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The first site and mobile resource with searchable data for domestic violence programs in US/Canada + resources for those experiencing domestic abuse.

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DomesticShelters.org @domesticshelters.bsky.social · Oct 6
💜 10M people search monthly for help with domestic abuse. This Domestic Violence Awareness Month, your gift to DomesticShelters.org helps survivors find answers, support & hope. Donate today 👉 zpr.io/cc3isEybiAjs

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Survivors: custody outcomes can hinge on how you document abuse.
Digitize and organize child-centered records and credible third-party proof so evaluators see patterns. Have you started an evidence file?

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#CustodyEvidence
7 Tips for Custody Evidence After Domestic Violence
Custody evaluators will need to see evidence of domestic violence in order to have a reason to keep kids away from an abusive parent. Help them by organizing your documents clearly.
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November 27, 2025 at 1:30 AM
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📊 North Dakota domestic violence facts and figures show an urgent need for support and prevention. People should learn more and support local resources. 💜

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#EndDVND
North Dakota Domestic Violence Help, Programs and Statistics
Find help and statistics for North Dakota`s 21 domestic violence programs located in 17 cities that provide help for dealing with domestic abuse.
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November 26, 2025 at 10:01 PM
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Being forced to get a tattoo wasn’t the worst abuse Kate endured, but it became the longest-lasting reminder. No one should be pressured to mark their body for someone else.

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#ForcedTattoos
Some Abusers Force Victims into a Tattoo
An abuser who forces a partner to get tattooed is branding them as a form of control and possession.
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November 26, 2025 at 5:04 PM
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This Thanksgiving, we’re thankful for you. 💜
Your support, shares, and compassion help bring hope to survivors every day.

Wishing you safety, rest, and peace this holiday.

#ThankfulForYou
November 26, 2025 at 3:01 PM
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That "I love you" tattoo was actually a mark of control. Tattoos can be used as abuse; Molly covered hers to reclaim her body and heal. Have you seen someone turn a mark of harm into strength? 💬

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#InkToHealing
A New Story in Ink: One Survivors Tattoo Transformation
Some abusive partners brand their victims with tattoos. Learn how survivor tattoos help domestic violence survivors reclaim their bodies.
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November 26, 2025 at 1:30 PM
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💡 This guide gives teens clear, honest answers about who to date, when to date, and what counts as love vs friendship, using humor and real-life insight to foster healthier choices. Encourage sharing and reading 💜

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#TeenTalk
November 26, 2025 at 1:30 AM
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Abusive dads often fight custody, and your child's safety can be on the line. They're likelier to contest and may win extra unsupervised time; witnesses, evaluators and family can protect—or put—kids at risk. Who would you trust? 🧡

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#ChildSafetyInCustody
Who Are All the People Involved in My Child Custody Case?
A guide to all of the various experts involved in a custody court hearing.
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November 25, 2025 at 10:01 PM
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If custody follows abuse, clear evidence can protect your child.

Have you organized your evidence? Share tips to help others.

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#EvidenceForCustody
7 Tips for Custody Evidence After Domestic Violence
Custody evaluators will need to see evidence of domestic violence in order to have a reason to keep kids away from an abusive parent. Help them by organizing your documents clearly.
zpr.io
November 25, 2025 at 5:04 PM
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📣 Residents of North Dakota seeking domestic violence support can find local program information and confidential assistance. They are encouraged to reach out for help. Learn more and contact services today. 💜

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#NDHelp
North Dakota Domestic Violence Help, Programs and Statistics
Find help and statistics for North Dakota`s 21 domestic violence programs located in 17 cities that provide help for dealing with domestic abuse.
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November 25, 2025 at 1:30 PM
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Kate survived years of abuse, including being coerced into tattooing her boyfriend’s name on her hip. What felt like “a personal slice of hell” was actually control. Survivors deserve autonomy and safety. 💜

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#CoerciveControlAwareness
Some Abusers Force Victims into a Tattoo
An abuser who forces a partner to get tattooed is branding them as a form of control and possession.
zpr.io
November 25, 2025 at 1:30 AM
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Some tattoos are tools of control, not love. Molly covered a forced mark and reclaimed her body; safe, empathetic support helped her heal. How would you support a survivor of symbolic abuse? 💬

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#SupportSurvivors
A New Story in Ink: One Survivors Tattoo Transformation
Some abusive partners brand their victims with tattoos. Learn how survivor tattoos help domestic violence survivors reclaim their bodies.
zpr.io
November 24, 2025 at 10:00 PM
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🚫 Survivors who received lavish gifts from an abusive partner were often pressured to reciprocate. Gifts don't erase abuse and consent can't be bought. Reach out for support and safety resources. 💜

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#GiftTrap
November 24, 2025 at 5:03 PM
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Strangulation and head trauma are major causes of brain injury in DV survivors. Ohio’s CARE framework offers free tools to support trauma-informed services. 💜

