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Alex | Date Like A Nerd
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🎮 Dating Anxiety Coach for Nerds 🕹️ Level up your social skills 👾 Unlock your Player 2. No game required.
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Alex | Date Like A Nerd @datelikeanerd.com · Jun 30
Only 6% of Nerd Couples met on Dating Apps!
I surveyed hundreds of Nerds and found out where they really met their Player 2 (it wasn't apps, bars, or cold approaches), how many started as friends (68%!), and where singles actually go to socialize (spoiler: the wrong places!).
Where Nerds Really Meet Their Player 2 - Date Like A Nerd
Tired of dating advice that feels like it was written for a totally different species? This is a data-based dating guide for nerds!
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Alex | Date Like A Nerd @datelikeanerd.com · 8d
🎧 Press Start and play the games you want without worrying about others!

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Alex | Date Like A Nerd @datelikeanerd.com · 8d
In this episode, Elyse @princessbilbo.bsky.social shares her experience as an asexual woman 🙅‍♀️ From her early teens pretending to have crushes, to struggling to explain to people who couldn't understand or accept her as she is 🤨
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Alex | Date Like A Nerd @datelikeanerd.com · 8d
≠ Many of us are different in one way or another, so we try to fit into the social mold. Many of us have experienced social pressures trying to force us into other people's molds. But that doesn't mean that we have to disrespect our boundaries just to accommodate 🚧
Dating as an Asexual - Date Like A Nerd
Whether it is being asexual, playing video games, or anything else, being different has its challenges. Learn how to overcome them here!
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Alex | Date Like A Nerd @datelikeanerd.com · 22d
🎧 Press Start to discover why leveling up your game may not be worth the grind! 💪

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Alex | Date Like A Nerd @datelikeanerd.com · 22d
👨‍💻 In this episode, a 40-year-old programmer shares his journey from socially isolated nerd to pickup artist practitioner to married father, and the unexpected ways those dating experiences still affect his relationships today 👺
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Alex | Date Like A Nerd @datelikeanerd.com · 22d
💊 What happens when red pill advice "works"? John thought he'd found the cheat code to dating, but after years of grinding bars and clubs, he discovered the hidden costs of building relationships on a foundation of masks 🎭
The Hidden Cost of Finding Love With Red Pill Dating - Date Like A Nerd
💊 What happens when red pill advice "works"? John thought he'd found the cheat code to dating, but he then found the hidden costs 🎭
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Alex | Date Like A Nerd @datelikeanerd.com · Sep 3
🎧 Are you ready to become a social nerd? Press Start!

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Alex | Date Like A Nerd @datelikeanerd.com · Sep 3
In this episode, Pete ‪@be1mont.bsky.social‬ shared how he went from being a shy, quiet, serious kid to being comfortable talking to everyone. Just like Attachment Theory teaches, it often involves the support of other people. In his case, with the help of other nerds who invited him to hang out 🧙‍♂️
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Alex | Date Like A Nerd @datelikeanerd.com · Sep 3
😤 Meeting your Player 2 organically can be a challenging quest. It involves balancing making friends while keeping an eye out for potential connections 🤔
How to Make Nerd Friends - Date Like A Nerd
Meeting your Player 2 organically can be a challenging quest. It involves balancing making friends while keeping an eye out 👀
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Alex | Date Like A Nerd @datelikeanerd.com · Aug 20
In this episode, Kirk shared his challenges to date as a single nerd 😰 He was told that "if you focus on yourself and sort out your life, someone will come." Although that was not the case, he did manage to get a first date! 🙌

🎧 Are you ready? PRESS START! 👾

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From No Dates to Feeling Truly Seen and Accepted - Date Like A Nerd
💔 How can you find someone to date when dating apps aren't working for you, and all you do is work and stay at home? 🧌
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Alex | Date Like A Nerd @datelikeanerd.com · Aug 20
💔 How can you find someone to date when dating apps aren't working, and all you do is work, stay at home, and meet with the same D&D group or play Warhammer 1-on-1? 🧌
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Alex | Date Like A Nerd @datelikeanerd.com · Aug 14
It's much easier to "just be yourself" when you're surrounded by people who make you feel comfortable.

