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Help I’m still @therestaurant 🩷❤️🩶🤎💛💙💜🤍🩵💚🖤 Muse-agnostic gaylor | performanceartlor | comingoutlor personal: @realfarmersonly.bsky.social
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I think intro posts are corny. If you want to know my philosophy, it’s this
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I got the Shigella shirt and I’m going to crop it and bedazzle the Chappell Roan logo and bedazzle a renaissance halo around Shigella’s head. Do you guys see the vision.
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Okay off topic but a fun fact is I was in band in middle school and we were learning a polka and in English we all to memorize and recite The Raven and I realized the meter fit that polka exactly and to this day when I read that poem I can only read it in that exact cadence
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My ONLY disappointment was that she didn’t bring Shigella out but that’s okay and also I got the Shigella shirt and I’m gonna make it a crop top so it’s all okay
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Also she started crying a little while singing California and as a transplant to California from a very similar part of the country I also started crying a little too and we both crode (it was my 3rd time crying in total through her set lmao)
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In her speech she talked about how lost and lonely she felt last year and how she was thinking about quitting, and that getting back to performing and creating safe, joyful spaces for queer people is what re-centered her and now she’s happier than ever 🥲
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Finally back from Chappell, showered & in bed; I’ll do a photo dump tomorrow but Jesus fucking christ between the visuals, the energy, and her goddamn VOICE this woman is bound to go down as one of the best performers of our generation
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I’m going today!!!! So stoked, I hope you had an amazing time!!
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I was about to mention it because I 100% interpret Gilda as a story that’s, in part, about toxic bearding. Johnny and Ballin both use Gilda to beard because they’re very obviously in love with each other.

Fabulous resource for queer cinema history: archive.org/details/behi...
Behind the screen : how gays and lesbians shaped Hollywood, 1910-1969 : Mann, William J : Free Download, Borrow, and Streaming : Internet Archive
Includes bibliographical references (p. [401]-407) and index
archive.org
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I do not know why this woman feels this way about me but she is legally bound to me and I am not about to look a gift horse in the mouth
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My powers of persuasion are at their zenith
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!!!!! my childhood best friend & her wife both went to MSU! And I went to art camp there in the summer as a kid!
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Wait omg I grew up in Paducah (I live in CA now but hiiiiiii)
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I do have a friend who lives in STL who is in a queer polycule with a prominent drag performer there so if we end up there I could probably make a list of the queer-friendly spots lol
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It was so weird and genuinely I think it was, at least in part, her being an old money fangirl, which is something we know about her
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Not someone who just wants to not be alone, and not someone who just wants validation from your attention, but someone who wants you for no other reason than who you are
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person’s out there for you too. It might take time—a lot of time—and it’s gonna hurt and suck, but you deserve someone who wants YOU with every fiber of their being
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and I carried wounds from that relationship for a long time (being 19 and also being in your first lesbian relationship will do horrible things to a girl). I did eventually heal and I’m now married to a woman who makes it loud and clear that she worships the ground I walk on, and I trust that that
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I’m so sorry you’re going through this!! Idk how much it helps but I’ve been through similar—my first wlw relationship, she eventually told me that she never really had feelings and only liked me as a friend despite dating me for 7 months. It SUCKED and made me feel like absolute shit about myself