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#DomesticViolence
Hidden in Plain Sight: Traumatic Brain Injury, Strangulation and Domestic Violence Webinar
Identify Abuse
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November 23, 2025 at 10:01 PM
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🌱 This podcast from two life coaches guides survivors on self-care and rebuilding resilience during and after escaping abuse. Practical strategies and compassionate mentorship. Listen now 💜

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#SelfCare
Domestic Violence Podcasts
Check out these domestic violence podcasts that cover a wide range of topics
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November 23, 2025 at 5:02 PM
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A 'love' tattoo can be a mark of control. Molly covered hers and turned a symbol of abuse into empowerment; healing often comes with safe, empathetic support. How can we better support survivors reclaiming their bodies? 💬

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#SurvivorEmpowerment
A New Story in Ink: One Survivors Tattoo Transformation
Some abusive partners brand their victims with tattoos. Learn how survivor tattoos help domestic violence survivors reclaim their bodies.
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November 23, 2025 at 3:20 PM
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Even Kim Kardashian wasn’t immune to financial abuse—proof DV doesn’t discriminate. This week: a survivor granted parole after 8 years and new AI tools helping identify abuse, but control tactics continue.

Read this week’s DV headlines:

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#EndDV
Domestic Violence Headlines for the Week of Nov. 17
A woman who served 8 years in jail for killing the man who abused her is released on parole.
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November 21, 2025 at 9:10 PM
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🧠 Blame-shifting pushes responsibility onto others; abusers insist they're not the problem, making survivors question themselves—'Is it their fault? Are they to blame?' Spot the tactic and urge survivors to get support. 💜

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#BreakFree
What Is Blame-Shifting?
Blame-shifting is a manipulation tactic used by abusers. Learn how it affects victims and ways to regain control and clarity.
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November 21, 2025 at 5:03 PM
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🚨 A new review examines how many domestic violence organizations in North Carolina offer emergency services. Findings show gaps in coverage—read the report and support local resources. Learn more 💜

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#DVHelpNC
North Carolina Domestic Violence Help, Programs and Statistics
Find help and statistics for North Carolina`s 95 domestic violence programs located in 80 cities that provide help for dealing with domestic abuse.
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November 21, 2025 at 1:30 AM
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💜 A survivor feels powerless to leave an abusive partner but is tired of walking on eggshells. She deserves safety and support; encourage her to reach out to local resources or a trusted person for help. 📞

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#YouAreNotAlone
Ask Amanda: Escaping an Abuser—Is It Time to Get Help?
Survivors often feel trapped and powerless in abusive relationships. One woman reaches out for help to find safety for herself and her child.
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November 20, 2025 at 10:00 PM
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🌱 They find strength not in never being broken but in growing strong in the broken places. Encourage others to embrace that courage — share to inspire 💜

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#Stronger
November 20, 2025 at 5:03 PM
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⚠️ Survivors of military abuse face restricted finances, retaliation, and dual legal systems that can favor servicemembers. They should discreetly plan exits, secure documents, protect communications, and seek military‑DV legal help and allies. 💜 Act now.

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#SafeExit
How to Divorce an Abusive Spouse Military Edition
Domestic violence in the military: A survivor's journey and essential advice for navigating a complex system to safety.
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November 20, 2025 at 1:30 PM
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⚠️ Abusers often refuse responsibility, shifting blame onto survivors. This minimizes harm and hinders healing. Communities can support survivors by sharing resources and speaking out. Learn more. 💜

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#NoBlame
What Is Blame-Shifting?
Blame-shifting is a manipulation tactic used by abusers. Learn how it affects victims and ways to regain control and clarity.
zpr.io
November 20, 2025 at 1:30 AM
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🔎 A snapshot of North Carolina domestic violence facts shows rising reports, service gaps, and urgent need for prevention. Conclusion: readers are urged to support survivors and share local resources. 💜

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#StopDVNC
North Carolina Domestic Violence Help, Programs and Statistics
Find help and statistics for North Carolina`s 95 domestic violence programs located in 80 cities that provide help for dealing with domestic abuse.
zpr.io
November 19, 2025 at 10:01 PM
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A survivor shared that her husband hit her again, leaving her scared and hopeless. Her daughter is afraid too, and counseling didn’t change his behavior.

If this feels familiar, you’re not alone. 💜

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#YouAreNotAlone
Ask Amanda: Escaping an Abuser—Is It Time to Get Help?
Survivors often feel trapped and powerless in abusive relationships. One woman reaches out for help to find safety for herself and her child.
zpr.io
November 19, 2025 at 5:02 PM
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💜 Court-ordered custody evaluations and home visits can feel invasive to domestic violence survivors; evaluators review evidence, interview and observe parenting. They should document, prepare and seek legal help. 🔎

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#BondNow
Parenting Under Scrutiny: Navigating Custody Observations After Domestic Violence
Custody evaluations can be stressful for survivors of abuse, but knowing what’s to come can help you prepare.
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November 19, 2025 at 1:30 PM