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Coach Bear

@coachbeardadbod.bsky.social

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Verse greymuzzle 55yo soft-dom papabear; married, ethical non-monogamist; nips, pits, frot, cigars/pipes, handler, aspiring musclebelly. This is a lurking alt for spicy likes, chat & posting my erotica/hypno; pix are on Telegram: linktr.ee/CoachBearDadBod

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Coach Bear @coachbeardadbod.bsky.social · Nov 11

#ProfileSkeet

Guys ask me, "what do you coach?"

I'm a demi soft dom with a positive-reinforcement kink. I’m interested in compassionate, consensual and emotionally supportive power exchange. Support, guidance, mentoring and a little bit of light discipline to keep you in line...

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Coach Bear @coachbeardadbod.bsky.social · 21m

My kinks are pretty mild. The basics:

Kindness first.

I’m a soft dom into positive reinforcement; I love
emotionally-supportive control & power exchange.

I like pits & musk (not more than a few day’s worth).

Breath control & light impact play if chemistry is good.

Cigar sex if location works.

Coach Bear @coachbeardadbod.bsky.social · 2h

Absolutely. My dad was the best for that, and I try to pay it forward, to the best of my ability. 🩷

Coach Bear @coachbeardadbod.bsky.social · 3h

I like a boy with initiative 😈

Coach Bear @coachbeardadbod.bsky.social · 3h

My dog, and my husband.

Coach Bear @coachbeardadbod.bsky.social · 13h

SAT 10/18 - 2 of 2🧵

“Coach slid his gaze to Ty, Nico & Rafe, his ‘lost boys’ — team players, incredible athletes, yet academic & social misfits. He loved these boys & encouraged them to better themselves. They all had incredible potential, which they showed in spades during tonight’s practice.”

Coach Bear @coachbeardadbod.bsky.social · 13h

SAT 10/18 - 1 of 2🧵

“The gym smelled like sweat & stale pizza. Halloween night, and the team had somehow convinced Coach to let them hold their annual ‘Full Moon Lock-In.’ Most of the team had already headed home, but four of them lingered. Something about the air tonight felt different.”

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Coach Bear @coachbeardadbod.bsky.social · 14h

“Hanging out” one-on-one is something I give priority to close friends, dependent on connection, and most importantly, calendar.

“Getting to know me” is a two-way street. I can’t do all the work.

Come up and say hi at a bar event sometime. I won’t bite.

Coach Bear @coachbeardadbod.bsky.social · 14h

Kinda broad question.

I don’t keep a running list.

My best answer to that is “someone I connect and have chemistry with.”

Coach Bear @coachbeardadbod.bsky.social · 15h

My tongue is ready.

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Coach Bear @coachbeardadbod.bsky.social · 15h

Hop on 😈

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Coach Bear @coachbeardadbod.bsky.social · 15h

The face

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Coach Bear @coachbeardadbod.bsky.social · 18h

Starting a new erotica mini-series: COACH AFTER DARK.

Non-canon one-shots where Coach stays soft-dom sweet while we get weird (werewolves, hypno, monsters, who knows?).

Ep 1: FULL MOON PRACTICE drops tomorrow via daily bite-sized threads 10/18–10/30; full story + finale on 10/31.

AWOOOOOO
🌕 🐺 🐾

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Coach Bear @coachbeardadbod.bsky.social · 18h

Hmmm 🤔

Coach Bear @coachbeardadbod.bsky.social · 19h

Heck yes. I love a sexy sartorial cocktail date.

Always open to carefully removing those nice clothes together after a few cocktails, too 😈

Suit and tie blowjobs are 👌

Coach Bear @coachbeardadbod.bsky.social · 19h

Chilling at home. Friends coming for dinner. Low-key.

Coach Bear @coachbeardadbod.bsky.social · 19h

While topping or bottoming, I love eye contact and having my nipples worked — in a sling or on your/my back.

I also love topping you on your belly/side, straddling a straight leg while the other knee is bent, does that have a name? Pry those cheeks open and get me deeper; makes me cum HARD.

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Coach Bear @coachbeardadbod.bsky.social · 19h

I.E. they’ve never been a gooning/bating thing for me, which is where the coaching would come into play.

I love the sensation of them though — especially on the dance floor.

Coach Bear @coachbeardadbod.bsky.social · 19h

Hmmm. Maybe.

I like poppers but they’re not a real fetish for me, so I don’t think I’d be a good “coach” for them.

I only really started using them again because of Trimix (avoided them for years because of Viagra/Cialis), so without the benefit of that shot, poppers fuck with my boner.

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Coach Bear @coachbeardadbod.bsky.social · 19h

Kindness.

After that, eye contact, kissing, and nipple play.

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Coach Bear @coachbeardadbod.bsky.social · 21h

Also… I mistakenly deleted my previous thread starter for this, so you can find previous answers in my replies. I’ll continue all future replies here on this new thread.

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Coach Bear @coachbeardadbod.bsky.social · 21h

Hit me up, fellas…

ngl.link/coachbear

Anonymous messages!

ngl.link

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Coach Bear @coachbeardadbod.bsky.social · 21h

Very vague. Define “like” — as a friend? As a fuckbuddy? As a good person? As a celebrity? Gotta give me something to work with here.

I don’t have a list of general “likes”.

Coach Bear @coachbeardadbod.bsky.social · 21h

I reckon… DAT AZZ!

Coach Bear @coachbeardadbod.bsky.social · 1d

*grip cigar in gloved hand, blows smoke in your face, arches eyebrow behind mirrored sunglasses*

Coach Bear @coachbeardadbod.bsky.social · 1d

Also, you need to play queer sexy indie arcade brawler STRANGE FLESH, that’s a key game mechanic.

greatestbear.itch.io/strange-flesh

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