Catieosaurus
@catieosaurus.bsky.social
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catieosaurus.bsky.social
Here’s my highly requested breakdown on how kink actually makes sense for those of us who are neurospicy!🔥

(This is only scratching the surface, I got more up my sleeve)
#kinkjustmakessense
Kink Just Makes sense for ADHD
5 WAYS Kink Supports Neurodivergent Mental Health

Novelty and Stimulation
Individuals with ADHD often seek new and stimulating experiences. Kink can provide a structured way to fulfill that need for novelty and engagement within safe and consensual boundaries.

Sensory Exploration
 Many neurodivergent individuals experience unique sensory preferences. BDSM can offer controlled environments where specific sensations (such as pressure or touch) are explored safely.

Clear Structures and Protocols:
 Kink communities often rely on clear rules, safety protocols, and explicit communication. This structure can be beneficial for people with ADHD or Autism, who may find well-defined guidelines reassuring.

Role-Play vs. Social Masking:
  Individuals on the Autism spectrum often engage in 'masking' in social situations. In kink role-play, however, the expectations are openly discussed, which can reduce social pressure and ambiguity.

Hyperfocus Advantages:
 People with ADHD can experience intense periods of focus (hyperfocus). During a kink scene, this state of concentration can enhance both the emotional and physical aspects of the experience.

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therosecleric.bsky.social
(I posted this earlier with the wrong image 😭)

I am disabled, in pain and cannot stand up to cook, but I still need to eat this evening.

All of my money just went to paying rent. If anyone could spare $50 for food and medicine it would be appreciated.

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catieosaurus.bsky.social
The tricky bit is that I had to really change how I was doing stuff both on the mental health side of things and the physical side of things to deal with my binge eating and chronic pain.
catieosaurus.bsky.social
After I posted my last essay about my weight loss, a lot of you reached out, both in comments and DMs to ask me how I did it and to better outline the treatment process, the type/kind of therapy I did, and generally the process of what I went through.
catieosaurus.bsky.social
I kept trying to explain that this had been a problem BEFORE the weight gain. How dare this doctor dismiss me? How dare this fatphobic jerk tell me that my fat body was the root cause & that if I only changed that single thing, all of my problems would be solved?
catieosaurus.bsky.social
In trying unsuccessfully to source the cause of my chronic pain, I went to a number of doctors and specialists around the country. Over and over, my weight would come up.

Sometimes gingerly, sometimes passive aggressive, sometimes STRAIGHT to aggressive, but it was really hard for me to hear. 🧵 ⬇️
catieosaurus.bsky.social
I leave a proud legacy behind me
stockroom.bsky.social
We learned the term "praise kink" from @catieosaurus.bsky.social , and it's not restricted to any one gender; no matter your partner's gender, the occasional "good job" will do wonders in bed or the dungeon.  

 https://f.mtr.cool/rfxzjsffkh
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stockroom.bsky.social
We learned the term "praise kink" from @catieosaurus.bsky.social , and it's not restricted to any one gender; no matter your partner's gender, the occasional "good job" will do wonders in bed or the dungeon.  

 https://f.mtr.cool/rfxzjsffkh
catieosaurus.bsky.social
On Sorry I Missed This, we talk about ADHD, social regulation, and dating without feeling like you need to mask everything about yourself. Just 30 minutes and you'll get why this happens. Go listen (its free)!

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Cate answers your burning ADHD questions
On this “Sorry, I Missed This” podcast episode, Host Cate Osborn rolls a D20 to pick ADHD mailbag questions on women, diagnosis, and how symptoms shift with age.
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catieosaurus.bsky.social
Chronic oversharing with ADHD is such a unique vibe. You know you're doing it. You know it's "too much." But the words just keep coming out.

I got so curious about why this happens, we brought in experts from all over the world to weigh in on my show! Want to find out what they said? 🧵⬇️
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intersectionscch.bsky.social
On Friday at 2:30pm I will be on Playtesting Your Self. This is a panel about exploring identity through games!
Panel: @naladraws.com @therosecleric.bsky.social @blackgirlmage.bsky.social @catieosaurus.bsky.social @sailorsctaustin.bsky.social and me!

2/7
Panel announcement for Playtesting yourself at PAX Unplugged on November 21st 2025. Panelists are Nala J. Wu, Amihan Johnson, Lexi McQueen, Cate Osborn, Austin Taylor, and Lamia
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partyofonepodcast.bsky.social
NEW EPISODE: HUNT(ER/ED) WITH CATE OSBORN
@catieosaurus.bsky.social @superdillin.bsky.social @meghanlynnftw.bsky.social

You'll dig this episode if you like: Supernatural, backyard concerts, Mosh Pit Security Guards, magical crowbars, Daisy Jones & the Six

www.partyofonepodcast.com/2025/10/07/4...
This week on Party of One
HUNT(ER/ED)
Feat. Cate Osborn
Host, Sorry I Missed This
Author, The ADHD Field Guide for Adults

Something is stalking the punk shows of Manhattan. Musicians are turning up missing. Blood in the streets.