That's only one of many reasons why making friends can help you find a Player 2!
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Alex | Date Like A Nerd @datelikeanerd.com · Aug 6
🎧 If you want to meet someone to give The One Ring to, listen to this episode! 💍

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Alex | Date Like A Nerd @datelikeanerd.com · Aug 6
🧙‍♂️ In this episode, Jose and I discuss what it was like to date within the Argentine Tolkien Association. Just like a Skill Tree, each friend you make can introduce you to others who are similar... until you unlock your Player 2 🕹️
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Alex | Date Like A Nerd @datelikeanerd.com · Aug 6
👯 What does dating within a nerd community look like? Finding a group you're comfortable with can help you "just be yourself" and find your Player 2 🙌 It also means you'll be enjoying yourself until that happens, which makes you much more attractive!
Dating In The Tolkien Association - Date Like A Nerd
What does dating within a nerd community look like? Finding a group you're comfortable with can help you "just be yourself" and find love.
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Alex | Date Like A Nerd @datelikeanerd.com · Jul 23
🎧 Listen now and start choosing the best challenges for your player type! 🦾

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What Your Video Game Choices Say About You - Date Like A Nerd
🦾 Succeed IRL with your gamer skills! Reach achievements similar to your video game preferences! Press Start! 🕹️
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Alex | Date Like A Nerd @datelikeanerd.com · Jul 23
🖤 Dating, like most things in life, has its own set of challenges. The cheat code is to choose the ones you're most likely to enjoy ⛰️

In this episode, Dr. Daniel Kaufmann ‪@drgameology.bsky.social‬ is back to share how you can succeed IRL by learning what you value in video games! 🎮
What Your Video Game Choices Say About You - Date Like A Nerd
🦾 Succeed IRL with your gamer skills! Reach achievements similar to your video game preferences! Press Start! 🕹️
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Alex | Date Like A Nerd @datelikeanerd.com · Jul 9
If you want a Player 2 who joins your nerd Quests, this is the episode for you! 🧙

🎧 Press Start to go on an adventure... for two! ⛰️

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Alex | Date Like A Nerd @datelikeanerd.com · Jul 9
📆 High school crushes don't have to end with the academic year. Sometimes, relationships may respawn much later 💍

In this episode, Pete @be1mont.bsky.social shares how he lost contact with his high school crush, only to meet again 10 years later at their high school reunion 🧑‍🏫
The High School Reunion - Date Like A Nerd
Pete "Belmont" shares how he lost contact with his high school crush, only to meet again 10 years later at their high school reunion
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Alex | Date Like A Nerd @datelikeanerd.com · Jul 9
If you want a Player 2 who joins your nerd Quests, this is the episode for you! 🧙

🎧 Press Start to go on an adventure... for two! ⛰️

www.datelikeanerd.com/podcast/the-...
The High School Reunion - Date Like A Nerd
Pete "Belmont" shares how he lost contact with his high school crush, only to meet again 10 years later at their high school reunion
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Alex | Date Like A Nerd @datelikeanerd.com · Jul 9
If you want a Player 2 who joins your nerd Quests, this is the episode for you! 🧙

🎧 Press Start to go on an adventure... for two! ⛰️

www.datelikeanerd.com/podcast/the-...
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Alex | Date Like A Nerd @datelikeanerd.com · Jun 30
Do you want to start doing what actually works to find your player 2?

Here's the full report and a complete data-driven guide for your Quest for love!

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Alex | Date Like A Nerd @datelikeanerd.com · Jun 30
Only 6% of Nerd Couples met on Dating Apps!
I surveyed hundreds of Nerds and found out where they really met their Player 2 (it wasn't apps, bars, or cold approaches), how many started as friends (68%!), and where singles actually go to socialize (spoiler: the wrong places!).
Where Nerds Really Meet Their Player 2 - Date Like A Nerd
Tired of dating advice that feels like it was written for a totally different species? This is a data-based dating guide for nerds!
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Alex | Date Like A Nerd @datelikeanerd.com · Jun 30
Do you want to start doing what actually works to find your player 2?

Here's the full report and a complete data-driven guide for your Quest for love!
datelikeanerd.com/reality
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Alex | Date Like A Nerd @datelikeanerd.com · Jun 25
🎧 Ready to level up your social life and unlock the Tolkien branch of your social tree? Press start and let’s go on an adventure! 🧙‍♂️

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