Meredith Grey Gardens
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I think intro posts are corny. If you want to know my philosophy, it’s this
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I’m going today!!!! So stoked, I hope you had an amazing time!!
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I was about to mention it because I 100% interpret Gilda as a story that’s, in part, about toxic bearding. Johnny and Ballin both use Gilda to beard because they’re very obviously in love with each other.

Fabulous resource for queer cinema history: archive.org/details/behi...
Behind the screen : how gays and lesbians shaped Hollywood, 1910-1969 : Mann, William J : Free Download, Borrow, and Streaming : Internet Archive
Includes bibliographical references (p. [401]-407) and index
archive.org
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I do not know why this woman feels this way about me but she is legally bound to me and I am not about to look a gift horse in the mouth
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My powers of persuasion are at their zenith
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!!!!! my childhood best friend & her wife both went to MSU! And I went to art camp there in the summer as a kid!
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Wait omg I grew up in Paducah (I live in CA now but hiiiiiii)
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I do have a friend who lives in STL who is in a queer polycule with a prominent drag performer there so if we end up there I could probably make a list of the queer-friendly spots lol
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It was so weird and genuinely I think it was, at least in part, her being an old money fangirl, which is something we know about her
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Not someone who just wants to not be alone, and not someone who just wants validation from your attention, but someone who wants you for no other reason than who you are
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person’s out there for you too. It might take time—a lot of time—and it’s gonna hurt and suck, but you deserve someone who wants YOU with every fiber of their being
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and I carried wounds from that relationship for a long time (being 19 and also being in your first lesbian relationship will do horrible things to a girl). I did eventually heal and I’m now married to a woman who makes it loud and clear that she worships the ground I walk on, and I trust that that
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I’m so sorry you’re going through this!! Idk how much it helps but I’ve been through similar—my first wlw relationship, she eventually told me that she never really had feelings and only liked me as a friend despite dating me for 7 months. It SUCKED and made me feel like absolute shit about myself
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I don’t think it would be easy or convenient for anyone but Bay Area swifties but Big Sur would be hilarious
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also Chicago rules and I’d love an excuse to go back
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As a west coaster I am also endorsing Chicago, way easier to get to than further east locations & locations that aren’t big travel hubs
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Marriage level: started making out while marathoning Crime Scene Kitchen and I heard the music change and said “can we pause for just a second? I really want to see what the mystery bake was” and she said “oh thank god, I do too”. Anyway it was a pear frangipane tart and I got railed
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I was hesitant this morning because the initial spray does kind of give cough syrup but omg this dry down is everything to me
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Off topic but for my fragrance girlies I got a decant of Lost Cherry by Tom Ford and holy shit I’m obsessed. The way it dries down from that sweet/sour/juicy cherry top note to this like? cinnamon-y amber?? she is divine
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I also just really relate because I used to HATE hearing people say my name, it made me feel like I was about to be in trouble or someone was about to demand something of me. It filled me with dread, and it’s really only changed because of my wife and that’s on un-coupling