Someone needs to go hunting.

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catieosaurus.bsky.social
Hey @jeffstormer.gobirds.online I mean the BARS are being RATTLED....
meghanlynnftw.bsky.social
Rattling the bars of my enclosure BEGGING for a part 2 of this story.
Please @jeffstormer.gobirds.online and @catieosaurus.bsky.social???
partyofonepodcast.bsky.social
NEW EPISODE: HUNT(ER/ED) WITH CATE OSBORN
@catieosaurus.bsky.social @superdillin.bsky.social @meghanlynnftw.bsky.social

You'll dig this episode if you like: Supernatural, backyard concerts, Mosh Pit Security Guards, magical crowbars, Daisy Jones & the Six

www.partyofonepodcast.com/2025/10/07/4...
catieosaurus.bsky.social
Hey me and my favorite internet dad Clint McElroy are hanging out tonight and messing around with some Cryptids. Come by to see how many times I manage to shoehorn an unnecessary Mokele-Mbembe reference into the conversation.

Starts at 6pm EST!
catieosaurus.bsky.social
Let's play more:
ADHD THIS or THAT? 🧠 ⚡

When you’re overstimulated, but don’t want distance with your partner, do you:
A) Hold pinkies / give high-fives? 🔗
B) Facilitate a side-by-side co-regulation space? 💓
catieosaurus.bsky.social
That voice telling me I was "too much" or "not enough" was never about my body or my appearance. It was about the lifetime I spent feeling different and broken and weird and out of place, and not knowing why.
catieosaurus.bsky.social
When I was first starting to learn about ADHD, one of the biggest lightbulb moments I had was about that voice telling me I was "too much" or "not enough."

If you have ADHD, do you have this voice in your head? And if so, do you want to know more about why you might have this voice? 🧵⬇️
catieosaurus.bsky.social
Let's play more:
ADHD THIS or THAT? 🧠 ⚡

When you’re struggling with rejection sensitivity, do you:
A) Ask if they’re mad at you directly? 💬
B) Request reassurance in advance when asking difficult questions? 🫂
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thecandacemarie.bsky.social
New cozy romance game just dropped!! Join us on October 19th for The Quest for the Holy Tail, an Arthurian #thirstyswordlesbians oneshot to benefit @dotsrpg.org! In partnership with @jesthehuman.itch.io and live on @badhouserpg.bsky.social!!

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Quest for the Holy Tail flyer
A grey stone castle motif with purple and orange banners. 
October 19th at 7p EST
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To benefit DOTS Braille dice project
Playing Thirsty Sword Lesbians
Starring: Robin Ekberg, Zak tha Drak, Cai/EstelOfImladris, Calamity, KappaChris, and Candace the Magnificent.
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‼️🚨KICKSTARTER WORKERS ARE ON STRIKE🚨‼️

As of 8am this morning, the workers of Kickstarter United/OPEIU Local 153 are on strike.

WE ARE NOT ASKING FOR A BOYCOTT! Creators and allies, please continue using and supporting the platform.
Kickstarter United is on strike!
We are not asking for a boycott! Creators & Allies: Please continue to support & use the platform
swipe for ways to show your solidarity Why We're Striking
A codified 4-day work week.
We simply want to protect the way we've been working for over 3.5 years. The 4dww has proven benefits, such as increased productivity and improved employee satisfaction. It's part of what makes Kickstarter a special, innovative place to work.
Fair pay for our lowest-paid workers.
We're fighting for livable minimum salaries for roles that are undervalued by the market but crucial to keeping Kickstarter running. We believe none of our workers should struggle to make ends meet. Creators
Show your solidarity by:
Continue using the platform like normal
When something breaks, complain loudly that it is management's fault for causing the strike
Include our logo and strike info on your project
Send a letter to KSR leadership urging them to meet our demands & end the strike bit.ly/KSRUletter Community Allies
Show your solidarity by:
Support your favorite creators on the platform like normal
Send a letter to KSR leadership urging them to meet our demands & end the strike: Creators
Show your solidarity by:
Continue using the platform like normal
When something breaks, complain loudly that it is management's fault for causing the strike
Include our logo and strike info on your project
Send a letter to KSR leadership urging them to meet our demands & end the strike bit.ly/KSRUletter
Donate to our solidarity fund: bit.ly/KSRUdonate
Attend a rally or picket either in-person near you (NYC and Seattle) or virtual
catieosaurus.bsky.social
You know that thing where your goblin brain starts thinking of that SUPER embarrassing thing you did in 4th grade right when things are getting intimate?

Yeah, that's your ADHD brain trying to regulate before vulnerability. Want to know more? 🧵⬇️
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We are thrilled to announce that our NEW Large Language Model will be released on 11.18.25.