Live your truth, if people get pissed and no longer want to be your friend (a fan), do it anyway.

She’s done avoiding the questions, living a lie, dwelling on the past. She wants to move on. Live her truth. Fuck the consequences. 10/10

She doesn’t want to be quiet anymore. She wants to answer the questions, live her truth, be in the open. If the only way to be authentically you is to answer the question and out yourself, so it. Ruin the friendship. “Staying friends is safe, doesn’t mean you should.” 9/

She’s the professor telling herself she has to reflect on the past, write it down, then close the book because the story is over. It’s time to move on.

In Ruin the Friendship, she says her advice is to always answer the question. It’s a complete turn around from Midnights and TTPD. 8/

She looks back on it, but the story isn’t hers anymore. She’s closing the book. She doesn’t want to keep the secrets anymore. She doesn’t want to keep living a lie. She also called herself the English professor in the engagement announcement post. 7/

And “never take advice from someone who’s falling apart.” Don’t look to her for guidance. She has to keep living the lie.

In The Manuscript, the only thing that’s left is the manuscript. The entire torrid affair is over. The professor said the only way to move forward is to look backwards. 6/

She asked all these questions earlier, asking if it was real, if it was worth it to keep the secret. She also says the greatest of luxuries are your secrets. She knows the questions won’t be answered, the secret has to stay secret, the relationship is over. She doesn’t even want the answer. 5/

She’s asking if the relationship meant as much to you as it did to her, is it worth keeping the secret, staying in the closet.

In Dear Reader, she says, “You don’t have to answer just ‘cause they asked you.” 4/

She asks if you ever kissed someone in a crowded room and were mocked, if you left her house in the middle of the night, of you wish you could still touch her. She also says you were caught in “politics and gender roles.” 3/

In Question…? Taylor asks all kinds of questions about a secret relationship. She starts the song with, “We had one thing going on / I swear that it was something / ‘Cause I don't remember who I was before you.” 2/

I don’t see people making the connection between Question…?, Dear Reader, and The Manuscript to Ruin the Friendship. I wanted to give my thoughts. 1/