@cheeven.bsky.social
I hope you will realise that you have the power to make yourself happy. You have to decide your own purpose.
December 31, 2024 at 2:37 PM
I hope you will realise that you have the power to make yourself happy. You have to decide your own purpose.
You are making decisions every second. You have to decide whether you are living for yourself or for other people.
December 31, 2024 at 2:36 PM
You are making decisions every second. You have to decide whether you are living for yourself or for other people.
Bob. I know it is hard to lose someone who you used to talk to everyday. You feel lonely. Unfortunately you can’t rely on other people to make you happy. You have to own your happiness.
December 31, 2024 at 2:35 PM
Bob. I know it is hard to lose someone who you used to talk to everyday. You feel lonely. Unfortunately you can’t rely on other people to make you happy. You have to own your happiness.
Bob, I know it has been a difficult holiday for you. Don’t lose faith on yourself. You can handle it. You will prevail.
December 31, 2024 at 12:45 PM
Bob, I know it has been a difficult holiday for you. Don’t lose faith on yourself. You can handle it. You will prevail.
Bob, let go and move on
December 31, 2024 at 9:50 AM
Bob, let go and move on
Dear Bob - Happy New Year. You reached out to her and you got the closure you needed. Take it as the parting gift before the end of 2024. Things will only get better! Believe in yourself!
December 30, 2024 at 10:12 PM
Dear Bob - Happy New Year. You reached out to her and you got the closure you needed. Take it as the parting gift before the end of 2024. Things will only get better! Believe in yourself!
Bob, I know it is hard. It is the best time of year but your heart is still broken. The pains are natural - breaking from a once loving relationship is painful but you need to have faith in yourself that things will alright, and you will be alright! Hang in there!
December 25, 2024 at 12:41 PM
Bob, I know it is hard. It is the best time of year but your heart is still broken. The pains are natural - breaking from a once loving relationship is painful but you need to have faith in yourself that things will alright, and you will be alright! Hang in there!
Bob, don’t be misguided. Remember to focus on yourself.
December 23, 2024 at 11:01 AM
Bob, don’t be misguided. Remember to focus on yourself.
Bob, don’t worry! It is your holiday soon!
December 19, 2024 at 4:05 AM
Bob, don’t worry! It is your holiday soon!
Bob, remember - it is not about her. It is your life and it should be you first.
December 18, 2024 at 9:17 AM
Bob, remember - it is not about her. It is your life and it should be you first.
Bob, if you are listening - hang in there! The sky will clear up once the storm has passed, and the moon will shine again once the cloud flies by… be strong and be brave!
December 16, 2024 at 11:48 PM
Bob, if you are listening - hang in there! The sky will clear up once the storm has passed, and the moon will shine again once the cloud flies by… be strong and be brave!
人有悲歡離合
月有陰晴圓缺
此事古難全
但願人長久
千里共嬋娟
月有陰晴圓缺
此事古難全
但願人長久
千里共嬋娟
December 16, 2024 at 12:27 PM
人有悲歡離合
月有陰晴圓缺
此事古難全
但願人長久
千里共嬋娟
月有陰晴圓缺
此事古難全
但願人長久
千里共嬋娟
菩提本無樹
明鏡亦非台
本來無一物
何處惹塵埃
明鏡亦非台
本來無一物
何處惹塵埃
December 16, 2024 at 12:25 PM
菩提本無樹
明鏡亦非台
本來無一物
何處惹塵埃
明鏡亦非台
本來無一物
何處惹塵埃
On the other hand, I also feel confident that Bob will be alright eventually. It will hurt but he will heal. Even if he has to grow a scar, he will be stronger with it.
December 15, 2024 at 10:43 PM
On the other hand, I also feel confident that Bob will be alright eventually. It will hurt but he will heal. Even if he has to grow a scar, he will be stronger with it.
I wished him luck but I think it will be quite challenging unless if he can suddenly change his perceptions overnight. He would still looking for ways to connect with her and he will still fell and moan if he can’t receive any feedback from that girl
December 15, 2024 at 10:39 PM
I wished him luck but I think it will be quite challenging unless if he can suddenly change his perceptions overnight. He would still looking for ways to connect with her and he will still fell and moan if he can’t receive any feedback from that girl
“What else can I do? I still want to continue with my job and I wouldn’t be able to push her out of hers”, said Bob
December 15, 2024 at 10:37 PM
“What else can I do? I still want to continue with my job and I wouldn’t be able to push her out of hers”, said Bob
“It is going to be tough. You still work in the same team and you will see her everyday in the office,” I said to him.
December 15, 2024 at 10:35 PM
“It is going to be tough. You still work in the same team and you will see her everyday in the office,” I said to him.
Bob told me that he has decided that he wants to cut off every personal engagement with the girl. He knows that he still needs to work with her in the office, but he can not afford to stay in the never-ending cycle of self doubt.
December 15, 2024 at 10:34 PM
Bob told me that he has decided that he wants to cut off every personal engagement with the girl. He knows that he still needs to work with her in the office, but he can not afford to stay in the never-ending cycle of self doubt.
The sooner you let go that wrong expectation, the sooner you regain yourself
December 15, 2024 at 2:45 PM
The sooner you let go that wrong expectation, the sooner you regain yourself
You are not 007 dealing with a foreign spy on a world ending crisis… it is a very simple matter: you fell for her and started to establish an unrealistic expectation that she will reciprocate.
December 15, 2024 at 2:44 PM
You are not 007 dealing with a foreign spy on a world ending crisis… it is a very simple matter: you fell for her and started to establish an unrealistic expectation that she will reciprocate.
It is the classic perception con of life: is it a cup half empty or a cup half full?
December 15, 2024 at 2:36 PM
It is the classic perception con of life: is it a cup half empty or a cup half full?
“There is no need to villainise her,” I said to Bob, “that relationship has not even started and by all means she was doing what she needed to do by her job. The perception and then the exception was all yours and that was never her doing”
December 15, 2024 at 2:35 PM
“There is no need to villainise her,” I said to Bob, “that relationship has not even started and by all means she was doing what she needed to do by her job. The perception and then the exception was all yours and that was never her doing”
Context changed, people changed… the thing that Bob got attached to no longer exists. It has become a floating idea that will never materialise
December 15, 2024 at 2:06 PM
Context changed, people changed… the thing that Bob got attached to no longer exists. It has become a floating idea that will never materialise