learn!

So what do "compatibility" & "chemistry" mean to you?
I've only just managed to wrap my head around the concept of "connection" & identify it. So I have more to learn! So what do "compatibility" & "chemistry" mean to you?
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Tez (reading Travis Nelson's SIGRID RIDES) @tezmilleroz.bsky.social · 8h
If you work in an establishment and you want your clientele to include more than cis men, you should definitely try to have a profile on a listing directory. Generally speaking, few establishments spell out loudly on their site which of their providers will see people who aren't

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If you work in an establishment and you want your clientele to include more than cis men, you should definitely try to have a profile on a listing directory. Generally speaking, few establishments spell out loudly on their site which of their providers will see people who aren't cis men, if any at all. (Some establishments do mention! But not many.)
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Tez (reading Travis Nelson's SIGRID RIDES) @tezmilleroz.bsky.social · 8h
OK, had my moment of sook. Moving on...

I very much understand that people tend to talk about what's common. Like in regards to disability, some people only talk about neurodivergence - because that's the only one they relate to, maybe?

I remember being told that my autoimmune

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OK, had my moment of sook. Moving on... I very much understand that people tend to talk about what's common. Like in regards to disability, some people only talk about neurodivergence - because that's the only one they relate to, maybe? I remember being told that my autoimmune hepatitis is "rare" by medical standards. ("European studies suggest that between .010% and 0.25% of the European population is affected." --Cleveland Clinic.) Being a Special Snowflake in two different conditions is overrated.
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Tez (reading Travis Nelson's SIGRID RIDES) @tezmilleroz.bsky.social · 8h
Even when writing about female pleasure, people pretty much always forget/neglect to mention that inability/disability to O at all is a thing that exists.

I think of the GP and gynaecologist, neither of whom had heard of PSSD when I mentioned it to them. Because they only deal

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Even when writing about female pleasure, people pretty much always forget/neglect to mention that inability/disability to O at all is a thing that exists. I think of the GP and gynaecologist, neither of whom had heard of PSSD when I mentioned it to them. Because they only deal with what's common and "normal". I've come to terms with the condition myself. What I still haven't come to terms with is feeling forgotten. (Obviously my craving for external validation is sabotaging my self-esteem again.)
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Tez (reading Travis Nelson's SIGRID RIDES) @tezmilleroz.bsky.social · 8h
Why do I know more about my Scottish heritage (only a quarter of me) than I do of my Irish (half)?

I mean... I'm a fecking gobshite, so I suppose that's as Irish as I get.

Also, why did my dead ancestors get to have fun accents, and I'm stuck with this bogan monstrosity? Not fair!
Why do I know more about my Scottish heritage (only a quarter of me) than I do of my Irish (half)? I mean... I'm a fecking gobshite, so I suppose that's as Irish as I get. Also, why did my dead ancestors get to have fun accents, and I'm stuck with this bogan monstrosity? Not fair!
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Tez (reading Travis Nelson's SIGRID RIDES) @tezmilleroz.bsky.social · 8h
Pet peeve: When providers caption photos on their social media with stuff like, "Thinking of you..."

Mate, there is no way you're thinking of me, because you don't even know I exist.

(I'm sorry, I'm too reality-based for fantasy. You can be sxy & factual at the same time, people

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Pet peeve: When providers caption photos on their social media with stuff like, "Thinking of you..." Mate, there is no way you're thinking of me, because you don't even know I exist. (I'm sorry, I'm too reality-based for fantasy. You can be sxy & factual at the same time, people. It's hotter if it's believable! It doesn't have to be true, but make it somewhat realistic.)
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Tez (reading Travis Nelson's SIGRID RIDES) @tezmilleroz.bsky.social · 8h
I wouldn't say it's a red flag, but I'd be hesitant about a provider whose profile in the listing directory doesn't include specific acts. The site provides options - I imagine someone just has to select which ones when creating their profile.

Don't make potential clients have to

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I wouldn't say it's a red flag, but I'd be hesitant about a provider whose profile in the listing directory doesn't include specific acts. The site provides options - I imagine someone just has to select which ones when creating their profile. Don't make potential clients have to ask you what things you're actually willing to do. Have a ready list on the site so they can choose and tell you exactly what they want. This way you're on the same page. (It can get confusing when it says "on me" or "on you", so I clarify in my booking enquiry by writing "on me - the client". And I manually write "fngring", because "h*nd job" is a term specifically associated with blokes, and I don't know if it counts. Also with women providers, you have to check about or*l, in case they're willing to do it on a bloke but not on a woman.)
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Tez (reading Travis Nelson's SIGRID RIDES) @tezmilleroz.bsky.social · 8h
I mentioned in an earlier slide about the power I have in the industry because I pay people. (The other day I saw a note about clients being part of the backbone of the industry.)

Obviously not my only power. I'm cis, so I have power above anyone trans or enby. I'm white, so I

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I mentioned in an earlier slide about the power I have in the industry because I pay people. (The other day I saw a note about clients being part of the backbone of the industry.) Obviously not my only power. I'm cis, so I have power above anyone trans or enby. I'm white, so I have power over BIPOC. I can possibly pass for non-disabled, so I have power above those who can't pass. I may have power over those younger or older than me, but I'm not sure. No matter how minor I feel at time (like when I remember there's no client advocacy group, so there's not anywhere to turn for advice regarding that, so I'm going it alone), I know I have power and privilege. I'm in a very fortunate position. I don't take it lightly.
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Tez (reading Travis Nelson's SIGRID RIDES) @tezmilleroz.bsky.social · 8h
It also taught me that it's not a good idea to have people with opposite traits within earshot of each other.

