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elipheleh.bsky.social
eli
@elipheleh.bsky.social
eli. they/them. adult. disabled.

dont ascribe malice to what is likely misinterpretation. kindness is my default.

i regularly delay posting things for privacy.
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introduce yourself thing
- here i go by eli/elipheleh & use they/them
- severely chronically ill (limited energy, severe pain, cognitive issues*)
- doctor who & big finish are my main sources of entertainment
- torchwood & rwrb sp-ins
- i sometimes blog^
- my following list is very selective
the podcast title for this week has me going “im not sure i want to hear u guys talk about that actually”
i’ll listen, but… come on now.
December 15, 2025 at 12:45 PM
missing people and missing affection
December 14, 2025 at 7:59 PM
Reposted by eli
not sure if im more upset the youtube video i went looking for has been deleted or that it was uploaded seventeen years ago…
December 14, 2025 at 3:54 AM
not sure if im more upset the youtube video i went looking for has been deleted or that it was uploaded seventeen years ago…
December 14, 2025 at 3:54 AM
i think its deeply fascinating that i often cant feel my own feelings but the tv show presenting heartbreak and jealousy and.. almost grief(?) i can physically feel in my chest
December 12, 2025 at 8:50 PM
Reposted by eli
when i like your vent posts i need you to picture me nodding my head and muttering “you’re right, you don’t deserve that”
December 6, 2025 at 12:46 AM
i am deep into the depression pit and every claw out eventually slides me back down
December 11, 2025 at 11:43 PM
the most important christmas song, of course:
Wombling Merry Christmas
open.spotify.com
December 10, 2025 at 8:03 PM
Reposted by eli
British culture has normalised genderfluidity for literal centuries. We're traditionally obsessed with disrupted sex roles, with drag, with bi-romanticism, with gay transvestite celebrities. So HOW THE HELL DID *WE* END UP AS TERF ISLAND? It's like the Swiss becoming The People Who Resent Chocolate.
December 9, 2025 at 6:08 AM
Reposted by eli
Xmas chocolate tub lids are deliberately made to open with the sound of 1000 cars backfiring, to alert the household you're scoffing them too early.
December 9, 2025 at 2:31 PM
ive been trying to decide which christmas song i listen to first

its either “stop the cavalry” or the “john denver and the muppets at christmas” album. i am torn.
December 8, 2025 at 11:28 PM
that was limited time only

(because i decided i didn’t want that knowledge public)
December 8, 2025 at 11:26 PM
it was so worth it.
currently watching the new episode of a tv show i like 2-5 minutes at a time because im too exhausted to actually watch it but i really really want to see what happens. such a delightful existence (/sarcasm).

[grateful i can manage this cos im pretty sure i wont be able to in a few days]

#SevereME
December 8, 2025 at 12:56 PM
Reposted by eli
As I've just done so here is a reminder that if you need meds over the Xmas period, order them now. I couldn't imagine Xmas without my mad pills.

PSA.
December 8, 2025 at 11:46 AM
currently watching the new episode of a tv show i like 2-5 minutes at a time because im too exhausted to actually watch it but i really really want to see what happens. such a delightful existence (/sarcasm).

[grateful i can manage this cos im pretty sure i wont be able to in a few days]

#SevereME
December 8, 2025 at 12:21 AM
i started watching the redo of the sea devils
and i cant remember if theyve moved the scene of the workers getting attacked in the lighthouse or if thats where it always was lol
i had thought it opened with it originally?

glad to see they kept the clangers in tho.
December 7, 2025 at 9:20 PM
“Four people have been arrested after custard and apple crumble were flung at a display case containing part of the Crown Jewels at the Tower of London.”

we are a stereotype
December 6, 2025 at 1:48 PM
misery guts
December 5, 2025 at 4:56 PM
ummmmmmmm
December 5, 2025 at 12:28 AM
me: scope found disabled households need £1095/month on average to be equitable with nondisabled
someone: well *i* dont have any extra costs from being disabled IM not leeching off the government


me: yeh ok quick question do you know what “on average” means
December 4, 2025 at 5:46 PM
nothing like a full cinematic style realistic dream about your dad dying to lighten your mood… oof ouch.
December 4, 2025 at 9:03 AM
this audiobook was not edited properly and they left in a load of the re-done lines
its only a short one so im not skipping it but its annoying every time
December 3, 2025 at 8:31 PM
spotify wrapped overview (& thread)
December 3, 2025 at 3:00 PM
i can only apologise for the person i am about to become in sharing spotify wrapped
December 3, 2025 at 2:41 PM
gave into the sleepy cosy comfy and remembered why i dont - waking up is like clawing my way up from hell to purgatory after a nice peaceful stretch in heaven
why can i not be sleepy cosy comfy at bedtime?
why must it happen 4 hours prior??
December 3, 2025 at 3:10 AM