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𝐀𝐬𝐤 𝐔𝐧𝐜𝐥𝐞 𝐆𝐚𝐫𝐲 𝐢𝐬 𝐚 𝐰𝐞𝐞𝐤𝐥𝐲 𝐚𝐝𝐯𝐢𝐜𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐥𝐮𝐦𝐧 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐈 𝐚𝐧𝐬𝐰𝐞𝐫 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐛𝐮𝐫𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐪𝐮𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬. 𝐃𝐌 𝐦𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬.

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𝐀𝐬𝐤 𝐔𝐧𝐜𝐥𝐞 𝐆𝐚𝐫𝐲 𝐢𝐬 𝐚 𝐰𝐞𝐞𝐤𝐥𝐲 𝐚𝐝𝐯𝐢𝐜𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐥𝐮𝐦𝐧 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐈 𝐚𝐧𝐬𝐰𝐞𝐫 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐛𝐮𝐫𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐪𝐮𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬. 𝐃𝐌 𝐦𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬. #AskUncleGary #AdviceColumn #SoCalMag #Husbuddy

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December 3, 2025 at 1:41 AM
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I was laid off last month from my job as a university administrator
Dear Uncle Gary,I was laid off last month from my job as a university administrator. I didn’t tell my wife right away because I truly believed I’d find something quickly and then explain it once I had...
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December 3, 2025 at 1:13 AM
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How many of your married friends are happy?
Hey Uncle Gary, Out of all your married friends, how many would you say are genuinely thriving in their relationships, not just sticking it out, but actually happy and fulfilled?Signed, Curious George...
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How do I forgive someone who isn’t sorry?
Dear Uncle Gary,How do I forgive someone who isn’t sorry?Signed, DisappointedDear Disappointed,Let me start here. Forgiveness is not a performance. It’s not a handshake, a ceremony, or a public declar...
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December 1, 2025 at 7:53 PM
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𝐀𝐬𝐤 𝐔𝐧𝐜𝐥𝐞 𝐆𝐚𝐫𝐲 𝐢𝐬 𝐚 𝐰𝐞𝐞𝐤𝐥𝐲 𝐚𝐝𝐯𝐢𝐜𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐥𝐮𝐦𝐧 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐈 𝐚𝐧𝐬𝐰𝐞𝐫 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐛𝐮𝐫𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐪𝐮𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬. 𝐃𝐌 𝐦𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬. #AskUncleGary #AdviceColumn #SoCalMag #Husbuddy
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I could use a little perspective.
My fiancé is super particular about cleanliness; he showers daily, sometimes even twice. Meanwhile, I tend to shower every other day and wash my hair every 3–4 days.
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December 1, 2025 at 6:59 PM
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Clean, Confident, and Consistent: A Hygiene Routine That Works
I know what you’re thinking: “Is Uncle Gary really about to give me a hygiene lecture like I’m thirteen and just discovered armpits?” Not exactly. I’m not here to shame anyone, and I don’t think young...
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𝐀𝐬𝐤 𝐔𝐧𝐜𝐥𝐞 𝐆𝐚𝐫𝐲 𝐢𝐬 𝐚 𝐰𝐞𝐞𝐤𝐥𝐲 𝐚𝐝𝐯𝐢𝐜𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐥𝐮𝐦𝐧 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐈 𝐚𝐧𝐬𝐰𝐞𝐫 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐛𝐮𝐫𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐪𝐮𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬. 𝐃𝐌 𝐦𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬. #AskUncleGary #AdviceColumn #SoCalMag #Husbuddy

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December 1, 2025 at 5:57 PM
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𝐀𝐬𝐤 𝐔𝐧𝐜𝐥𝐞 𝐆𝐚𝐫𝐲 𝐢𝐬 𝐚 𝐰𝐞𝐞𝐤𝐥𝐲 𝐚𝐝𝐯𝐢𝐜𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐥𝐮𝐦𝐧 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐈 𝐚𝐧𝐬𝐰𝐞𝐫 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐛𝐮𝐫𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐪𝐮𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬. 𝐃𝐌 𝐦𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬. #AskUncleGary #AdviceColumn #SoCalMag #Husbuddy

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November 29, 2025 at 10:15 PM
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𝐀𝐬𝐤 𝐔𝐧𝐜𝐥𝐞 𝐆𝐚𝐫𝐲 𝐢𝐬 𝐚 𝐰𝐞𝐞𝐤𝐥𝐲 𝐚𝐝𝐯𝐢𝐜𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐥𝐮𝐦𝐧 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐈 𝐚𝐧𝐬𝐰𝐞𝐫 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐛𝐮𝐫𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐪𝐮𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬. 𝐃𝐌 𝐦𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬. #AskUncleGary #AdviceColumn #SoCalMag #Husbuddy

