Debbie Cribb Owens
cribbowens.bsky.social
Debbie Cribb Owens
@cribbowens.bsky.social
Knock-about writer. Curious person. Caregiver.
#Reflection and renewal
Remembering fondly
What has passed
Letting go of those things
That do not reflect well
To make room for what will
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November 26, 2025 at 12:24 PM
Tuesday before
Thanksgiving
Preparations
Underway
Cooking, cleaning
Laundry, too
Getting ready
For the day
Recipes from
Grandparents
Some creative
Others #timed
Traditions
Culinary
Shared with those whose
Hearts align
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November 25, 2025 at 1:49 PM
What worried me
And made me fret
In my twenties
I find are now
Not #relevant
They seem petty
Small, out of date
And so I try
To remember
What seeks to vex
Me now, today
Will one day feel
As trivial
As those old woes
And go my way
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November 24, 2025 at 12:36 PM
It's amazing what becomes #achievable once you decide that it is. Dreams become goals. Yesterday's goals are today's reality. Tomorrow is determined by what you believe today.
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November 23, 2025 at 1:34 PM
My fitness progress is #measurable over time. Clothes that used to fit fine are now much too baggy. The scales move more slowly, but I have been steadily building muscle, which weighs more. A1C levels have fallen. So far, so good.
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November 22, 2025 at 1:51 PM
I can no longer set daily goals for my father. His condition varies from day to day. But I intentionally set #specific goals for myself. It would be too easy to get bogged down, mentally and physically, without some sense of structure and attainment.
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November 21, 2025 at 1:33 PM
Jerry Seinfeld says that men don't view #action heroes as fantasy figures, but as options. His proof is the guy who rides with a mattress tied down to the roof of his car and his arm out the window holding the mattress, as if he is what will keep it from falling off.
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November 20, 2025 at 1:52 PM
Life is filled with #options. We may not like them, but they are there, nonetheless. Options lead to outcomes. Some feel successful, others regretful. What matters is how we react and what we do next. Choosing not to act is an option with its own set of consequences.
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November 19, 2025 at 1:42 PM
Always wishing
Life were better
Kinder fairer
Different
Kept me bitter
Satisfaction
Just beyond my
Fingertips
Finally I
Let it all go
#Reality
I embraced
Found the beauty
In this moment
After all it's
All I have
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November 18, 2025 at 12:56 PM
I first came here to ensure my father didn't wreck his kidneys with too much sugar and salt. Medical personnel told me I was keeping him alive. The #goal has changed with time. Now I keep watch and try to give him dignity and comfort. Every day, the roulette wheel turns.
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November 17, 2025 at 1:10 PM
When presented with the #issue
She had need of a tissue
For joy can bring on tears
Just as well as griefs and fears
And though her smile did shine
Those tears did trace a line
Down the side of her face
She let them fall with grace
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November 16, 2025 at 1:42 PM
The cost to #transport my bedridden father is prohibitive for all but emergencies. There are procedures that might give him benefit, but not with the disruption of getting him to the facility, which would stress him unduly, never mind the cost. It is frustrating.
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November 15, 2025 at 12:23 PM
#Science was my weakest subject when tested for aptitude before college. To my perverse way of thinking, that meant I needed to concentrate on the sciences to be a more well-rounded person. That's how the former English major became a chemist.
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November 14, 2025 at 12:15 PM
I see the #number on my phone attached to a name I don't recognize. A past caregiver that I've somehow forgotten? Someone from the VA who was important enough to add as contact? The voice at the other end is friendly but abrupt. It's time, Debbie. Begin to let go.
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November 13, 2025 at 3:01 PM
My first love, I eventually learned, was a #myth I had created to attach to a man who was in almost every way wrong for me, as I was for him. Cutting ties was painful. I had invested such misplaced hope in us. Now I know I avoided true heartbreak.
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November 12, 2025 at 1:21 PM
#Measure
Cut
Sew
Necessary skills
For a short person
Hemming pants
That are always
Too long when new
A good tailor
A treasure to know
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November 11, 2025 at 1:52 PM
My people
The writers
Who take an idea
And turn it into
#Literature
To share with others
A meeting of minds
Where author and reader
Contribute together
No two alliances
Exactly the same
Both necessary
For the magic to unfold
#vss365
November 10, 2025 at 1:04 PM
Looney Tunes characters hover in mid-air because they've never studied #law. My father always told me that ignorance of the law is no excuse. Turns out he was right, and I had the skinned knees to prove it.
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November 9, 2025 at 2:18 PM
Humanity's
Most important
Innovation:
#Language
Without it
Cooperation
Would be more
Haphazard
History
Would be lost
Essentially
No love songs
No poetry
How frustrating
It must have been
For our more
Primitive selves
Language
Had to occur
To make us
Who we are
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November 8, 2025 at 1:12 PM
Two strangers with a shared #history, some good, some painful. The early years were wonderful, but little by little, small poisons came between them. Differing opinions became points of contention. After a time, the good they had shared faded into obscurity.
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November 7, 2025 at 1:08 PM
Eighth grade #geography was taught by default. The instructor didn't want to be there any more than her students did. All went through the motions. Little was actually learned or understood.
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November 6, 2025 at 12:46 PM
There have been a few encounters with the rich and #famous over my lifetime, all with elements of serendipity. One evening, in a hotel lobby, a woman I didn't know directed me to the ballroom where a charity dinner was winding down. I shook hands with Fred MacMurray.
#vss365
November 5, 2025 at 1:58 PM
Post-secondary #education is just as vital today as it has ever been. My parents' ideal of a 4-year degree is no longer the answer, however. We also need skilled trades people with business sense. We need properly-trained medical technicians with frequent skill updates.
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November 4, 2025 at 2:22 PM
Behold the #domestic tabby. Its soft fur, soulful eyes, and relaxing purr are all designed to lure you into a sense of benign contentment. Displease it, however, and consequences will be administered swiftly and painfully.
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November 3, 2025 at 12:46 PM
The child dearly loved every #creature God put on this planet, so she was shocked and betrayed when a pet store rat bit down on her finger. Granted, there was a sign that clearly warned against putting fingers in the enclosure, but, in her defense, she couldn't read.
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November 2, 2025 at 11:30 AM