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Denoteboom13 @denoteboom13.bsky.social · 1d

No? The one time I actually relied on them, they started leaking as soon as I started peeing. And today in the shower, it held nothing at all. The effort of poking holes and doubling up wasn't worth the meager bulk that it added. I genuinely don't know what I will do with the rest of these.

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Denoteboom13 @denoteboom13.bsky.social · 1d

In the strictest sense, it was college when I went from Thursday night until Monday morning never changing and only adding layers. In the more general sense, even with two or three boosters I don't last longer than 18 hours before I have to do something. Shower and change or add another layer...

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Denoteboom13 @denoteboom13.bsky.social · 1d

I'm always willing to visit other diaper boys. The question is whether or not I have time in my schedule. Right now I'm already booking out into January, if that gives you any idea of how stupid my life is.

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Denoteboom13 @denoteboom13.bsky.social · 1d

...and they left their spare diapers and their underwear at my parents' house. So now I have them with me for the next time they visit I guess?

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Denoteboom13 @denoteboom13.bsky.social · 1d

...Saturday morning she got jealous of the fact that I wouldn't have to stop by the bathroom at the Ren Faire. We stopped by @mydiaperdepot.bsky.social so that the two of them could get something to wear and it was nearly the same price to get two each. So I diapered them up for the RenFest...(2/3)

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Denoteboom13 @denoteboom13.bsky.social · 1d

Thanks! No, he and I will be in Cincinnati doing Thanksgiving with my family this year. And this coworker. She and her girlfriend were coming to Cincinnati with me to do Oktoberfest and the Renaissance Festival and Kings Island. Friday, Saturday, Sunday. We did Oktoberfest with my family and...(1/3)

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Denoteboom13 @denoteboom13.bsky.social · 1d

My favorite trip was my Salt Lake City camping trip, but my favorite place was Camogli, Italy. So gorgeous. So tasty. So laid back. And did I mention that it's tasty and gorgeous? That was where my honeymoon ended and I'd love to go back under different circumstances.

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Denoteboom13 @denoteboom13.bsky.social · 1d

If he needs changed, but usually it's more like doubling him up. He likes his diapers thicker than I do, so it's not often that he wants to be changed. And I know how that goes.

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Denoteboom13 @denoteboom13.bsky.social · 1d

I never considered myself dom or daddy. The whole conversation around dom/sub made me kind of uncomfortable, but it just feels natural with him. I'm exploring it and I genuinely have no idea what I'm doing but it seems to be working out very well

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Denoteboom13 @denoteboom13.bsky.social · 1d

In MY life, I wish that I hadn't put up with mediocrity for so long. In life in general, I wish that it weren't taboo to speak your feelings. How many movies wouldn't even exist if people just communicated with each other? Life doesn't have to be hard; why make it difficult?

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Denoteboom13 @denoteboom13.bsky.social · 1d

Only if I don't have another choice. If my morning meeting is going over and I'm not going to make it to the bathroom before it ends. And then it's straight into the shower.

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Denoteboom13 @denoteboom13.bsky.social · 1d

I do love hanging out with other diapered boys, but messing is just not my thing.

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Denoteboom13 @denoteboom13.bsky.social · 1d

I don't keep one. I put on enough diapers to last me the whole day. But I did do this when I was packing for the wedding in Baltimore...

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Denoteboom13 @denoteboom13.bsky.social · 1d

Somebody who never got into Friends, Lawrence. She has done a lot and also she just seems fun to be around.

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Denoteboom13 @denoteboom13.bsky.social · 1d

Well, Marie Kondo, the opportunity to do something I enjoy uninhibited by cost or available space or available time. Designing a battery conditioning circuit for my Insight. Building an engine because I want to, not because I need to. Spending time with somebody who wants to spend time with me.

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Denoteboom13 @denoteboom13.bsky.social · 1d

Uh, hello! (?)

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Denoteboom13 @denoteboom13.bsky.social · 1d

...know that it was possible to feel this way. That THIS is the love that everybody talked about. I feel like I'm living in a Hallmark movie and he keeps saying the same to me. "To have loved and lost" makes a hell of a lot more sense to me now than I did two years ago when I was truly lost.

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Denoteboom13 @denoteboom13.bsky.social · 1d

Thanks! I've said this a lot recently, but my life doesn't feel real at the moment. I was out of town for a week and when I came back I discovered that my water heater had ruptured and flooded my basement. And even then, these past two weeks have been the happiest of my life. I genuinely didn't(1/2)

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Denoteboom13 @denoteboom13.bsky.social · 1d

Very much yes. I have discovered that I wasn't asexual; he was just really bad at sex. While I haven't had penetrative sex since May 11th, 2013 (Thanks for the reminder, Twitter), I have had more fun with the new BF than I ever had resenting sex with my ex. I very much want to try again with him.

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Denoteboom13 @denoteboom13.bsky.social · 1d

Get out. I thought that I could make it work and I thought that things would change. Fortunately, he made that decision for me.

And now, two years later, I learned that he's doing the same thing to his new boyfriend.

People don't change. Find somebody who's worthy of you. They are out there.

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Denoteboom13 @denoteboom13.bsky.social · 1d

Second time we hung out, we traded diapers as soon as he got here. The rule at the time was that we could only pee in each other's diapers. We live very normal lives aren't 24/7 so when I'm not diapered and he is, I use his diaper. And vice versa. And yes, he puts me in his diaper when he's done.

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Denoteboom13 @denoteboom13.bsky.social · 1d

On @diaper-bois.com ! I was trying to build a community and was reaching out to local people to plan a get-together. He responded and we really hit it off!

I tell my family that we met on the internet.

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Denoteboom13 @denoteboom13.bsky.social · 1d

No thanks

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Denoteboom13 @denoteboom13.bsky.social · 1d

Idk who this is or what party took place in 2019 or before, but I tend to hang out with people who are interesting and have fun things to say. Whoever you are, know that we talked because I genuinely enjoyed conversation with you.

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Denoteboom13 @denoteboom13.bsky.social · 1d

I absolutely very much want to have a wedding again. And do it right this time. But in terms of filling out the paperwork and being legally married, I'm not sure that I do. I got no benefit from it when we were together and it really fucked me over when we separated.

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