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(dr.) asha
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she/her || xe/xem
ask me to deinfluence you from collagen products
gothic transfem biochem phd
little owlet
தமிழ் || ಕನ್ನಡ
Pinned
Asha, desire/wish/hope

a deeply positive and aspirational name
tasty Thai food and bespoke cocktail and now we are going to play a murder mystery video game together
December 13, 2025 at 1:36 AM
no makeup messy outdoors
December 12, 2025 at 10:47 PM
I feel like an embarrassment who does not deserve even the barest minimum community and friendship, which probably means I need food
December 12, 2025 at 7:46 PM
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tried out some new brushes with beato #umineko #art
December 12, 2025 at 4:05 PM
I have been here for 2 hours and already ran down my phone battery taking metro photos
December 12, 2025 at 6:34 PM
off to the airport as soon as I get dressed. I do not want to go outside because it is incredibly cold but one must
December 12, 2025 at 11:36 AM
fundamentally most of my issues right now are "I'm extremely, crushingly lonely but also too scared to try to change that because it feels so risky"
December 11, 2025 at 10:42 PM
picked up a book at the library that I thought sounded interesting but it's just soooooooooo heterosexual I do not think I can sit through this
December 11, 2025 at 9:11 PM
as I just found out, the Mormon proselytizers are now stopping people in the middle of crosswalks
December 11, 2025 at 8:27 PM
I feel ugly and unpresentable in public because I have been massively dressed down due to moving stuff and also no makeup and I know I am not literally unpresentable but it does feel that way a bit
December 11, 2025 at 5:25 PM
I have been invited to another on site interview, for a medical writing job that I applied for a while back

should be the final round for this one also
December 11, 2025 at 3:10 PM
self image is absolutely garbage today
December 11, 2025 at 2:42 PM
may I ask for reassurance that I am at least a little bit pretty

I am having Bad Thoughts and probably will go to sleep soon as a result but
December 11, 2025 at 3:01 AM
good news: I already was going to do my laundry today
bad news: putting clothes that got covered in shampoo from a leaky bottle of shampoo directly into the wash is not a good idea so I have to hand rinse them first anyway 😔
December 10, 2025 at 10:50 PM
I am kind of sad for no reason but also frustrated at how I don't know how to make friends and how to know if people think of me as a friend or not and whether it's rude to ask and maybe not doing too well with the thoughts at the moment
December 10, 2025 at 8:07 PM
I have successfully (mostly) moved and now I have better lighting
December 10, 2025 at 3:11 PM
I am Soooooooo tired oh my god
December 9, 2025 at 10:54 PM
have a hair appointment in a bit. very glad I asked for a silent appointment.
tired after 5 hours of job interview
December 9, 2025 at 8:40 PM
tired after 5 hours of job interview
December 9, 2025 at 7:26 PM
I lived (I think)
December 9, 2025 at 7:06 PM
the Charles River is starting to ice over a bit which is nice after last year when it kind of. didn't
December 9, 2025 at 12:22 PM
off to interview please wish me luck I'm kind of losing it
December 9, 2025 at 12:04 PM
5 hour on site job interview tomorrow send help
December 9, 2025 at 1:42 AM
I need to get another pair of these pants because like. Excuse me
December 8, 2025 at 11:40 PM
a name that I am still kind of attached to is Thenmozhi, which is a kind of old fashioned tamil name

it doesn't quite flow well with my last name, and also no one would pronounce it correctly, which as much as it shouldn't be a consideration it kind of is
To those who changed their name, what was your runner up choice?

I almost went with Zia with the middle name I have now. I tested it out and it didn’t feel quite like me.
December 8, 2025 at 8:49 PM