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The Autistic Rabbi(nical Student) | Mati [he/they]
@autisticrabbi.bsky.social
neuroqueer disabled af rabbi in training 🕍

disability & neurodiversity educator + consultant 👨‍🦯

mystic of the normal ♾️

davening for more ❤️ to be revealed

#AuDHD #POTS #Dyspraxia ♿️

theautisticrabbi.com

also @theautisticcoach.bsky.social
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Neuroqueer Talmud is back!

Come claim back your tradition as we learn about ableism, power dynamics, and oppression via a Jewish lens.

We will learn together over 5 weeks - all levels of learning welcome!

www.theautisticrabbi.com/autistic-tor...
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Sitting on the Métro.

The person sitting across from me sees my autism and disability pins on my bag.

They look at me, sigh, roll their eyes and look the person they’re traveling with, “another one, looks fine to me.”

This is the kind of aggression we encounter on a daily basis.
November 17, 2025 at 7:52 AM
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autistic humans aren't currency
November 24, 2025 at 9:28 AM
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Alexithymia isn’t lack of emotion.

It’s emotion without translation.

The feelings are there.

The map isn’t.

And yet autistic people blame themselves for being “numb.”

You’re not numb - you’re flooded.

Your body is speaking a language you were never taught.
November 26, 2025 at 9:51 AM
why do so many jewish publishers bind their books so poorly?
November 26, 2025 at 10:19 AM
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The work of my colleagues and I @bestfirstchair.bsky.social @autisticjoy.bsky.social @autisticpresence.bsky.social ) isn’t about “fixing” my fellow autistic humans.

It’s about helping them stop living in a world that keeps breaking us.

It helps lead to self-liberation.
November 26, 2025 at 8:58 AM
Has anyone ever seen evangelical “Talmud reveal” videos?

Truly bizarre sub genre on YouTube
November 25, 2025 at 8:30 PM
autistic humans aren't currency
November 24, 2025 at 9:28 AM
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Shabbat shalom!
Trauma doesn’t only injure the person who experiences it directly.

It injures everyone who has to build a life around the person who survived.

It profoundly affects the support people around the traumitised person if not taken with care.
Parashat Toldot Is a Mess and So Are We
Intergenerational Trauma in Genesis and Beyond
open.substack.com
November 21, 2025 at 9:01 AM
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Trauma doesn’t only injure the person who experiences it directly.

It injures everyone who has to build a life around the person who survived.

It profoundly affects the support people around the traumitised person if not taken with care.
Parashat Toldot Is a Mess and So Are We
Intergenerational Trauma in Genesis and Beyond
open.substack.com
November 18, 2025 at 1:08 PM
Shabbat shalom!
Trauma doesn’t only injure the person who experiences it directly.

It injures everyone who has to build a life around the person who survived.

It profoundly affects the support people around the traumitised person if not taken with care.
Parashat Toldot Is a Mess and So Are We
Intergenerational Trauma in Genesis and Beyond
open.substack.com
November 21, 2025 at 9:01 AM
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i spend a lot of time and energy explaining to my fellow jews that the overwhelming majority of my comrades on the political left are not antisemitic.

so when i experience antisemitism, firsthand no less, by people on the left it's especially stinging.

it's painful beyond words.
November 19, 2025 at 10:14 AM
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Regardless of whether you were diagnosed or self identified, you have spent years suppressing your autistic identity and conforming to neurotypical norms.

Join us to explore and embrace your autistic self in my 6-week autistic peer-support coaching program!
Late Identified Autistics Life Coaching Group | Autism Workshop — The Autistic Coach
The Autistic Coach offers a 5-week workshop for late-identified autistic adults in the UK, US & Europe. Each 90-minute session, led by an autistic coach, helps you explore your autistic identity, unma...
www.theautisticcoach.com
November 19, 2025 at 12:19 PM
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The push against ableism isn’t just about individual rights.

It’s about dismantling broader systems of oppression that marginalize neurodistinct individuals daily
November 19, 2025 at 10:03 AM
i spend a lot of time and energy explaining to my fellow jews that the overwhelming majority of my comrades on the political left are not antisemitic.

so when i experience antisemitism, firsthand no less, by people on the left it's especially stinging.

it's painful beyond words.
November 19, 2025 at 10:14 AM
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The fact that me and other marginalised folx need to do the work we do is a TRAGEDY.

Not a tragedy that we exist or that we do the work.

But THE FACT that we HAVE to do this.

Because it means that our community isn’t doing the necessary work.

It means gatekeeping and violence exist.
November 17, 2025 at 7:46 AM
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Being a disabled student means you need to sit thru ableist nonsense in 99.99% of your classes and school interactions and say THANK YOU!
November 17, 2025 at 5:29 PM
Trauma doesn’t only injure the person who experiences it directly.

It injures everyone who has to build a life around the person who survived.

It profoundly affects the support people around the traumitised person if not taken with care.
Parashat Toldot Is a Mess and So Are We
Intergenerational Trauma in Genesis and Beyond
open.substack.com
November 18, 2025 at 1:08 PM
Being a disabled student means you need to sit thru ableist nonsense in 99.99% of your classes and school interactions and say THANK YOU!
November 17, 2025 at 5:29 PM
The fact that me and other marginalised folx need to do the work we do is a TRAGEDY.

Not a tragedy that we exist or that we do the work.

But THE FACT that we HAVE to do this.

Because it means that our community isn’t doing the necessary work.

It means gatekeeping and violence exist.
November 17, 2025 at 7:46 AM
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being a jewish educator and a jewish leader means standing up for what's right.

this isn't fucking complicated.
November 11, 2025 at 7:54 PM
My Torah takes for the weekend.

Shabbat shalom!
The search for a wife could have easily repeated every old pattern – another woman chosen, traded, or coerced – but the tone of the narrative changes.
Parashat Chayei Sarah and the Ethics of Becoming
Rebecca, Consent, and the Afterlife of Trauma
open.substack.com
November 14, 2025 at 4:51 PM
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The search for a wife could have easily repeated every old pattern – another woman chosen, traded, or coerced – but the tone of the narrative changes.
Parashat Chayei Sarah and the Ethics of Becoming
Rebecca, Consent, and the Afterlife of Trauma
open.substack.com
November 13, 2025 at 9:26 AM
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Just overheard someone speak about “history informed Brisker method”.

So…unicorns and yetis?
November 12, 2025 at 10:41 PM
No, autism isn’t the reason for the Holocaust ffs
Exclusive: Adolf Hitler’s DNA has been sequenced by scientists

It has:
- shown he had a disorder which impacted his sexual development
- debunked rumours about his ancestry
- shown a high likelihood that he had a neurodivergent condition and/or bipolar disorder

www.thetimes.com/article/e728...
Hitler had hidden genetic sexual disorder, DNA analysis reveals
The Nazi dictator had Kallmann syndrome, which hinders normal puberty and the development of sexual organs, according to groundbreaking research
www.thetimes.com
November 13, 2025 at 11:40 AM
The search for a wife could have easily repeated every old pattern – another woman chosen, traded, or coerced – but the tone of the narrative changes.
Parashat Chayei Sarah and the Ethics of Becoming
Rebecca, Consent, and the Afterlife of Trauma
open.substack.com
November 13, 2025 at 9:26 AM