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Jim

@asinglestep.bsky.social

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For those that need it: Queen (co-CEO/COO/CFO) married me - centrist - he/him - 59 - cis:het “but those two times, at band camp…” - "The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step." Lao Tzu

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Him: “as if rising with her in his gyroscope of fantasy he took her to visit his collection of empty cages”

Her: Reading Anaïs again? Love her.

Him: I know. Mmm, cages.

Her: Dumbass, that’s not what she meant.

Him: You’re right, as always. But you like my cage.

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Jim @asinglestep.bsky.social · 19h

Me: Talk to your partner, not only when it feels right.

Her: I like train rides.

Me: Here’s your coat.

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a woman is hugging a pillow with the words pillow hug written below her

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a woman in a red headband is flexing her muscles and says `` you go girl '' .

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a man in a white sweater drinking through a straw

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Jim @asinglestep.bsky.social · 22h

“You had me at left-handed.” 🎉

Jim @asinglestep.bsky.social · 22h

thigh hugs for when your person is not there

Jim @asinglestep.bsky.social · 1d

“I dared it with my senses and I have no regrets.”

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a man with a mustache is smiling with his hand on his chin while wearing a nautica jacket

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Jim @asinglestep.bsky.social · 1d

“gangster knows gangster.”

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want to know what she might be into, check her bookshelf

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Justin Lehmiller @justinlehmiller.bsky.social · 1d

Ever wonder why kinky costumes are so popular on Halloween? It may be because kink is far more common than we think. New research finds that nearly everyone has had a kinky fantasy at some point. https://www.sexandpsychology.com/blog/2025/10/8/everyones-a-little-kinky-on-halloween/

Everyone's a Little Kinky on Halloween (and Maybe the Rest of the Year Too) - Sex and Psychology

Kink and BDSM fantasies and behaviors are often thought to be rare, but they're far more common than one might assume.

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Jim @asinglestep.bsky.social · 1d

Them: Dude, does she still read those smutty books?

Me: No. She doesn’t.

Jim @asinglestep.bsky.social · 1d

dropping some Wednesday Wisdom

Put them on a pedestal without a fence, a moat, or walls. They’ll be set free. And if they choose to go, when they come back you’ll realize they never “left”.

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Me: Oh yeah.

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Him: This. This is why they come home.

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and they’re pushing back like petulant children…

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I prefer erotica created by women because it lasts longer than five minutes.

The Times & Sunday Times @thetimes.com · 2d

Katie Glass worries that enjoying porn makes her a hypocrite. Can erotica ever be female friendly? But then she gets the chance to make her own film in Italy

I wrote a porn film. Can I still be a feminist?

Katie Glass worries that enjoying porn makes her a hypocrite. Can erotica ever be female friendly? But then she gets the chance to make her own film in Italy

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Jim @asinglestep.bsky.social · 1d

We need more content that shows women enjoying themselves, not just being a paid pin cushion because that sells to some fella’s fantasy, but because she wants to be the pin cushion.