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𝐀𝐬𝐤 𝐔𝐧𝐜𝐥𝐞 𝐆𝐚𝐫𝐲 𝐢𝐬 𝐚 𝐰𝐞𝐞𝐤𝐥𝐲 𝐚𝐝𝐯𝐢𝐜𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐥𝐮𝐦𝐧 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐈 𝐚𝐧𝐬𝐰𝐞𝐫 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐛𝐮𝐫𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐪𝐮𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬. 𝐃𝐌 𝐦𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬. #AskUncleGary #AdviceColumn #SoCalMag #Husbuddy

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November 29, 2025 at 10:14 PM
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𝐀𝐬𝐤 𝐔𝐧𝐜𝐥𝐞 𝐆𝐚𝐫𝐲 𝐢𝐬 𝐚 𝐰𝐞𝐞𝐤𝐥𝐲 𝐚𝐝𝐯𝐢𝐜𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐥𝐮𝐦𝐧 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐈 𝐚𝐧𝐬𝐰𝐞𝐫 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐛𝐮𝐫𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐪𝐮𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬. 𝐃𝐌 𝐦𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬. #AskUncleGary #AdviceColumn #SoCalMag #Husbuddy

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November 29, 2025 at 10:10 PM
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𝐀𝐬𝐤 𝐔𝐧𝐜𝐥𝐞 𝐆𝐚𝐫𝐲 𝐢𝐬 𝐚 𝐰𝐞𝐞𝐤𝐥𝐲 𝐚𝐝𝐯𝐢𝐜𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐥𝐮𝐦𝐧 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐈 𝐚𝐧𝐬𝐰𝐞𝐫 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐛𝐮𝐫𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐪𝐮𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬. 𝐃𝐌 𝐦𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬. #AskUncleGary #AdviceColumn #SoCalMag #Husbuddy

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November 29, 2025 at 10:08 PM
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𝐀𝐬𝐤 𝐔𝐧𝐜𝐥𝐞 𝐆𝐚𝐫𝐲 𝐢𝐬 𝐚 𝐰𝐞𝐞𝐤𝐥𝐲 𝐚𝐝𝐯𝐢𝐜𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐥𝐮𝐦𝐧 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐈 𝐚𝐧𝐬𝐰𝐞𝐫 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐛𝐮𝐫𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐪𝐮𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬. 𝐃𝐌 𝐦𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬. #AskUncleGary #AdviceColumn #SoCalMag #Husbuddy

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November 28, 2025 at 10:34 PM
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𝐀𝐬𝐤 𝐔𝐧𝐜𝐥𝐞 𝐆𝐚𝐫𝐲 𝐢𝐬 𝐚 𝐰𝐞𝐞𝐤𝐥𝐲 𝐚𝐝𝐯𝐢𝐜𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐥𝐮𝐦𝐧 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐈 𝐚𝐧𝐬𝐰𝐞𝐫 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐛𝐮𝐫𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐪𝐮𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬. 𝐃𝐌 𝐦𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬. #AskUncleGary #AdviceColumn #SoCalMag #Husbuddy

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November 28, 2025 at 10:03 PM
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𝐀𝐬𝐤 𝐔𝐧𝐜𝐥𝐞 𝐆𝐚𝐫𝐲 𝐢𝐬 𝐚 𝐰𝐞𝐞𝐤𝐥𝐲 𝐚𝐝𝐯𝐢𝐜𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐥𝐮𝐦𝐧 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐈 𝐚𝐧𝐬𝐰𝐞𝐫 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐛𝐮𝐫𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐪𝐮𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬. 𝐃𝐌 𝐦𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬. #AskUncleGary #AdviceColumn #SoCalMag #Husbuddy

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Dear Uncle Gary, I met my wife when I was 18, married her at 24, and we had our daughter at 25
Dear Uncle Gary, I met my wife when I was 18, married her at 24, and we had our daughter at 25.Life felt full, with good careers, a happy kid, and what I thought was a strong marriage. But at 35, my w...
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I asked a counsellor
Hey Gary,I’m staying in a safe house right now, and some of the routines here are different from what I’m used to. I’ve looked for information, but nothing is written down, and when I asked one of the...
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