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Barry Selby @barryselby.bsky.social · Aug 15

Live with Heather Cox Richardson
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Live with Heather Cox Richardson

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Barry Selby @barryselby.bsky.social · Aug 13

Happy International Left Handers Day! Where are my fellow left handers at?

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Barry Selby @barryselby.bsky.social · Aug 12

When you begin a new relationship, whaf do you realy feel is the most challenging thing? Is this the hardest thing for you? Or is it giving up your dating profile? Or is it adjusting to a new person?

Let me know, below.

Barry Selby @barryselby.bsky.social · Aug 10

ACTIONS PROVE WHO SOMEONE IS. WORDS JUST PROVE WHO THEY TO BE.

Notice who you trust this week.

Follow me for more wisdom!

And reach out if you want to upgrade from words to actions.

Barry Selby @barryselby.bsky.social · Aug 10

THIS IS MY KIND OF RELATIONSHIP!

When both partners have done their work… aah, that’s the relationship for me. How about you?

I have space on my calendar for a few committed individuals who are ready and committed to their work. Message me for details.

#TheLoveDoctor
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Barry Selby @barryselby.bsky.social · Jun 27

WHEN YOU CHANGE YOUR INNER EMOTIONAL CLIMATE, THE WORLD AROUND YOU CHANGES TOO.

Join my Emotional Freedom Experience & have more peace, clarity, & truth that becomes your default state.

Starting July 9th, just 5 individuals, 3 spots left, will you grab one of them?

Send me a message: FREEDOM!

Barry Selby @barryselby.bsky.social · Jun 26

LET GO OF WHAT IS NOT YOURS!

Barry Selby @barryselby.bsky.social · Jun 25

TURN YOUR EMOTIONAL WOUNDS INTO WISDOM

You were never meant to stay wounded. You were meant to rise.

In my Emotional Freedom Experience, you will transform pain into power, beginning July 9th, 30 days, with my guidance for five committed individuals.

Send me a message with the word FREEDOM.

Barry Selby @barryselby.bsky.social · Jun 24

YOU DON’T HAVE TO PERFORM FOR LOVE.

Don’t shrink yourself for love. Or over-give, or chase approval for love.

In my Emotional Freedom Experience, beginning July 9, break the cycle of people-pleasing & reconnect with self-respect.

Send me a message with the word FREEDOM and I will send you deets.

Barry Selby @barryselby.bsky.social · Jun 24

ARE YOU READY FOR EMOTIONAL FREEDOM AND GREATER SELF-TRUST?

Watch this video and send me a message with the word “FREEDOM” and I’ll send you details.

Barry Selby @barryselby.bsky.social · May 16

LET'S TALK ABOUT WHY OTHERS TREAT YOU LIKE THEY DO!

Simply put, the relationship you have with yourself sets the tone for every other relationship - the way you treat yourself is the blueprint for how others will treat you. I get a lot clearer, so watch this!

Barry Selby @barryselby.bsky.social · May 15

LET'S TALK ABOUT MIXED SIGNALS!

Stop over-analyzing mixed signals. Here is how to know if someone is genuinely interested in you. You want to know, don't you?

#TheLoveDoctor
#relationshipexpert
#datingexpert
#attraction
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Barry Selby @barryselby.bsky.social · May 14

LET'S TALK ABOUT YOUR HEALING JOURNEY!

Do you feel stuck in your healing journey? If you have been doing the inner work but still feel stuck, there is a reason. Watch this.

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#relationshipexpert
#datingexpert
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#feelingstuck

Barry Selby @barryselby.bsky.social · May 13

LET'S TALK ABOUT RECOVERING FROM BETRAYAL!

If you have been betrayed in your relationship, the hardest part is not being unable to trust others again—it is actually about being unable to trust yourself. How do you rebuild your self-trust after being betrayed? Watch this! And reach out for support.

Barry Selby @barryselby.bsky.social · May 12

LET’S TALK ABOUT ATTRACTING A HIGH-VALUE PARTNER, THE RIGHT WAY!

Attraction is not about tricks—it is about alignment. Watch this. And reach out for support and guidance.

#TheLoveDoctor
#datingexpert
#relationshipexpert
#attraction

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Barry Selby @barryselby.bsky.social · May 9

LET'S TALK ABOUT HOW PEOPLE TREAT YOU!

There is a reason people treat you the way they do. This video explains the one shift that will change how they treat you!

#TheLoveDoctor
#datingexpert
#relationshipexpert
#Respect
#selfrelationship

Barry Selby @barryselby.bsky.social · May 8

LETS TALK ABOUT SELF-RELATIONSHIP!

Do you honestly, vulnerably, proudly, love yourself?

It is clear who doesn’t love themselves. It shows through how they treat others.

My core work is helping you love yourself authentically and honestly.

Message me and grow!

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Barry Selby @barryselby.bsky.social · May 8

GREAT RELATIONSHIPS DON’T JUST HAPPEN.

They require attention and more!

Also notice they are walking side by side, facing the same direction. This is another useful key to healthy relationships!

Want more? Message me.

#thelovedoctor
#relationshipexpert
#datingexpert
#healthyrelationship

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Barry Selby @barryselby.bsky.social · May 8

LET'S TALK ABOUT YOUR RELATIONSHIP STANDARDS!

Have prospective dates told you that your relationship standards are too high? Then watch this!

#TheLoveDoctor
#datingexpert
#relationshipexpert
#relationshipstandards
#YouDeserveBetter

Barry Selby @barryselby.bsky.social · May 6

LET’S TALK ABOUT THE ONE BELIEF THAT KEEPS YOU STUCK IN PAINFUL RELATIONSHIP CYCLES!

There is one subconscious belief shaping every relationship you have ever had. Want to know what it is? Watch and then reach out!

#TheLoveDoctor
#relationshipexpert
#datingexpert
#BeABetterPartner

Barry Selby @barryselby.bsky.social · May 2

LET'S TALK ABOUT YOUR SELF-WORTH!

This is the fastest way to build unshakable self-worth! and a reminder - you do not wake up one day magically confident—you build it, decision by decision.

#TheLoveDoctor
#datingexpert
#relationshipexpert
#selfworth
#confidence

Barry Selby @barryselby.bsky.social · May 1

LET'S TALK ABOUT HEALTHY BOUNDARIES!

Do you know how to set boundaries without feeling like you will lose someone? If you are afraid to set boundaries because you think you will push people away, listen up!

#TheLoveDoctor
#relationshipexpert
#datingexpert
#boundaries
#healthyboundaries

Barry Selby @barryselby.bsky.social · Apr 30

LET'S TALK ABOUT SELF-WORTH AND WALKING AWAY!

Did you know that walking away from a bad relationship can be your greatest act of self-worth! Let's dive in.

#TheLoveDoctor
#relationshipexpert
#datingexpert
#WalkAway
#selfworth

Barry Selby @barryselby.bsky.social · Apr 29

LET'S TALK ABOUT RED FLAGS!

Here are some relationship red flags you can’t ignore, as they might not be obvious—until it’s too late!

#TheLoveDoctor
#relationshipexpert
#redflagsindating
#redflag
#DateBetter

Barry Selby @barryselby.bsky.social · Apr 28

LET'S TALK ABOUT LETTING GO OF SOMEONE WHO IS NOT RIGHT FOR YOU!

You KNOW they are not right for you, yet you still are unable to walk away. Let’s talk about why.

#TheLoveDoctor
#relationshipexpert
#datingexpert
#lettinggo
#WalkAway
#ChooseBetter