While I was in the ward, for a full 24 hours another patient in another room made the same repetitive tune continuously - only stopping for food and sleep.

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It also taught me that it's not a good idea to have people with opposite traits within earshot of each other. While I was in the ward, for a full 24 hours another patient in another room made the same repetitive tune continuously - only stopping for food and sleep. I'm a sound-sensitive autistic who hates unnecessary (to me) noise. Hearing that over and over sparked an autistic meltdown (silently crying - identical to my depression flare-ups). It was a good thing I got my own room (including bathroom) in the ward (with no private insurance, in a public hospital) - in case my silent crying triggered someone else's meltdown.
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Tez (reading Travis Nelson's SIGRID RIDES) @tezmilleroz.bsky.social · 8h
Saw the term "transformative experience", and am wondering...have I ever had one?

Probably that week in the hospital with metabolic acidosis (never heard of that condition before or after) about 6 years ago. Became comfortable with being nude around strangers. The staff called me

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Saw the term "transformative experience", and am wondering...have I ever had one? Probably that week in the hospital with metabolic acidosis (never heard of that condition before or after) about 6 years ago. Became comfortable with being nude around strangers. The staff called me "young" (compared to other patients in the ICU).
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Tez (reading Travis Nelson's SIGRID RIDES) @tezmilleroz.bsky.social · 9h
"Shoes off at a cinema to be comfortable: a good idea?"

Haven't been to the cinema since I saw...Crazy Rich Asians, I think. (Wow, that was a long time ago!)

Keep your shoes on. Unless you can slide them off... If it's dark enough, and you keep your feet to yourself, no one should know...
"Shoes off at a cinema to be comfortable: a good idea?" Haven't been to the cinema since I saw...Crazy Rich Asians, I think. (Wow, that was a long time ago!) Keep your shoes on. Unless you can slide them off... If it's dark enough, and you keep your feet to yourself, no one should know...
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Tez (reading Travis Nelson's SIGRID RIDES) @tezmilleroz.bsky.social · 10h
Welcome to the dark side 😉
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Tez (reading Travis Nelson's SIGRID RIDES) @tezmilleroz.bsky.social · 11h
@merlinslaugh.bsky.social Lunch!
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Kiki Shimano @kikishimano.bsky.social · 1d
I have a Melbourne CBD incall space for doubles with the gorgeous @missandry-x.bsky.social on Sun 19th October. Enquire at 0432471800 🩵

We specialise in providing services for submissives and queer folks but all are welcome to reach out 🔥
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Gailey 🍉 @sarahgailey.bsky.social · 23h
books should have an anti-acknowledgements section where the author talks shit about all the people who fucked them over while they were trying to write the thing. not bc I personally want to write one but bc I love gossip
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Rachel Feder @rachelfeder.bsky.social · 1d
Tell me your most unhinged literary opinion, as a little treat
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Tez (reading Travis Nelson's SIGRID RIDES) @tezmilleroz.bsky.social · 12h
When will the website be up and running?
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Andy Fleming @slackbastard.bsky.social · 21h
It's Biblical in Rose City.
Three Portland frogs and: EXODUS 8:2-6 "But if you refuse to let them go, I will plague your whole country with frogs... The frogs shall come up on you and on your people and on all your officials."
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Tez (reading Travis Nelson's SIGRID RIDES) @tezmilleroz.bsky.social · 12h
Lustia is how I find out which Little Stone Heaven workers are open to women clients. Unfortunate that Lustia is now pricing providers out. #Massage #Lustia #Melbourne #Naarm
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Mae East @maeeast75.bsky.social · 19h
Tuesday…. What’s happening in the industry, how’s everybody going? What about the jump in prices in Lustia? Wow I mean seriously … I think it’s basically quadrupled! I’m out. That’s crazy.
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Tez (reading Travis Nelson's SIGRID RIDES) @tezmilleroz.bsky.social · 18h
I want a red dress. 'Twould suit me.
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Tez (reading Travis Nelson's SIGRID RIDES) @tezmilleroz.bsky.social · 1d
My bookings are always in the morning - good choice 👍
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Tom Cox @dj-acid-reflux.bsky.social · 1d
"Turn all the way around, go back to the place you belong, and we’ll all forget this ever happened."
Two cows peering at me from a field at the top of some steps, where they keep the money they have stolen from people's houses
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Tez (reading Travis Nelson's SIGRID RIDES) @tezmilleroz.bsky.social · 1d
Me in a sleeveless leopard-print midi death dress.

BlackMilk Claws Out Velvet Pocket Midi Dress.

@blackmilkclothing.bsky.social #Selfie #BlackMilkClothing #BlackMilk #SharkieStyle #ClawsOut #LeopardPrint #MidiDress #Dress #Clothing #Clothes #Fashion #Apparel
Me in a sleeveless leopard-print midi dress.
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